But I have to tell you that the problem is not just them--it's YOU. You can't expect everyone to change to adapt to your PTSD. If you REALLY want to make your family situation work, YOU can make it work.
I credit you for all the hard work you've done with with therapy, but you know something is still wrong.
I lost a long marriage to my PTSD from Vietnam. You DON'T have to lose yours. The worst thing for a vet in your shoes is to just accept that "This is just the way I am" instead of understanding that "I can be better than this."
If your therapists are not helping you to manage your trauma reactions, maybe you need new therapists. Or maybe you need a new you. And that's not a joke. You really can change this shit.
You don't have to be a constant victim of war trauma. It will always be there, but you can choose to change things. Like me, you served as a platoon officer, in charge. As hard as it is, you need to take charge again.
Wishing you all the best, brother. 
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