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In reply to the discussion: Allowing biological men to use women's restrooms? [View all]Ms. Toad
(34,069 posts)is nowhere close to neutral. It is offensive. Transwomen are not men. Period. Clever wording to work the word "men" into the question that is expressly about transwomen using the women's bathroom is as offensive as refusing to use the pronouns or name you are asked to use.
Suggesting that the goal is to let men into the women's restroom, without restriction, (as your first question does) is an intentional fearmongering tactic (especially combined with your express suggestions below the OP that allowing transwomen to use the women's bathroom will let men get away with rape).
Letting women use the women's room is not an invitation to rape. In contraxt, forcing transwomen to use the men's restroom subjects an already vulnerable population to extreme risk of violence.