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kcr

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73. How is a person being cheated on consenting to it?

Fri Aug 21, 2015, 05:26 PM

Aug 2015

It is not consensual for all invovled. I would have no problem releasing the info only to the parties involved. I'm only arguing how cheating is being defined and the tendency to dismiss the victims.

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This message was self-deleted by its author [View all] Agschmid Aug 2015 OP

I'll tell you how I feel.... seaotter Aug 2015 #1

'"blackmailme.com'-> indeed nt HFRN Aug 2015 #2

I agree get the red out Aug 2015 #4

Indeed. And these are the only electrons I intend to waste on this particular story. n/t RufusTFirefly Aug 2015 #53

Yeah, I agree. This doesn't really register on my outrage meter. smirkymonkey Aug 2015 #54

You know this isn't the only website Blue_Tires Aug 2015 #22

I'm sure seaotter's comment still applies. Nuclear Unicorn Aug 2015 #34

which means pretty much every Blue_Tires Aug 2015 #39

Seems that way. Nuclear Unicorn Aug 2015 #50

Yes, I am rather "worldly". seaotter Aug 2015 #37

My point is if AM is a "blackmail" site as you say Blue_Tires Aug 2015 #40

Yes, yes they are. seaotter Aug 2015 #42

Post removed Post removed Aug 2015 #45

You mean , "Go catch a METEOR with your face" seaotter Aug 2015 #61

Welcome to DU. BlueJazz Aug 2015 #51

Thank you seaotter Aug 2015 #60

Welcome. Pardon the bizarre, free floating rage. Marr Aug 2015 #63

Thank you. seaotter Aug 2015 #64

Swinging is not the same thing. Lyric Aug 2015 #49

+1 laundry_queen Aug 2015 #57

Bit of a diffrence between casual sex/swinging and affairs. Lancero Aug 2015 #56

Great time to be a divorce lawyer...eom N_E_1 for Tennis Aug 2015 #3

I had never even heard about Ashley Madison until now. PufPuf23 Aug 2015 #5

"Admittedly I am somewhat socially isolated." Nuclear Unicorn Aug 2015 #35

Had I known would not have been interested. PufPuf23 Aug 2015 #36

Neither had I, PufPuf23 n/t BuelahWitch Aug 2015 #41

People stealing other peoples info and putting it on the internet is an outrage. hrmjustin Aug 2015 #6

this thing looks ugly all the way around... CTyankee Aug 2015 #11

yes but people using stolen information are making $ from doing so. it's the american way, anything msongs Aug 2015 #26

Suppose any presidential candidates will turn up on the list? Vinca Aug 2015 #7

It's possible to condemn the hack and still indulge in schadenfreude, particularly in the cases of Brickbat Aug 2015 #8

pretty much this, hifiguy Aug 2015 #48

Yet another interweb 'moral' pile on Matariki Aug 2015 #9

+1 Syzygy321 Aug 2015 #59

Highly amused is my reaction. hobbit709 Aug 2015 #10

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+1000 Blue_Tires Aug 2015 #21

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To answer your question... Behind the Aegis Aug 2015 #66

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"Someone done did me wrong!" Behind the Aegis Aug 2015 #70

As usual a voice of reason. Agschmid Aug 2015 #80

Not so sure. Behind the Aegis Aug 2015 #65

But there are plenty of people it does concern kcr Aug 2015 #71

It is consensual. Behind the Aegis Aug 2015 #72

How is a person being cheated on consenting to it? kcr Aug 2015 #73

They aren't part of the sexual equation. Behind the Aegis Aug 2015 #74

They most certainly are. kcr Aug 2015 #75

And it may not be violent like rape. But it does take away a person's autonomy kcr Aug 2015 #77

I agree that it's difficult to muster... Whiskeytide Aug 2015 #13

"but one of them did send me a photograph of his penis" Capt. Obvious Aug 2015 #14

Tired? Hungry? Ticklish? randome Aug 2015 #15

Keep in mind that not all AM users were "cheaters" Xithras Aug 2015 #16

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Except that there are plenty of people aside from the spouse who will have that information. Xithras Aug 2015 #25

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Amanda Marcotte of TPM calls it right. randome Aug 2015 #17

I agree with Amanda Marcotte. Warren DeMontague Aug 2015 #19

Actually put up a personal profile just to interview people? Blue_Tires Aug 2015 #18

There's some question about how to feel about hacking? melman Aug 2015 #24

hacking is electronic breaking and entering HFRN Aug 2015 #29

I find it interesting which sites they went after Travis_0004 Aug 2015 #28

I honestly don't care about it. nt roody Aug 2015 #30

You should. It's about the digital lives and security/privacy we want to have online. Blue_Adept Aug 2015 #32

How do you want to feel about it? Rex Aug 2015 #31

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+1 Behind the Aegis Aug 2015 #67

This website is and has always been a scam. alarimer Aug 2015 #38

Do people not go to the bar anymore for this? Go Vols Aug 2015 #43

None of it is any of my business. DefenseLawyer Aug 2015 #44

I am against putting people's personal information online. Deadshot Aug 2015 #46

Dan Savage had some thoughtful points on this a few weeks ago... brooklynite Aug 2015 #47

Run around DU proclaiming your moral indignation taught_me_patience Aug 2015 #52

. libodem Aug 2015 #55

I'm a *meh* Ruby the Liberal Aug 2015 #58

I hope they don't leak my support for Deez Nuts. U4ikLefty Aug 2015 #62

I say pass the popcorn. There's going to be a lot of interesting info coming in the next few weeks. Initech Aug 2015 #69

if you are a client, perhaps nervous, if not who cares still_one Aug 2015 #76

You shouldn't give a shit. That's how you should feel. RufusTFirefly Aug 2015 #78

Well, I didn't know the site existed before, and I don't care any more about it now. cyberswede Aug 2015 #79

You should be really worried. MicaelS Aug 2015 #81

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