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54. I have a cartoon which shows someone from New York talking with someone from the West Coast..

Sun Jun 28, 2015, 02:55 PM

Jun 2015

The New Yorker says ""Screw You Asshole" While the bubble above his head is showing that he is thinking "Have a nice day"

The person from the West coast said "Have a nice day", while the balloon of his thoughts said "Screw you asshole".

I see what you mean, and agree with you that people who hide their racism can seem worse than those who tell you up front. I live 35 miles from the Whitopia of Coeur d'Alene Idaho, in the almost as White Spokane, and having lived the previous 50 years in the South, you are describing the difference accurately.

I don't pretend to say how things are for everyone, but I can damn sure tell you what my experience has been and is - ymmv.

In the South you pretty well know where you stand - you may not like it, but at least the people have the backbone to tell you to your face.

The people up North will let you go on believing, and then stab you in the back when you are not looking. Their morals are much more slippery. And because they hide so much, you simply can't trust them.

Look around. Where do you see black folks in power, and owning assets? We don't have confederate flags, and mostly don't have black business owners and property owners either.

The South is bad, but at least you know when there is a flag on the legislature you aren't welcome. Up here it's been my experience that they are mostly cowards when it comes to race, and let you go further and get you when your back is turned, so the press isn't nearly so bad, and people can pretend not to see it. Up here, I don't think they need a flag to tell someone they aren't welcome.

There is no better or worse. Racism is still racism.

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Southerners have got to realize that Margaret Mitchell was a writer of fiction. [View all] kpete Jun 2015 OP

Kicking AuntPatsy Jun 2015 #1

So was Newt Gingrich... Wounded Bear Jun 2015 #2

And ironically, that ass was born and raised BumRushDaShow Jun 2015 #3

But they're Southern by the grace of Gawwwd! kcr Jun 2015 #4

Ramp up the whining???? CherokeeDem Jun 2015 #6

I know. Spreading the hate of bigotry. It's so annoying, isn't it? kcr Jun 2015 #8

You should know.... CherokeeDem Jun 2015 #10

What is so bad about hating bigotry? n/t kcr Jun 2015 #11

Only certain kinds of bigotry though right npk Jun 2015 #15

Riiiight kcr Jun 2015 #19

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Worth noting that she didn't steal the flag TexasBushwhacker Jun 2015 #73

+1! Enthusiast Jun 2015 #75

There is nothing wrong with hating bigotry.... CherokeeDem Jun 2015 #18

Refusing to pretend that it's the same everywhere kcr Jun 2015 #20

It's not even the same in the South npk Jun 2015 #24

The government is its people kcr Jun 2015 #25

Wow ok file that away also npk Jun 2015 #27

I lived in the south for 15 years kcr Jun 2015 #30

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My goodness... CherokeeDem Jun 2015 #28

I must be, because at least I noticed that little detail n/t kcr Jun 2015 #31

LOL.... CherokeeDem Jun 2015 #36

My Southern state doesn't. Fawke Em Jun 2015 #79

southerners need to learn this lesson: YOU LOST - GET THE FUCK OVER IT Skittles Jun 2015 #78

Not "Southerners." Fawke Em Jun 2015 #80

a LOT of southerners Skittles Jun 2015 #82

I've lived here all my life and I still say it's, "some." Fawke Em Jun 2015 #83

SKITTLES, COLORS OF THE RAINBOW Skittles Jun 2015 #85

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That is no leap... CherokeeDem Jun 2015 #17

I did not write this. I insinuate nothing. I found the article thought-provoking. I shared it. kpete Jun 2015 #23

You posted it.... CherokeeDem Jun 2015 #33

I posted the link in my original post kpete Jun 2015 #38

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I know... CherokeeDem Jun 2015 #53

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Oh for God's sake, have some common sense. NuclearDem Jun 2015 #42

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OK if it's my heritage treestar Jun 2015 #58

It is your heritage.... CherokeeDem Jun 2015 #64

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No racism at all! But lemme tell you about those Italians though... NuclearDem Jun 2015 #49

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