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In reply to the discussion: On the evolution of language and the "W" word [View all]AtheistCrusader
(33,982 posts)I was a small part of taking it to the final court of appeals. (An admin alert that was reviewed along with umpteen others by Skinner/admins.)
That's it. We can go no further. No more recourse except to take my ball and go home.
OR I can recognize Nadin's point, still oppose the use, and move on and be productive.
I don't desire to round every edge, and pad every corner in life. I don't expect a word/use like that to be acceptable in this venue, but hey, I didn't think c--t was either and I got roundly shouted down on that one, and couldn't alert anything for 24h. Such is life.
I can oppose that word and simultaneously coexist with people who want an abrasive term like that (in the political context) on-tap for use. I don't necessarily enjoy it, but it is what it is. Had skinner decided differently, or an admin int he food chain below him decided differently, this conversation would be different. If it hadn't been for umpteen OH SO NOW ITS OK TO CALL PEOPLE X hyperbolic threads and smears on Sanders supporters, this conversation would be different or I might not have even cared to participate.
Choices were made.
Look, I'm a father, and I'm trying to navigate shit like my six year old son coming home and saying things like 'I don't like pink' because he's picked up that girly=bad negative shit from his classmates. I can't just demand to know why that's a bad thing or punish him or go stomping into the school, and at th end of the day expect to have won this battle in anything that can be considered an actual win. I can scorched earth the fuck out of this problem, but fail to solve the problem. I have to be a little more flexible than that. That might mean I buy a VERY pink shirt for myself and wait for him to notice it. Something a little more tactical than THOU SHALT NOT THINK POORLY OF FEMININE CHARACTERISTICS (so-defined by society, I think pink is fine/neuter.)
In this case, positions have been staked out, temperature of the rabble and the administration documented, no clear solution presented itself, or could be forced, so uh, yeah. Next issue for now. Always open to reviving it.