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In reply to the discussion: Attention Atheist, can you please do me a favor and listen to me....... [View all]Bettie
(19,219 posts)331. Our first child died during her birth
It is devastating and what makes it even more devastating is when people say "it's all part of God's plan".
So, the religious folk, by way of trying to be comforting, are saying "yeah, God hates you so much that he chose to inflict this pain that will never fully heal on you". I'm still not sure how that is supposed to comfort anyone. Then, they follow up with "your child is with God now".
So, the child who was taken from me by this god of yours is now with him...and this is supposed to be comforting?
So sorry about your friends' loss. There is nothing worse than losing a child.
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Attention Atheist, can you please do me a favor and listen to me....... [View all]
Coolest Ranger
Sep 2015
OP
There is only one God, but there are hundreds of ways of believing in Him. And I don't think
Cal33
Sep 2015
#113
Two of the all-time great physicists had opposing opinions: Hawking is an atheist.
Cal33
Sep 2015
#202
You haven't read any of IANDS OR NDERF yet. Read at least something on "ABOUT NDERF,"
Cal33
Sep 2015
#208
there's no evidence those experiences are anything more than the oxygen-starved brain playing
Fast Walker 52
Sep 2015
#316
The doctors and nurses she spoke with later about what they were doing and saying
Cal33
Sep 2015
#359
I don't know the explanation but of course this doesn't prove the existence of god
Fast Walker 52
Sep 2015
#367
Yes. It is common now for people to use the words "universe" and "God" synonymously. To
Cal33
Sep 2015
#355
I sincerely doubt Einstein ever described his idea of God as a "Supreme Intelligence"...
Silent3
Sep 2015
#358
Not describing God's attributes by humans does not imply that He doesn't have any. On
Cal33
Sep 2015
#366
It's a question of belief. I can neither prove nor disprove anything. By the way, it wouldn't
Cal33
Sep 2015
#209
I have gone through that stage, too. That's okay. We all go through changes. This life
Cal33
Sep 2015
#353
S: Clearly you haven't progressed beyond the stage where you fancy yourself some
Cal33
Sep 2015
#369
I wasn't implying that you "believed that we all go through the same experiences"...
Silent3
Sep 2015
#373
I have a problem with people acting all high and mighty because of their religion.
Deadshot
Sep 2015
#56
Because, in the case of Christianity, what those beliefs say about nonbelievers like me!
st17011864200074656
Sep 2015
#300
It's flawed because if you were struck by ightning, there would be no measure of whether God did it.
rug
Sep 2015
#181
no, if you do manage to hit the nose it is likelier that you do exist.
Warren Stupidity
Sep 2015
#221
"maybe He miraculously removed the cancer from the child in Guatemala that you read about."
Arugula Latte
Sep 2015
#229
I do. Because there's no evidence for the existence of the supernatural.
Arugula Latte
Sep 2015
#233
If you believe in a powerful creature that can intervene in human life, and then look at
Arugula Latte
Sep 2015
#238
Yes, very strange. And sometimes "He" wipes out an entire town but "miraculously" saves one person
Arugula Latte
Sep 2015
#250
the proof demanders keep withdrawing and changing the attributes of their gods
Warren Stupidity
Sep 2015
#220
you made the claim there is no God because there is no evidence proving there is a God
DrDan
Sep 2015
#159
Spontaneous generation has more or less been replaced with primordial soup
Drahthaardogs
Sep 2015
#273
I doubt that you are an atheist and I would be surprised if you are truly a Bernie supporter. nm
rhett o rick
Sep 2015
#40
ugh. your graceless and callous post just had to be the first comment in this thread.
cali
Sep 2015
#52
As an avowed Atheist, you sound like what I call a "Hatetheist"... you can't stand thoughts of view
Ghost in the Machine
Sep 2015
#57
No, she doesn't, that's why she is sitting in jail right now.. because she COULDN'T live & let live.
Ghost in the Machine
Sep 2015
#69
That's a great way to alienate a lot of supporters, especially African Americans and
pnwmom
Sep 2015
#114
sometimes, yes, depending on the situation. Someone like Kim Davis, yes.
Fast Walker 52
Sep 2015
#313
Religion is a tool of the PTB to manipulate the masses. It makes wars possible.
valerief
Sep 2015
#376
Didn't take long for someone to show up and be all illiberal in their attitudes, did it?
MADem
Sep 2015
#7
k&r. I do not like insults based on religion, spiritual beliefs or lack of.
uppityperson
Sep 2015
#11
So why is it different in terms of political beiefs? Why is religion off limits, but not politics?
Arugula Latte
Sep 2015
#232
Are you asking why a post discussing religion is lockable but one discussing bigotry isn't?
uppityperson
Sep 2015
#19
You missed this part"Open discussion of religion is permitted during very high-profile news events w
uppityperson
Sep 2015
#33
you could volunteer as a host also, if you met the criteria. It is an interesting thing to do.
uppityperson
Sep 2015
#96
Good luck to you. The only difference between you and me is we disagree on ONE God. You don't.......
Logical
Sep 2015
#24
I'm not the one who believes in supernatural beings with no evidence to support their existence.
Deadshot
Sep 2015
#70
"Do you actually think anyone who believes in a God is a fool?" "Yes. Yes they are"
uppityperson
Sep 2015
#89
I would like a clarification on your statement "Anyone who does not believe in god is a fool".
Binkie The Clown
Sep 2015
#131
So, you say it depends on the God. Is there any believer you would say is not a fool?
rug
Sep 2015
#151
Somebody is desperately seeking a hide worthy statement of doltishness.
Warren Stupidity
Sep 2015
#257
except of course it doesn't work. Not believing in things for which there is no evidence is not
Warren Stupidity
Sep 2015
#258
Why are you posting this testimony in general discussion rather than in religion?
independentpiney
Sep 2015
#41
"All I'm asking you as liberals is that you respect my right to believe after all, aren't we all sup
uppityperson
Sep 2015
#43
For others around here, "open minded" means let me be unless I am hurting someone else.
uppityperson
Sep 2015
#137
You have a right to believe whatever you want. You do not have a right to not be ridiculed
Warren Stupidity
Sep 2015
#259
As a liberal atheist, we could get along fine. If you push religion to me, I will
NCjack
Sep 2015
#46
So it must be atheists attacking you...there is no other type of belief systems on DU?
Rex
Sep 2015
#58
I was a Christian for years, baptized as an adult and everything. Now I am an atheist.
thereismore
Sep 2015
#81
In my experience people named Throd put too much stock in anecdotal experience.
Act_of_Reparation
Sep 2015
#119
Congratulations. You do know there are LGBT people who've always been "out", right?
jeff47
Sep 2015
#263
But a huge percentage of religious people do believe that their god intervenes in events.
Arugula Latte
Sep 2015
#335
Maybe the mockers will figure it out when religious African Americans and Latinos
pnwmom
Sep 2015
#117
Contrary to their best interests? That seems like an unreasonable thing to do. /nt
LiberalAndProud
Sep 2015
#121
Almost everyone in the 99% who votes Rethug is voting contrary to their best interests.
pnwmom
Sep 2015
#128
Yes, religious mockers here on DU have the power to completely throw the entire election!
Arugula Latte
Sep 2015
#127
Wow, if they want to go to the GOP over religion let them. They can seal their own fate. nt
Logical
Sep 2015
#288
And the fates of all the rest of us, too. Maybe instead, we can try not insulting them. n/t
pnwmom
Sep 2015
#293
I respect your right to your beliefs. I don't have to respect those beliefs, though.
REP
Sep 2015
#164
I find this OP to be in contradiction of the advice given to believers of your faith:
Bluenorthwest
Sep 2015
#178
Why should people of faith be exempt from being made fun of or belittled?
Humanist_Activist
Sep 2015
#262
So does your god only do the good stuff? It helped cure the OP, but it didn't have anything to do
Arugula Latte
Sep 2015
#234
My question is why you and others who think a being who has the power to intervene in human illness
Arugula Latte
Sep 2015
#372
You have a right to your beliefs. You do not have the right to not be mocked and ridiculed
Warren Stupidity
Sep 2015
#218
Hey, go ahead and believe in ridiculous fairy tales if you like, and a god who allows the horrendous
HERVEPA
Sep 2015
#228
So true, I have often said that if God exists he is a total asshole. Who lets so much shit go bad? n
Logical
Sep 2015
#292
If folks don't like their religion mocked then people should STFU about their religion in public
YabaDabaNoDinoNo
Sep 2015
#256
Nowhere does he says he's Catholic. Or any other particular religion for that matter.
rug
Sep 2015
#270
I may have combined it with starisaka's post in the interfaith save haven.
AtheistCrusader
Sep 2015
#272
The problem is that "faith" starts with a presumption that there is a supernatural being.
Arugula Latte
Sep 2015
#275
Of FFS, not the "prove God does not exist" shit. LOL, prove unicorns do not exist. nt
Logical
Sep 2015
#289
if your faith is so strong, why are you so easily rattled by the opinons of others?
Skittles
Sep 2015
#277
It seems like the less evidence and facts backing an assertion, the more adherents demand "respect"
Arugula Latte
Sep 2015
#284
I get irritated with the moral reference points of Christianity...
st17011864200074656
Sep 2015
#306
"without God" -- Do you think the God of the Bible handed down morality?
Arugula Latte
Sep 2015
#307