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Major Nikon

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5. Sex between consenting adults is none of my business

Wed Jul 8, 2015, 11:08 AM

Jul 2015

That should be the common ground, but strangely enough isn't. There's already too many people on the right trying to run other people's sex lives.

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The Polyamorous Neighbors You Don't Know [View all] TygrBright Jul 2015 OP

"Hi Honeys! I'm home!" (nt) Nye Bevan Jul 2015 #1

This is what I don't get. prayin4rain Jul 2015 #2

No, every person is NOT polyamourous. MineralMan Jul 2015 #6

Interesting. prayin4rain Jul 2015 #9

I guess it's a good thing for you serial monogamy is legal (divorce hasn't always been). n/t PoliticAverse Jul 2015 #54

Some people are asexual, in which case they are neither polyamorous nor monogamous. (eom) StevieM Jul 2015 #35

True. prayin4rain Jul 2015 #36

Dammit! I missed one! Iggo Jul 2015 #3

Right behind you. Orrex Jul 2015 #8

Yup. ismnotwasm Jul 2015 #15

I'm behind you on this too! JustAnotherGen Jul 2015 #27

THANK you! Le Taz Hot Jul 2015 #4

Sex between consenting adults is none of my business Major Nikon Jul 2015 #5

Citation, please? I haven't seen anyone here trying to run anyone else's sex lives. Orrex Jul 2015 #10

That's true Major Nikon Jul 2015 #48

the more adults there are the harder to have consent treestar Jul 2015 #81

Harder to find people willing to consent to such a thing, undoubtedly Major Nikon Jul 2015 #82

Excellent post Bonx Jul 2015 #7

Polyamory is fine. Institutionalized patriarchy as exemplified by polygamy not so much. riderinthestorm Jul 2015 #11

"Institutionalized patriarchy as exemplified by fundamentalist religious polygyny " not so much. TygrBright Jul 2015 #12

Completely agree but I haven't seen anyone address the legal framework question riderinthestorm Jul 2015 #14

Actually, I think I just did. The framework for marriage in industrialized societies is contract law TygrBright Jul 2015 #17

Marriage isn't contract law. It's why civil unions were always seen as second best riderinthestorm Jul 2015 #23

You asked about a legal framework as the basis. No, marriage isn't "civil union." TygrBright Jul 2015 #42

So since you're the first person to try to answer the legalities riderinthestorm Jul 2015 #52

These are actually questions that have already been tested, to some extent. TygrBright Jul 2015 #56

The laws are set up for serial monogamy. riderinthestorm Jul 2015 #58

Serial Monogamists run into the same situation. haele Jul 2015 #57

Nope. Serial monogamy is NOT the same as polygamy. riderinthestorm Jul 2015 #59

you are delusional... luvspeas Jul 2015 #32

A team of lawyers could handle the legal changes. Mojorabbit Jul 2015 #34

Just like that ? MattBaggins Jul 2015 #62

Modify existing parameters. Doable. nt Mojorabbit Jul 2015 #64

An army of lawyers and 50 years maybe MattBaggins Jul 2015 #66

They are already able to navigate confusing Mojorabbit Jul 2015 #67

not even MattBaggins Jul 2015 #68

"women and children are not well served by polygamy as its exemplified now" I agree. n/t prayin4rain Jul 2015 #13

It's pretty simple really Major Nikon Jul 2015 #55

sorry to offend but that is a libertarian naive comment MattBaggins Jul 2015 #63

I don't belive you are sorry to offend Major Nikon Jul 2015 #69

It is naive MattBaggins Jul 2015 #73

I didn't say anything about dissolving tort law or family courts Major Nikon Jul 2015 #74

Ahh you don't realize that courts and law MattBaggins Jul 2015 #75

Yeah, in the same way they are involved in everything else that doesn't concern marriage Major Nikon Jul 2015 #76

I don't have much respect for people who focus their entire lives on sexual gratification. underahedgerow Jul 2015 #16

I don't have much respect for non sequiturs Bonx Jul 2015 #18

I agree. Marriage is about so much more than sex. TygrBright Jul 2015 #19

The OP connected up the poly-whatever thingy to swingers... which is about.... sex. underahedgerow Jul 2015 #21

Maybe you missed this part of the OP. Your replies here sound to me rather like those who uppityperson Jul 2015 #41

It's also about rights. Tatiana La Belle Jul 2015 #65

Ironic that you're practically the only one talking about that in this thread then Cal Carpenter Jul 2015 #20

Buuuuut it's the entire point of the OP. And the entire point of the whole issue. This whole underahedgerow Jul 2015 #22

Sounds like a good time to start screwing The2ndWheel Jul 2015 #24

Pfft what for? It'll be over with in 2 minutes. underahedgerow Jul 2015 #25

Damn! Two minutes? Le Taz Hot Jul 2015 #31

lol, why men, of course! underahedgerow Jul 2015 #38

I haven't posted on any of the threads about this topic before Cal Carpenter Jul 2015 #28

Message auto-removed Name removed Jul 2015 #29

Welcome to DU. Le Taz Hot Jul 2015 #33

Golf is a genuine sport requiring skill. It's social, doesn't cause someone to destroy their careers underahedgerow Jul 2015 #37

Message auto-removed Name removed Jul 2015 #45

Is "the LGBT spectrum" a "lifestyle"? You says it's not a "lifestyle choice", but is it a lifestyle uppityperson Jul 2015 #46

Yes, in the definition as "a way of life". underahedgerow Jul 2015 #61

I must ask something, isn't this almost everyone? Humanist_Activist Jul 2015 #39

Exactly. Nothing is wrong with it at all, but gosh, we're bombarded by sexualised messages allllll underahedgerow Jul 2015 #43

Uhm, this isn't a recent phenomenon, indeed, sexual repression is, as you pointed out, quite the... Humanist_Activist Jul 2015 #44

I'm with you. It's importance has been blown completely out of proportion. smirkymonkey Jul 2015 #78

Last I heard, porn star Nina Hartley is in a long-term polyamorous relationship derby378 Jul 2015 #26

I want to hear from even 2 "groups" (for lack of a better term) who want to get married... luvspeas Jul 2015 #30

anybody? (crickets) luvspeas Jul 2015 #51

I wasn't around the other day for this Hydra Jul 2015 #79

but you must have a dozen people on du that support you luvspeas Jul 2015 #80

On this issue, after all the progress with LBGT movement, which I am helping Hydra Jul 2015 #83

This is more of a social issue than a political one. lostnfound Jul 2015 #40

It's a legal issue if you think Tatiana La Belle Jul 2015 #60

Thank you. Tatiana La Belle Jul 2015 #47

Tatiana La Belle-Posting Privileges Revoked 7-10 Bluenorthwest Jul 2015 #84

LGBT people were closted in great majority until laws against homosexuality were repealed, in CA Bluenorthwest Jul 2015 #49

Thanks for judging those of us who don't live in California. n/t TygrBright Jul 2015 #50

I did no such thing. You are evasive and disrespectful. Clearly you don't even know the history Bluenorthwest Jul 2015 #70

I'm scum, alright. Feel free to put me on ignore, it'll be a first for me. TygrBright Jul 2015 #71

plus a bajillion! luvspeas Jul 2015 #77

I personally have no problem with any combination of consenting adults who choose to bond together peacebird Jul 2015 #53

Spot on Blue_Adept Jul 2015 #72