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ms liberty

(11,225 posts)
29. Great post...
Sat Aug 15, 2015, 08:49 AM
Aug 2015

DU seems to be a boiling cauldron of dysfunction right now. I've never been a prolific poster - as evidenced by my post count and length of membership! - I just don't enjoy squabbling back and forth to no purpose. There are a number of members who seem to be invested in proving their worth by being as divisive, nasty and mean as they can get away with. And then there are the people who enjoy and encourage that sort of thing. Shrug...bullies always have an entourage. I've been practising disengagement for quite a while. If I type a reply to any post, I read it and read it again, then ask myself if its worth my time before I hit post. Usually I erase and back out, because it's not worth it. You're one of the few DU'ers I actually reply to on a regular basis, because you are a reasonable and thoughtful man, and one for whom I have so much respect! On another note, your post reminds me of a conversation mr liberty related to me between him and one of his coworkers. They were discussing another coworker's annoying habit of turning every conversation into a lesson on the benefits of his fundamentalist Christian beliefs (Hell! Teh Gays! Wimmen! EVIL Muslin POTUS!). The coworker said to mr liberty, "just don't engage" and put his hand in front of his face, vertically and straight, with his thumb facing his nose, and waved outward and down, as he said engage. We laughed about it, but its become our go-to response to the people who want to spread the negative. I use it every day at DU, lately!

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People Are Strange [View all] H2O Man Aug 2015 OP
Seems to me they are actually stranger when you're a stranger too. pipoman Aug 2015 #1
Well done! H2O Man Aug 2015 #3
You are one of the good ones, H2O Man. nt Hekate Aug 2015 #2
Thank you! H2O Man Aug 2015 #6
A great line from the play, The Fantasticks in which the inge'nue kneels and prays by saying AikidoSoul Aug 2015 #59
Love it! H2O Man Aug 2015 #60
Thanks for the reminder! nt valerief Aug 2015 #4
Some times, it H2O Man Aug 2015 #7
Thats some good guality H2O... CentralMass Aug 2015 #5
Thank you. H2O Man Aug 2015 #8
I like most of your post PowerToThePeople Aug 2015 #9
No. H2O Man Aug 2015 #10
well PowerToThePeople Aug 2015 #13
That may be, but H2O Man Aug 2015 #15
Only the person you are calling out PowerToThePeople Aug 2015 #17
Doubt it. H2O Man Aug 2015 #18
I call out people, sometimes very directly PowerToThePeople Aug 2015 #19
actually it could apply to a lot of people hfojvt Aug 2015 #75
You could have been talking about me. I've been particularly annoying lately notadmblnd Aug 2015 #27
As a general rule, H2O Man Aug 2015 #28
"Self-reflection is, when done honestly, sometimes painful, but nevertheless essential." bvar22 Aug 2015 #61
Right. H2O Man Aug 2015 #62
When I was 39, I had a conversation with an ancient Black Man on Park Bench in New Orleans. bvar22 Aug 2015 #64
Very interesting. H2O Man Aug 2015 #66
I was very lucky to meet that old man on the bench that day. bvar22 Aug 2015 #67
no name, no call out. mopinko Aug 2015 #33
Thanks. H2O Man Aug 2015 #39
there is a prize in every box. mopinko Aug 2015 #47
I'm convinced H2O Man Aug 2015 #58
yeah, the city/alderman hate those calls. mopinko Aug 2015 #69
Yawn ... (nt) sunnystarr Aug 2015 #70
While I find the tendency to label things 'personality disorders' to be offputting... Shandris Aug 2015 #11
Thanks. H2O Man Aug 2015 #12
Some background music CentralMass Aug 2015 #14
Thank you! H2O Man Aug 2015 #16
That is what I thought when I read the headline. zeemike Aug 2015 #23
Best discussion of mental illness vs. personality disorders I've ever seen tavalon Aug 2015 #20
Family systems are H2O Man Aug 2015 #30
Always thoughtful, H2O Man. Control-Z Aug 2015 #21
I remember, many years ago, H2O Man Aug 2015 #35
Bril JackInGreen Aug 2015 #22
Thanks, JackInGreen! H2O Man Aug 2015 #36
That was fun Fairgo Aug 2015 #24
Very interesting. Thanks. H2O Man Aug 2015 #40
computer "road rage" KT2000 Aug 2015 #25
Right. H2O Man Aug 2015 #41
Great post arithia Aug 2015 #26
Thank you. H2O Man Aug 2015 #43
Great post... ms liberty Aug 2015 #29
Although I usually try H2O Man Aug 2015 #31
I found myself making a similar point... OneGrassRoot Aug 2015 #32
Interesting timing! H2O Man Aug 2015 #34
That means a great deal to me... OneGrassRoot Aug 2015 #38
Your friendship H2O Man Aug 2015 #44
We need more ramblings like this one WaterMan malaise Aug 2015 #37
Thanks! H2O Man Aug 2015 #46
Another thoughtful post H2O Man. lovemydog Aug 2015 #42
It makes sense! H2O Man Aug 2015 #48
Kicked and recommended. Uncle Joe Aug 2015 #45
Thanks, Uncle Joe. H2O Man Aug 2015 #49
Sometimes I need the occasional annoying gadfly. ananda Aug 2015 #50
They can be H2O Man Aug 2015 #52
By consistently not providing an "audience", we may be able to help those with personality Zorra Aug 2015 #51
Very good! H2O Man Aug 2015 #53
Interesting Babel_17 Aug 2015 #54
The older generation H2O Man Aug 2015 #56
The old Amish proverb: GoneOffShore Aug 2015 #55
A group of Amish H2O Man Aug 2015 #57
you put into words, so many of my thoughts Quayblue Aug 2015 #63
Thank you. H2O Man Aug 2015 #65
I always read your posts and you're welcome Quayblue Aug 2015 #68
So when we meet a fellow with a big chip on his shoulder... hootinholler Aug 2015 #71
I found, years ago, H2O Man Aug 2015 #72
I have to take some issue with this post. Crunchy Frog Aug 2015 #73
Some topics are uncomfortable. H2O Man Aug 2015 #74
It's the sweeping generalizations, coupled with the label Crunchy Frog Aug 2015 #78
Right. H2O Man Aug 2015 #79
I wanted to reply to this. Sorry it took me awhile. Crunchy Frog Aug 2015 #80
Thank you. H2O Man Aug 2015 #81
interesting and I like that song hfojvt Aug 2015 #76
Saving for later Faux pas Aug 2015 #77
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