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In reply to the discussion: H2O Man Survey #39 [View all]Hydra
(14,459 posts)And it's a wide ranging problem. As usual, I would like to attack what I can see of the root, if I may.
I believe it's cultural: We encourage bullying and violence, establishing a pecking order. We encourage it as a way of socially controlling others, up to a very specific point. You're not supposed to murder someone...or, at least, it's not supposed to LOOK like you did.
That kind of thinking keeps out society always at the boiling point, someone always close to crossing the line on either side of the "arrangement." The Nerd who brings a gun to school to kill the jocks that have been beating him up, or the Jocks who killed Matthew Shepard, thinking they wouldn't be punished for it because he was gay.
In shorter form, we freak out about naked people, but don't bat an eye at some of the worst forms of violence done to people. It's a really weird cultural value that has no place in a truly civilized nation(which we aren't).