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MADem

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79. And if you had a mortgage, and a stroke, and hospital bills, and were in a wheelchair

Wed Aug 19, 2015, 05:59 PM

Aug 2015

needing x-rays, where would you be?

Or if your "2nd person" needed hospitalization, medication, home health care assistance, and doctor visits, or even major dental work...where would you be?

Screwed, is my assessment.

If you live in a major metropolitan region, a $2K (mortgage and homeowner's insurance) house payment will get you a very "average" house. Nothing fancy at all.

http://www.zillow.com/homes/for_sale/New-York-NY/pmf,pf_pt/house_type/2101359877_zpid/6181_rid/1_pnd/41.068998,-73.305588,40.34131,-74.651413_rect/9_zm/

Does that look like the Taj Mahal to you?

I think you might want to spend some of your savings on compassion lessions. That just might be money well spent.

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Just shoot me [View all] ohheckyeah Aug 2015 OP

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I'm so sorry about your heart attack. ohheckyeah Aug 2015 #7

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So sorry for the loss of your dad and for what you're going through. City Lights Aug 2015 #3

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Goes w/the territory. Don't feel bad about it--consider it an opportunity to let it all hang out. MADem Aug 2015 #26

I only get 30 days of therapy per my insurance. ohheckyeah Aug 2015 #63

Please, PLEASE do not give up. You CAN do it. It will be difficult, but you can improve. MADem Aug 2015 #68

Thank you. ohheckyeah Aug 2015 #69

That's got to be misery on top of your other issues. MADem Aug 2015 #72

put it behind you - this place has become a haven for jerks who enjoy piling on DrDan Aug 2015 #4

Let's hope for ohheckyeah Aug 2015 #11

Sorry to hear of your struggle and the forums less than generous tone! haikugal Aug 2015 #5

Getting laid off does mean he can go on your state's exchange. jeff47 Aug 2015 #8

We have to look into it yet...it just happened so there is that. haikugal Aug 2015 #13

I'm so sorry ohheckyeah Aug 2015 #14

Thanks! We all have to stand together and help eachother get through this. haikugal Aug 2015 #17

I can slightly relate. jeff47 Aug 2015 #6

We'll just keep ohheckyeah Aug 2015 #18

See if the Saint Vincent de Paul Society can help. You don't have to be a Catholic. MADem Aug 2015 #12

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I did not see what happened before MuseRider Aug 2015 #15

Thank you ohheckyeah Aug 2015 #21

Sorry to hear about your dad and your struggles. Don't sweat the haters... ChisolmTrailDem Aug 2015 #19

It seems people ohheckyeah Aug 2015 #22

I'm sorry... OneGrassRoot Aug 2015 #20

Thank you ohheckyeah Aug 2015 #24

Don't know what happened on DU, but I send my best thoughts for a financial and spiritual recovery. kairos12 Aug 2015 #23

Thank you ohheckyeah Aug 2015 #25

I am so sorry that everything sucks mnhtnbb Aug 2015 #27

In developed Europe you would be takn care of Stargazer99 Aug 2015 #28

I also did not see the original post but I am so sorry for what you are going through. denvine Aug 2015 #29

Good vibes and Best Wishes your way... nt AnotherDreamWeaver Aug 2015 #30

I am sorry. redwitch Aug 2015 #31

Hang in there! logosoco Aug 2015 #32

I am sorry that happened to you. murielm99 Aug 2015 #33

There are plenty of good people here on DU. longship Aug 2015 #34

(((Hugs))) not everyone on DU is a jerk. I'm sorry for your troubles riderinthestorm Aug 2015 #35

Keep fighting, ohheckyeah. Jackilope Aug 2015 #36

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I've been having some trouble with mental dyslexia lately passiveporcupine Aug 2015 #38

I'm sorry you are having such a rough time. SamKnause Aug 2015 #39

Thank you. ohheckyeah Aug 2015 #43

Here in Florida having Obamacare is the same as not d_legendary1 Aug 2015 #40

Thank you so much ohheckyeah Aug 2015 #42

So sorry for your misfortune and best of luck to you! anniebelle Aug 2015 #41

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Ouch! Best wishes your way for serenity and peace of mind Babel_17 Aug 2015 #45

You are NOT a terrible person. glinda Aug 2015 #46

kick glinda Aug 2015 #47

I know it's hard, but don't let the trolls get to you. toddwv Aug 2015 #48

Thanks to all of you ohheckyeah Aug 2015 #49

OHHECK! elleng Aug 2015 #50

You did not lie. carla Aug 2015 #51

I am so sorry, sorry about your dad also. sabrina 1 Aug 2015 #52

KNR - but I don't understand your lack of savings hfojvt Aug 2015 #53

About $3000 ohheckyeah Aug 2015 #64

You make 14K a month...or a year? MADem Aug 2015 #73

of course, I do live rent free hfojvt Aug 2015 #76

If you aren't paying rent, or a mortgage, you can't compare. MADem Aug 2015 #77

I think people should always be encouraged to save hfojvt Aug 2015 #78

And if you had a mortgage, and a stroke, and hospital bills, and were in a wheelchair MADem Aug 2015 #79

the increased number of insured helps when delivering purty speeches Skittles Aug 2015 #54

Yep. In a couple more years, when more of us have been 'insured' for awhile Cal Carpenter Aug 2015 #70

+1 leftstreet Aug 2015 #74

I'm so sorry to hear that. smirkymonkey Aug 2015 #55

It's designed to ensure payment, not health. rug Aug 2015 #56

well put Doctor_J Aug 2015 #57

I just got onto Medicare. rug Aug 2015 #59

Medicare for all is marketing to attract folks familiar and accepting of Medicare as a jumping off TheKentuckian Aug 2015 #86

So very sorry to hear all that you are going through in your life ohheckyeah. Marie Marie Aug 2015 #58

I did bother to read it Lifelong Protester Aug 2015 #60

oh heckyeah Iwillnevergiveup Aug 2015 #61

Dear Iwillnevergiveup ohheckyeah Aug 2015 #62

Ask your husband to prepare you a "hot water bottle" to put along your leg, and see if that helps. MADem Aug 2015 #71

I've been on ohheckyeah Aug 2015 #80

They give that to little kids with CP. Does it make you logey? MADem Aug 2015 #85

Forwarding healing vibes to you, ohheckyeah. Enthusiast Aug 2015 #65

Thank you. ohheckyeah Aug 2015 #81

Sending good vibes your way. historylovr Aug 2015 #66

Thanks. ohheckyeah Aug 2015 #82

Sending good thoughts your way. Bubzer Aug 2015 #67

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I'm sorry for what you're facing! hamsterjill Aug 2015 #75

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