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rhett o rick

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22. Escalation isn’t the answer. It does feel good when the big guy linebacker is on your side
Tue May 22, 2012, 01:02 PM
May 2012

but unfortunately that epitomizes the bullying problem. Bullying on the side of goodness is still bullying.

I see bullying as a huge problem. Our movies and video games are full of it. All we have to do is rationalize that the bullying is on the good side and it’s ok. Dirty Harry is a good bully, right?

I would much rather the note say, “Dear bullies, if you are going to pick on “Jimmy”, then you will have to pick on all of us. Signed by "jimmy's" fellow students”. Bullies are enabled by both active and passive behavior by the rest of us. Most victims stand alone.

What happens if the linebacker beats up the two bullies? Will it end there? Will the bullies have learned their lesson? or will they have learned about further escalation and bring a gun to school?

We have bullying right here in DU City. If someone posts something unpopular, although some might be polite and try to discuss, others will try to belittle and intimidate. I know, I catch myself doing it all the time, but I am getting better.


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Nice !!!!!! Marrah_G May 2012 #1
Cute, but he could learn the proper way to write a valediction. originalpckelly May 2012 #2
It's probably a printout Rob H. May 2012 #18
i'm hoping this will be one of the things that will help gay kids in modern times JI7 May 2012 #3
K&R one_voice May 2012 #4
You did a good job, dads... MrMickeysMom May 2012 #5
Recommended. William769 May 2012 #6
Beautiful. AtomicKitten May 2012 #7
Love it! MannyGoldstein May 2012 #8
While I support the intent of the note, jerseyjack May 2012 #9
Zero tolerance is a part of the problem Thav May 2012 #15
where is the zero tolerance of BULLYING? pansypoo53219 May 2012 #19
I love it Jack Rabbit May 2012 #10
It's sad that the only thing bullies understand is the threat or exercise of force. Selatius May 2012 #11
Sadly I believe they learn it from their parents - TBF May 2012 #17
beautiful. good job, kid! Suji to Seoul May 2012 #12
Thanks for the smile.. midnight May 2012 #13
cute; but mimitabby May 2012 #14
Awesome! WillParkinson May 2012 #16
K and R bigwillq May 2012 #20
That's pretty cool. Kablooie May 2012 #21
Escalation isn’t the answer. It does feel good when the big guy linebacker is on your side rhett o rick May 2012 #22
It's too good to be true, but I recommended it anywa JDPriestly May 2012 #23
Awesome! Dont call me Shirley May 2012 #24
For those who don't like 'escalation' or 'counter-bullying'... The Doctor. May 2012 #25
+1. nt awoke_in_2003 May 2012 #26
Exactly! fascisthunter May 2012 #27
What's your definition of "counter-bullying"? nm rhett o rick May 2012 #28
Defense versus offense zipplewrath May 2012 #29
+1000000 HillWilliam May 2012 #30
they don't "understand" zipplewrath May 2012 #31
k&r HappyMe May 2012 #32
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