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we definitely shouldnt let mechanical men use them. Warren DeMontague Sep 2015 #1
Most women I know would be uncomfortable if a man enters to do his bussiness, Agnosticsherbet Sep 2015 #2
As a woman, I don't think I'd care if Caitlyn Jenner entered the women's bathroom I was in. CTyankee Sep 2015 #8
The thread is not just about transgender people Doingto Sep 2015 #157
Is it? backscatter712 Sep 2015 #164
Exactly right. Nye is saying that transgendered female is not necessarily female CreekDog Sep 2015 #345
She takes hormones, so she's partially transitioned. n/t pnwmom Sep 2015 #219
That may be, but I'm pretty likely to get attacked if I use a men's bathroom MillennialDem Sep 2015 #383
OK, this is making me crazy...I'm just taking myself out before I go completely nuts... CTyankee Sep 2015 #384
Me, I'm uncomfortable when anyone refers to it as "doing their business" Warren DeMontague Sep 2015 #26
I would be fully uncomfortable if a woman were in the men's room while I was using the urinal. Ed Suspicious Sep 2015 #38
"...take a Trump." CrispyQ Sep 2015 #57
Reminded me of this... Lancero Sep 2015 #245
I sometimes go in men's room when there is a line at the women's. Laffy Kat Sep 2015 #99
My wife has asked me to stand guard a few times when the ladies loo Agnosticsherbet Sep 2015 #119
Exactly, it's a toilet, no big deal. If a guy is lounging around an empty ladies room, that's underahedgerow Sep 2015 #312
I wouldn't be comfortable either ibegurpard Sep 2015 #267
Dangerous? woolldog Sep 2015 #278
A woman walking into a men's room with a bunch of creepers... backscatter712 Sep 2015 #289
A number of women have posted woolldog Sep 2015 #394
Exactly . . . markpkessinger Sep 2015 #373
Completely agree here.. ion_theory Sep 2015 #45
I think the real question for a man might be, if you had a 10 year old daughter pnwmom Sep 2015 #223
How do you know who is already in there or not? What about teachers at school, or maybe uppityperson Sep 2015 #246
Sometimes it is possible to know just by looking into the door. pnwmom Sep 2015 #253
How about he simply walked in with her and waited with her if there was a line, or for her to uppityperson Sep 2015 #257
The point is that most fathers would trust their daughter alone in a bathroom pnwmom Sep 2015 #266
Why would a man trust his daughter to strange women either? uppityperson Sep 2015 #274
Yes, they do. But a man who is in the ladies room for no apparent reason pnwmom Sep 2015 #283
Why? Maybe a man walking into a women's rest room is going it to fetch their child, or someone uppityperson Sep 2015 #292
I said "for no apparent reason" and empty restroom. So your examples don't fit. pnwmom Sep 2015 #294
I wouldn't trust anyone loitering in an empty restroom for no apparent reason uppityperson Sep 2015 #300
Women take longer in the bathroom than men. That's been measured. pnwmom Sep 2015 #308
Maybe I missed something, but I think statistics is the very obvious answer. prayin4rain Sep 2015 #301
Statistics show most car accidents happen closed to home so you shouldn't drive closed to where you uppityperson Sep 2015 #302
No one is suggesting prayin4rain Sep 2015 #304
And transwomen fear for their safety in men's rooms, with good reason. pnwmom Sep 2015 #310
pnwmom is repeating the false meme that giving the transgendered civil rights risks sexual predation CreekDog Sep 2015 #350
Right. The issue isn't transwomen, it's men. n/t pnwmom Sep 2015 #309
Again, you keep trying to get us to deny the civil rights of the transgendered CreekDog Sep 2015 #347
+ 100000 yardwork Sep 2015 #357
And you keep denying women the right to be safe from attacks of cis-males. n/t pnwmom Sep 2015 #374
How do laws against the transgendered protect you from attacks of cismales? CreekDog Sep 2015 #378
Laws keeping cis-males out of ladies rooms protect all women pnwmom Sep 2015 #379
so that's the only thing you want codified in law? CreekDog Sep 2015 #380
why should laws that harm people be based on your ignorance? CreekDog Sep 2015 #381
The harm against some has to be weighed against the harm against others. pnwmom Sep 2015 #390
Who are you saying it's okay to harm? CreekDog Sep 2015 #391
No one. So the best solution is probably individual bathrooms. n/t pnwmom Sep 2015 #393
Can I honestly ask why you think your own hangups about the transgendered are so important? CreekDog Sep 2015 #346
As the mother of sons, this came up every time they used a public bathroom. yardwork Sep 2015 #354
This Tree-Hugger Sep 2015 #386
"I stood near the entrance woolldog Sep 2015 #395
I think I was thinking more along the lines of.. ion_theory Sep 2015 #376
They just have to get over their old fashioned stereotypes. AngryAmish Sep 2015 #49
As long as we have stalls for the "business", I'm good. SusanCalvin Sep 2015 #118
Trans women are women. Starry Messenger Sep 2015 #3
Noticed that, too, in the questions, and didn't know how to respond. closeupready Sep 2015 #5
That's why I was like - huh? JustAnotherGen Sep 2015 #36
I feel like we are wandering into Focus on the Family Starry Messenger Sep 2015 #40
I agree with you JustAnotherGen Sep 2015 #102
I wish all public bathrooms were like that! Starry Messenger Sep 2015 #105
Most of the public toilets enlightenment Sep 2015 #112
"Definitely crafted to be insensitive" HERVEPA Sep 2015 #326
So glad another person sees it - I've added to this JustAnotherGen Sep 2015 #327
Welcome to the land of TERF framing. backscatter712 Sep 2015 #140
Yes, I've had my run-ins before, here and elsewhere. Starry Messenger Sep 2015 #142
The problem is, how to distinguish a true trans woman whathehell Sep 2015 #54
It's settled case law. Starry Messenger Sep 2015 #69
In practice, it will likely whathehell Sep 2015 #77
And attacked by the same right-wing enemies. Starry Messenger Sep 2015 #91
The right to privacy whathehell Sep 2015 #263
Why not? Lots of Freepers here. Starry Messenger Sep 2015 #269
Sorry, but I think you're jumping the gun here whathehell Sep 2015 #281
Trans-inclusion is the standard set out by case law. Starry Messenger Sep 2015 #286
That's nice, but csee law is not what is under discussion.. whathehell Sep 2015 #337
You replied to me. You're welcome. Starry Messenger Sep 2015 #339
After you replied to me... whathehell Sep 2015 #352
Check the subthread, you replied first to me. #54 Starry Messenger Sep 2015 #389
Lol..Sorry, not interested in petty "who said it first" competitions whathehell Sep 2015 #399
that is just right wing transphobic nonsense Warren Stupidity Sep 2015 #163
So what would you like? A door guard, checking everyone's papers before they enter? uppityperson Sep 2015 #190
Yes, of course,.. whathehell Sep 2015 #230
You do know, I hope that rapists have "access to women" all over, not just in unisex restrooms uppityperson Sep 2015 #234
Yes, it is a very odd discussion whathehell Sep 2015 #249
I especially like requests for definitions and to clarify something that are ignored uppityperson Sep 2015 #251
Enjoy yourself whathehell Sep 2015 #271
Don't play along with the meme CreekDog Sep 2015 #348
so you're saying that rapists say that they are transgendered CreekDog Sep 2015 #351
I'm not saying anything like that.. whathehell Sep 2015 #356
Well if you were trying to communicate something different CreekDog Sep 2015 #359
No, I think whathehell Sep 2015 #400
Because public restrooms are the only place they could find women? winter is coming Sep 2015 #392
Why do you think society decided to mandate sex segregated public lavatories in.the first place? whathehell Sep 2015 #398
How do you define "women," then? WinkyDink Sep 2015 #80
By the legal definition, that is commonly accepted now to be nondiscriminatory. Starry Messenger Sep 2015 #88
+1 nt geek tragedy Sep 2015 #96
I don't support unisex restrooms, sorry. closeupready Sep 2015 #4
Neither do I. WillowTree Sep 2015 #31
I'm with you. But someday I'll die off and the rest can pee and poop in perfect harmony. Ed Suspicious Sep 2015 #42
troughs sound disturbing Skittles Sep 2015 #162
Yuck is a good word. backscatter712 Sep 2015 #166
This message was self-deleted by its author closeupready Sep 2015 #205
This isn't about unisex restrooms. Ms. Toad Sep 2015 #175
Absolutely correct. I alerted on the OP for exactly that reason. Zorra Sep 2015 #221
I alerted on it after you did. Ms. Toad Sep 2015 #260
I agree DirtDart1319 Sep 2015 #196
My first experience with a unisex community restroom was in the military Major Nikon Sep 2015 #207
This message was self-deleted by its author closeupready Sep 2015 #213
so you don't ever eat at small restaurants? CreekDog Sep 2015 #353
Uh.....what? jeff47 Sep 2015 #6
If they are biological women, this poll does not apply to them, Nye Bevan Sep 2015 #9
If you're going to kick the "biological men" to the men's room... jeff47 Sep 2015 #11
You seem to be arguing for men to be allowed to use whichever bathroom they choose. Nye Bevan Sep 2015 #12
Nope. I'm arguing that throwing transgender people into the opposite bathroom is bad. jeff47 Sep 2015 #17
Read the OP again. The word "transgender" is in there (nt) Nye Bevan Sep 2015 #29
As a poll choice, after you've set up people to reject it by using "biological male" everywhere else jeff47 Sep 2015 #129
you're the guy who sounded upset that he couldn't use the word "cripple" anymore CreekDog Sep 2015 #355
What do you mean by "biological men"? I do not understand the use of that term. uppityperson Sep 2015 #192
From that linked page: the impossible choice! tblue37 Sep 2015 #239
I don't see any further purpose of having seperate restrooms. Shandris Sep 2015 #7
Why are the comfort and preferences ONLY of those who are transgender to be considered? WillowTree Sep 2015 #34
It's not. I'm not considering 'comfort and preference' at ALL. Shandris Sep 2015 #52
OK. I understand that you're saying....... WillowTree Sep 2015 #101
Ahh, so you failed reading comprehension. That's okay. Shandris Sep 2015 #106
I failed nothing. WillowTree Sep 2015 #111
There's a lot of that. pecwae Sep 2015 #151
Thank you for your concern. Shandris Sep 2015 #231
Always happy to oblige. nt pecwae Sep 2015 #307
Are you proud of yourself for thinking that if the transgendered are allowed to use a restroom CreekDog Sep 2015 #361
because they aren't "comfort and preferences" but Civil Rights CreekDog Sep 2015 #360
Ah yes. Taking a condescending tone always wins people over to your view! WillowTree Sep 2015 #382
If you don't approve of a condescending tone, why did you call using the bathroom a "convenience" CreekDog Sep 2015 #388
I've happily shared the women's loo with drag queens Warpy Sep 2015 #10
In posting this poll I'm thinking more about grandmothers at highway rest stops Nye Bevan Sep 2015 #14
Maybe a separate grandmother's restroom then? LanternWaste Sep 2015 #15
As a man a few short months away from becoming a grandfather, I would welcome this option Ed Suspicious Sep 2015 #44
Many places have 'family' restrooms. peace13 Sep 2015 #293
... geardaddy Sep 2015 #358
How about a separate transgender bathroom? whathehell Sep 2015 #401
Sharing bathrooms with grandmothers is tolerable. LeftyMom Sep 2015 #20
Oh, yeah, gotta protect those poor, innocent little grannies. Warpy Sep 2015 #280
zOMG, grandma got runned over by a Jamastiene Sep 2015 #342
honey, we have all shared restrooms with people in drag elehhhhna Sep 2015 #144
Exactly the way I feel about it. Warpy Sep 2015 #148
it's not like anyone's doing a butt check when you walk in elehhhhna Sep 2015 #152
As a middle aged female wearing levis and a flannel shirt, I need to use the gents room? uppityperson Sep 2015 #193
Wow. qwlauren35 Sep 2015 #13
Obviously banning men from women's restrooms reduces the probability of rape happening. Nye Bevan Sep 2015 #32
no it doesn't. What evidence do you have for that? Warren Stupidity Sep 2015 #167
Why do you say "dress up as women"? Nye Bevan Sep 2015 #173
Your poll is a shit poll. You made your beliefs quite clear. You are *very concerned* Warren Stupidity Sep 2015 #176
Polls where DU is pretty much divided 50-50, as this one is, Nye Bevan Sep 2015 #182
ignorance on gender issues is widespread. Warren Stupidity Sep 2015 #185
a poll about the transgendered use of restrooms only has one option with the word "transgendered" CreekDog Sep 2015 #362
What is your evidence for the claim that banning transgendered people from el_bryanto Sep 2015 #318
You could or couldn't care less? I could care much less, but I don't. Ed Suspicious Sep 2015 #46
You got me. qwlauren35 Sep 2015 #113
Define "biological man." Iggo Sep 2015 #16
It's a TERF/RW-bigot frame that insinuates that trans-women are trying to trick you. backscatter712 Sep 2015 #143
exactly. Warren Stupidity Sep 2015 #178
+1 nt Tree-Hugger Sep 2015 #324
What are "biological men"? Behind the Aegis Sep 2015 #18
Thank you - I was wondering too n/t JustAnotherGen Sep 2015 #37
Seems we are to receive no answer. Behind the Aegis Sep 2015 #303
I didn't know it was a complicated defination Travis_0004 Sep 2015 #377
A lot of trans people don't ever do bottom surgery. LeftyMom Sep 2015 #19
... Spider Jerusalem Sep 2015 #21
Those in the process of transformation to their gender should be allowed to use the restroom of Dont call me Shirley Sep 2015 #22
My mother has MS and cannot go to the restroom by herself. LostOne4Ever Sep 2015 #23
Women have an expectation that the bathroom will be "women only" TexasMommaWithAHat Sep 2015 #28
I'd rather keep bathrooms separate yeoman6987 Sep 2015 #115
lol woolldog Sep 2015 #285
Poorly worded poll shenmue Sep 2015 #24
Transphobically framed push-poll. backscatter712 Sep 2015 #187
I know, I thought the OP wouldn't do that shenmue Sep 2015 #202
Or intentionally. Lancero Sep 2015 #198
Exactly nt Tree-Hugger Sep 2015 #323
How might you know? Vinca Sep 2015 #25
We need more unisex crappers! MADem Sep 2015 #27
More US Puritanical prudery. mnhtnbb Sep 2015 #30
"there was NOBODY in the men's room" kinda makes your point, pointless. WinkyDink Sep 2015 #83
Someone dressed as a woman going in a men's room would be viewed strangely IF mnhtnbb Sep 2015 #110
How about a man dressed as a man... NotoriousRBG Sep 2015 #123
This was my thought DirtDart1319 Sep 2015 #212
Women's restrooms have stalls abelenkpe Sep 2015 #33
For me the issue is more one of creepy (not transgender) men going into the women's restroom, Nye Bevan Sep 2015 #35
Well, perverts have always had the opportunity to go in women's restrooms mnhtnbb Sep 2015 #39
Creepy men are more likely to enter women's restrooms if they are legally allowed to do so, Nye Bevan Sep 2015 #43
I'd like to see the case studies showing this is true Cal Carpenter Sep 2015 #55
Why do you think creepy men are more likely to assault women in restrooms if they are unisex? uppityperson Sep 2015 #195
Yes, they have -- but the laws have meant they could be arrested for doing so. pnwmom Sep 2015 #295
The issue sounds quite a lot more like transphobia dressed up as "concern" Spider Jerusalem Sep 2015 #41
My thoughts exactly... n/t backscatter712 Sep 2015 #170
So the concern is sexual assault? Or violence? abelenkpe Sep 2015 #48
Who do you think is in more danger? Cal Carpenter Sep 2015 #50
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One notices he didn't answer. Starry Messenger Sep 2015 #130
Did you know that how you dress is not an indication of your gender? I am middle aged female in levi uppityperson Sep 2015 #199
You just used the Klan Fallacy. backscatter712 Sep 2015 #70
so you're saying that the laws permitting transgendered to use the restroom CreekDog Sep 2015 #363
How about it's none of my business what is in your pants Cal Carpenter Sep 2015 #47
That would be the first option if you would like to vote in the poll (nt) Nye Bevan Sep 2015 #51
No, it isn't. Cal Carpenter Sep 2015 #53
Ah, so "none of my business" does not necessarily mean "should be legal" (nt). Nye Bevan Sep 2015 #58
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As you can see from the poll results, DU is divided almost exactly 50-50 on this issue. Nye Bevan Sep 2015 #64
That just means DU has a lot of, well, we aren't allowed to call them what they are, who don't understand that this is already the law. Starry Messenger Sep 2015 #74
You say that like it means anything. Spider Jerusalem Sep 2015 #94
Whoops, forgot the "internet poll" disclaimer. Nye Bevan Sep 2015 #125
It is not fifty-fifty LostOne4Ever Sep 2015 #235
You do realize that response distributions in DU polls suffer from self-selection bias, right? n/t Gormy Cuss Sep 2015 #341
I urge jury nullification on Cal Carpenter's post... n/t backscatter712 Sep 2015 #134
I concur. Nye Bevan Sep 2015 #159
I know. I don't understand why people have to cuss at others if they disagree. cwydro Sep 2015 #316
I second this. The overt bigotry on display here is horrendous. Warren Stupidity Sep 2015 #169
You are officially due beer and travel money, and many experiences. nt Zorra Sep 2015 #243
No, it isn't. Your first option is "Biological men" which is far different and as of yet, undefined uppityperson Sep 2015 #201
#5 Americans should grow up about sex. randys1 Sep 2015 #60
Is this really only a US issue? Nye Bevan Sep 2015 #62
Americans should grow up about sex. randys1 Sep 2015 #63
Poorly worded gollygee Sep 2015 #65
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We're not talking about men. We're talking about trans-women. backscatter712 Sep 2015 #68
Well, to be fair, it is my OP and that was my poll question (nt) Nye Bevan Sep 2015 #73
Yeah, and your framing is fucking bullshit. n/t backscatter712 Sep 2015 #75
I'm sorry that you didn't like the wording of my poll (nt) Nye Bevan Sep 2015 #78
And I'm not sorry for calling out your bullshit. n/t backscatter712 Sep 2015 #81
I appreciate your contribution to the discussion. I certainly don't need an apology. Nye Bevan Sep 2015 #85
And half our country is infatuated with Donald Trump. backscatter712 Sep 2015 #131
Polls like this are called push polls for a reason. Ms. Toad Sep 2015 #180
Hmmm. I didn't use the word "rape", the word "attack" or even the word "assault", Nye Bevan Sep 2015 #186
Calling transwomen "biological men," which your second question expressly does, Ms. Toad Sep 2015 #200
Under 50 participants IS NOT HALF OF DU. PeaceNikki Sep 2015 #317
I agree about the bullshit framing. Frankly I'm not surprised, though. Arugula Latte Sep 2015 #95
Ditto on the bullshit framing AND not one bit surprised either. Polls like this make DU suck. bettyellen Sep 2015 #242
AUTOMATED MESSAGE: Results of your Jury Service eggplant Sep 2015 #371
I don't think cis men should go into a women's room without announcing and gollygee Sep 2015 #72
Let's try this. Say a non-transgender man uses the lady's room at a highway rest stop every day, Nye Bevan Sep 2015 #76
Yes. It's called "being a Peeping Tom". WinkyDink Sep 2015 #84
Trans-women should not be subjected to a crotch-search to be allowed to go in a bathroom and pee. backscatter712 Sep 2015 #67
I agree with every word of your post (nt) Nye Bevan Sep 2015 #82
MEN have No Business in a woman's restroom and Visa Versa trueblue2007 Sep 2015 #71
My next question: Allowing TERFs on a Democratic message board. backscatter712 Sep 2015 #79
Relevant: Spider Jerusalem Sep 2015 #86
I love this cartoon. Tree-Hugger Sep 2015 #135
A very good question indeed! nt LostOne4Ever Sep 2015 #89
Because DU juries choose to allow it? Nye Bevan Sep 2015 #90
For those who don't know, TERF = Trans-Exclusionary Reactionary Feminist. backscatter712 Sep 2015 #98
I have had quite an education Tree-Hugger Sep 2015 #138
There are no TERFs here. The OP is not a radical feminist. geek tragedy Sep 2015 #93
There are plenty of TERFs here (not necessarily in this thread, perhaps) Spider Jerusalem Sep 2015 #97
the only transphobic stuff I've seen have been from those who are generally not aligned geek tragedy Sep 2015 #104
Then you haven't seen the same things I have, but I can assure you they're here. Spider Jerusalem Sep 2015 #108
you can PM, I'd be interested to see geek tragedy Sep 2015 #109
I think I know who the previous poster is talking about gollygee Sep 2015 #117
The James Dobson wing of the party is sure getting an airing here today, ain't they? Starry Messenger Sep 2015 #107
An altogether better question. nt Codeine Sep 2015 #121
Hell no. sagat Sep 2015 #87
If *HE* is dressed as a woman, I'll let him come in mainer Sep 2015 #92
Doesn't such an approach simply woolldog Sep 2015 #287
Sex-Segregated Public Restrooms Are an Outdated Relic of Victorian Paternalism davidn3600 Sep 2015 #100
I agree! tammywammy Sep 2015 #116
A rapist is more likely to walk into a woman's restroom if he knows he cannot be arrested Nye Bevan Sep 2015 #128
Someone that already has ill intentions is going to do it regardless. n/t tammywammy Sep 2015 #141
Why would you think that? What proof of any sort do you have of that? uppityperson Sep 2015 #232
as long as they use a stall and don't request those smelly urinals notadmblnd Sep 2015 #103
The results of the poll are sad and uninformed. yardwork Sep 2015 #114
I thought perhaps an armband so that the gender police could clearly identify them. Warren Stupidity Sep 2015 #181
Yeah, a piece of flair that they'd be required to wear on their clothing... backscatter712 Sep 2015 #184
How about a yellow penis on their clothes geardaddy Sep 2015 #364
Are you kidding me with this? blogslut Sep 2015 #120
I'm guessing that you disagree with 50% of DU on this issue? (nt) Nye Bevan Sep 2015 #122
Oh, child. blogslut Sep 2015 #124
. Nye Bevan Sep 2015 #126
Or as the Irish these days might say... backscatter712 Sep 2015 #137
I think the real issue is women feeling vulnerable to sexual assault mainer Sep 2015 #127
And that's why trans-women shouldn't be forced to use the men's room. backscatter712 Sep 2015 #132
This poll doesn't seem to hit the issue of transgender very fully. PatrickforO Sep 2015 #133
I was expecting the middle choice to get the most votes. Nye Bevan Sep 2015 #145
Creeps have hidden in women's rooms before gollygee Sep 2015 #147
Remember this dude? Nye Bevan Sep 2015 #150
I don't think it'll make any difference at all gollygee Sep 2015 #155
If you don't think that any creeps would be emboldened by being legally allowed in the ladys room, Nye Bevan Sep 2015 #172
I am really confused why you continue this line uppityperson Sep 2015 #238
Oh. Well, I'd have voted the middle one! PatrickforO Sep 2015 #149
As a men, I selfishly would not give a shit who's in there with me. Nye Bevan Sep 2015 #154
Well, I have a wife and daughters too, and soon will have a grand daughter. PatrickforO Sep 2015 #158
Again, I am not the slightest bit concerned about transgender people. Nye Bevan Sep 2015 #160
Oh! I get it now. Sorry for being dense. PatrickforO Sep 2015 #165
How paternalistic of you. Goblinmonger Sep 2015 #211
Yes, having daughters has made me more paternalistic. Nye Bevan Sep 2015 #215
I have a daughter Goblinmonger Sep 2015 #218
+1 Ed Suspicious Sep 2015 #250
Are you seriously not aware of how many transwomen Ms. Toad Sep 2015 #188
With almost 200 responses, DU divided 50-50 and a vigorous, lively debate? Nye Bevan Sep 2015 #191
So if I put an intentionally racist push poll up, Ms. Toad Sep 2015 #203
I have made it abundantly clear that I have no issue with genuine transgender people. Nye Bevan Sep 2015 #206
Then why did you not put a single option in your poll Ms. Toad Sep 2015 #282
DU is not divided 50-50. Jamastiene Sep 2015 #349
Who do you know that carries "medical documentation of being transgender" around with them? uppityperson Sep 2015 #236
Yes, we can make transsexuals wear something on their clothes to prove they are. jeff47 Sep 2015 #331
As long as they don't pee on the seat, I don't get the problem HereSince1628 Sep 2015 #136
I've often wondered if anyone here has kids... ileus Sep 2015 #139
The question is not whether men (however you label them) Ms. Toad Sep 2015 #146
the transphobic poster of this transphobic poll knows that and thinks he is being cute Warren Stupidity Sep 2015 #171
Do you consider all the DUers who chose option 3 in the poll to be transphobic? (nt) Nye Bevan Sep 2015 #177
I consider your position here on this issue to be one of overt transphobic bigotry. Warren Stupidity Sep 2015 #179
Again, thanks for sharing your feelings on this issue (nt) Nye Bevan Sep 2015 #183
Unisex shitters for all JackInGreen Sep 2015 #153
A person who is psychologically or physically a woman should use the prayin4rain Sep 2015 #156
I would think that incidents of trans-women assaulting cis-women would be very rare. Maedhros Sep 2015 #174
Oh, I totally agree. prayin4rain Sep 2015 #197
Your question is transphobic. Warren Stupidity Sep 2015 #161
For all the women here that are fine with this Heeeeers Johnny Sep 2015 #168
So do women Tree-Hugger Sep 2015 #216
LOL @ "deuces" geardaddy Sep 2015 #365
Having been a janitor, both men and women are slobs in toilets. uppityperson Sep 2015 #240
I would assume most use the urinal, and as such the toilets are cleaner. Travis_0004 Sep 2015 #264
I don't know how to break this to you, but there are no urinals in a women's restroom. WillowTree Sep 2015 #284
"YOU VANT TO TAKE DUMP?? VERE ARE YOUR PAPERS??" bullwinkle428 Sep 2015 #189
Conservatives Use "Bathroom Panic" To Defeat Transgender Non-Discrimination Laws Starry Messenger Sep 2015 #194
In France there are unisex restrooms Nevernose Sep 2015 #204
Gendered bathrooms aren't necessary. Gormy Cuss Sep 2015 #208
How about we relabel the bathrooms on the NJ Turnpike rest stops as "bathroom 1" and "bathroom 2", Nye Bevan Sep 2015 #210
Why do you think women wouldn't be receptive to this concept? Gormy Cuss Sep 2015 #220
Outside of Wrigley Field I haven't seen "troughs" in at least 25 years (nt) Nye Bevan Sep 2015 #222
And that anecdote means what, exactly? Gormy Cuss Sep 2015 #225
Then you haven't been to the First Avenue club in Minneapolis. bullwinkle428 Sep 2015 #241
There are still a few places... backscatter712 Sep 2015 #248
And the CC Club and Lyle's and the State Fair geardaddy Sep 2015 #367
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And because in one case, a black man assaulted a white woman... backscatter712 Sep 2015 #214
Not sure single-sex restrooms are analogous to whites-only schools. Nye Bevan Sep 2015 #217
And we have a winner!!![n/t] LostOne4Ever Sep 2015 #237
Congratulations, exhaustive Googling has found you a single instance... Spider Jerusalem Sep 2015 #226
A letter from a psychiatrist is actually a good idea, Nye Bevan Sep 2015 #229
You seem to be amazingly ignorant Spider Jerusalem Sep 2015 #233
It's just the usual trolling. Nothing more. nt Guy Whitey Corngood Sep 2015 #313
Biological men Tree-Hugger Sep 2015 #224
Its called a "Urinal" if you have penis...use it. hexola Sep 2015 #227
Head Games... hexola Sep 2015 #228
Is there no such thing as Heterophobia? (nt) hexola Sep 2015 #244
No there isn't. Its homophobic bullshit similar to "reverse racism". n/t Humanist_Activist Sep 2015 #297
No. shenmue Sep 2015 #305
I don't know how I feel about this yuiyoshida Sep 2015 #247
tired of offending the usual groups? CreekDog Sep 2015 #252
Would DU be a better and more interesting place if nobody was ever offended? Nye Bevan Sep 2015 #256
No. DU would be a better place without transphobia or homophobic posts. uppityperson Sep 2015 #261
Perhaps we could have some kind of "jury system" Nye Bevan Sep 2015 #265
What post of yours was hidden in the last 90 days? I am sincerely curious, if you'd link it. uppityperson Sep 2015 #276
(Trigger warning) it was a somewhat facetious remark about "microaggressions" and "trigger warnings". Nye Bevan Sep 2015 #279
Frankly, Snobblevitch Sep 2015 #254
My genitals are not attached to a facility. Are yours? uppityperson Sep 2015 #259
Why? Starry Messenger Sep 2015 #298
I second the "Why?" justiceischeap Sep 2015 #340
I was attempting sarcasm at the expense of Jenner. Snobblevitch Sep 2015 #366
I don't care who poops where. svpadgham Sep 2015 #255
And how do you determine this? ibegurpard Sep 2015 #258
A DUer upthread suggested that a psychiatrist's letter could serve as documentation. Nye Bevan Sep 2015 #262
Are you seriously suggesting we check papers ibegurpard Sep 2015 #268
No. (nt) Nye Bevan Sep 2015 #272
Papers please? backscatter712 Sep 2015 #270
No. But if a woman complains to a cop or security guard about a man in the women's restroom, Nye Bevan Sep 2015 #277
If a woman complains about a person behaving inappropriately in the women's restroom, Ms. Toad Sep 2015 #288
I did not, in fact, suggest that Spider Jerusalem Sep 2015 #290
I'm going to be rude here. WARNING! Don't read the text Nye, you will likley be offended. vkkv Sep 2015 #369
Im confused...by excremental discrimination hexola Sep 2015 #275
How about getting rid of the gaps? tandot Sep 2015 #273
How is this going to be determined? lonestarnot Sep 2015 #291
I couldn't care less Egnever Sep 2015 #296
Push poll much? marmar Sep 2015 #299
No, "push poll" does not mean "poll whose results I don't like Nye Bevan Sep 2015 #315
If a transgender woman wants to use a restroom who cares what is between her legs? dilby Sep 2015 #306
Nuke the site from orbit. Orrex Sep 2015 #311
There is always a line at the womens restrooms liberal N proud Sep 2015 #314
You are a real piece of work, Nye. morningfog Sep 2015 #319
why is 'i am an asshole' not a response option? La Lioness Priyanka Sep 2015 #320
Anyone who believes themself to be an asshole is welcome to post that in the thread (nt) Nye Bevan Sep 2015 #321
i believe you are, so you should have added it as an option. nt La Lioness Priyanka Sep 2015 #322
That would force them to either "break character" or show some self awareness. nt Guy Whitey Corngood Sep 2015 #344
The option I was looking for was 'The author of this poll is a bigoted, shallow minded fool'. Bluenorthwest Sep 2015 #375
I won't answer your poll. MineralMan Sep 2015 #325
I was beginning to wonder why you hadn't voted. Nye Bevan Sep 2015 #330
I doubt you were wondering about that at all. MineralMan Sep 2015 #338
Huge straw man post! nt longship Sep 2015 #328
anyone have kids here??? ileus Sep 2015 #329
Yep. Even have a daughter. The poll is still a steaming pile of transphobia. (nt) jeff47 Sep 2015 #332
No Capt. Obvious Sep 2015 #334
I have two kids. n/t gollygee Sep 2015 #368
What a crock of shit. Jamastiene Sep 2015 #333
You've eaten quite the meal this week Capt. Obvious Sep 2015 #335
When did you stop beating your spouse? That question is just as honest as your poll. Humanist_Activist Sep 2015 #336
A thread to prove my point and rather perfectly. Rex Sep 2015 #343
I'm not sure which is worse . . . markpkessinger Sep 2015 #370
Bigoted push poll- and another abstention for this trash bettyellen Sep 2015 #372
Who gives a shit? bobclark86 Sep 2015 #385
Yes, chilling is good...breahe.... CTyankee Sep 2015 #387
^^ This ^^ Fearless Sep 2015 #397
It's a bathroom. Do you have separate bathrooms for men and women at home?? Fearless Sep 2015 #396
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