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tavalon

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20. Best discussion of mental illness vs. personality disorders I've ever seen

Sat Aug 15, 2015, 01:12 AM

Aug 2015

and it's easy to see how those folks will create havoc with so little constraining of their behavior (as happens on an internet forum).

As a person who grew up in a household that produced personality disordered folks and having been through decades of therapy to learn better behavior (luckily, I only lived in that household for five years - my step-siblings never had a chance) I am able to pick a person with such defects easily. And in real life, I avoid them carefully. I find I get too triggered to behave compassionately with them so I avoid.

I need to remember not to engage such people on this forum. It's like teaching a pig to dance.......

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Seems to me they are actually stranger when you're a stranger too. pipoman Aug 2015 #1

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I call out people, sometimes very directly PowerToThePeople Aug 2015 #19

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"Self-reflection is, when done honestly, sometimes painful, but nevertheless essential." bvar22 Aug 2015 #61

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While I find the tendency to label things 'personality disorders' to be offputting... Shandris Aug 2015 #11

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