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In reply to the discussion: Two girls murdered in Texas taxi: Were they honor killings? [View all]Recursion
(56,582 posts)36. “Family Annihilators”: Understanding What Drives Fathers to Kill
http://healthland.time.com/2013/08/15/family-annihilators-understanding-what-drives-fathers-to-kill
The newspaper accounts of 59 cases contained enough information for the researchers to classify family annihilators into four types of men: what they called self-righteous, anomic, paranoid and disappointed.
The self-righteous men were those who defined themselves as breadwinners and were devastated by losing that identity, often after breaking up with their spouse. After a family split, the researchers believe some decide to exact revenge through murder, blaming their actions on ex-partners who they see as responsible for the change. The self righteous family annihilator engages in a dramatic performance of his domineering, masculine identity, they write, providing the example of a man who picked up his kids on Fathers Day, filled the car with deadly amounts carbon monoxide and tried to trick his wife into setting off an explosive device.
Disappointed fathers like Riaz felt that the family had let them down, dashing their expectations and destroying whatever he desired from the familial relationships. The word anomic describes a state in which social norms are absent; those subjects viewed their families as economic indicators or a means of displaying economic success. And if the father failed financially, the researchers say, the family becomes obsolete, as in the case of a millionaire who killed his family after falling millions of dollars into debt. The paranoid father likely has mental health issues and believes that there is some external threat to the family; he might, for instance, be willing to kill his children because he so feared losing them in a custody battle with his ex-wife.
The self-righteous men were those who defined themselves as breadwinners and were devastated by losing that identity, often after breaking up with their spouse. After a family split, the researchers believe some decide to exact revenge through murder, blaming their actions on ex-partners who they see as responsible for the change. The self righteous family annihilator engages in a dramatic performance of his domineering, masculine identity, they write, providing the example of a man who picked up his kids on Fathers Day, filled the car with deadly amounts carbon monoxide and tried to trick his wife into setting off an explosive device.
Disappointed fathers like Riaz felt that the family had let them down, dashing their expectations and destroying whatever he desired from the familial relationships. The word anomic describes a state in which social norms are absent; those subjects viewed their families as economic indicators or a means of displaying economic success. And if the father failed financially, the researchers say, the family becomes obsolete, as in the case of a millionaire who killed his family after falling millions of dollars into debt. The paranoid father likely has mental health issues and believes that there is some external threat to the family; he might, for instance, be willing to kill his children because he so feared losing them in a custody battle with his ex-wife.
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One wonders if the victims of the Charleston church shooting would have agreed with that sentiment..
LanternWaste
Jun 2015
#6
I shit on your post. "Crimes of Passion" are between jilted LOVERS, not dads and their daughters
Pooka Fey
Jun 2015
#14
Okasha: "This behavior is not exclusive to Islam or to Third World cultures."
Pooka Fey
Jun 2015
#16
"I know how to invent an "Honor Killings" equivalent for the WEST - A new MADE UP word!!!
Pooka Fey
Jun 2015
#52
"Honor" killings are perpetrated because the killer believes the women are being unchaste.
Nuclear Unicorn
Jun 2015
#41
A USA dad can "honor kill" his daughter for refusing the husband he picked for her? Really?
Pooka Fey
Jun 2015
#50
You are giving cover to the asshole honor besmirched killers here in the US. Why?
boston bean
Jun 2015
#40
So now we're broadening the topic to include the entire subject of violence against women?
whathehell
Jun 2015
#56
Um, no. American and European families of non-Islamic heritage don't murder their kids for "honor"
whathehell
Jun 2015
#59
Family annihilators kill because they feel they are no longer the head of the household.
Nuclear Unicorn
Jun 2015
#42
I guess I see the "sin" in the Islamic case as secondary: he does it from shame
Recursion
Jun 2015
#51