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Egnever

(21,506 posts)
44. Again, While it certainly is not a good model of parenting.
Thu Sep 10, 2015, 08:43 PM
Sep 2015

Do you envision this bounty on her head to have a good outcome for the child?

I couldn't care less about the thievery from a kill shelter that in the end puts down any animal it deems past its usefulness date. My sole concern is that the bounty doesn't serve any purpose whatsoever other than in the end punishing a child who is likely not in a great situation to begin with. That IS cold hearted.

Do explain to me how this bounty is somehow helpful and not cold hearted. What good comes from it?

Obviously stealing from a shelter is not desirable behavior but that does not make the woman cold hearted. The shelter will survive without the $75 for the kitten. The child having a mother possibly arrested or unable to find work because of this could face a ton of negative impacts from this. Sure her mom should not be doing it in the first place but I am not in her shoes and don't know what drove her to do it. I do know that over a $75 adoption fee the shelter is more than willing to cause possible irreparable harm to the child and mother.

I don't find a kitten in a shelter worth that. Worse I find the shelters willingness to publicly shame a mother and child over it appalling. Spend the $500 on better security if stealing kittens is that large of a problem.

And once again for those in the audience who cant separate the theft from the shelters actions. Obviously stealing kittens from a shelter is not acceptable behavior I am in no way advocating stealing kittens from shelters I am simply disgusted by the shelters reaction to it.

But then people are much more important to me than kittens. YMMV




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Cold hearted? Egnever Sep 2015 #1
Hopefully they aren't selling the kitty to some Dr. Frist type. Hassin Bin Sober Sep 2015 #2
I'm sure if the woman 840high Sep 2015 #3
$500 reward Egnever Sep 2015 #4
How do you know she didn't steal the cat to sell it? Hassin Bin Sober Sep 2015 #7
So easy to point fingers Egnever Sep 2015 #16
Also easy to point fingers when one denies other possible motivations for an act. LanternWaste Sep 2015 #28
Yes you are right we should always assign the worst possible motive Egnever Sep 2015 #29
Especially to thieves, right...nt joeybee12 Sep 2015 #33
If they can't afford the adoption fees, how can they afford food, cat litter, vet visits, etc? REP Sep 2015 #36
Have you had a look at adoption fees lately? Egnever Sep 2015 #37
It's $75 for the humane society in question. LisaL Sep 2015 #38
I just adopted two kittens, one feral, so yes. REP Sep 2015 #39
LOL its good to be comfortably situated Egnever Sep 2015 #40
I'm sorry about your lack of reading comprehension REP Sep 2015 #42
If you can't afford an adoption fee (assuming that is the issue), how can you possibly LisaL Sep 2015 #10
yep 840high Sep 2015 #12
Cats are not that expensive Egnever Sep 2015 #13
Since I have cats, I know full well how expensive it can get to care for a cat. LisaL Sep 2015 #17
Well since you are the only one to ever own cats Egnever Sep 2015 #20
Food, litter, shots, and an annual vet check-up is estimated to be about $500 per year. Gormy Cuss Sep 2015 #46
Stealing a cat isn't a good lesson for a child, agreed. Gormy Cuss Sep 2015 #18
the way the kid happily skipped out of there, you can bet this theft isn't her Mom's first. bettyellen Sep 2015 #21
And the way the shelter has responded may be an indication that they have a recurring Gormy Cuss Sep 2015 #22
yep- if you have such few scruples that you're using kids to aide in thievery, you're probably bettyellen Sep 2015 #23
If you don't have any extra money, you can't afford a pet anyway. LisaL Sep 2015 #11
Agree...pet adoption fees can be high... joeybee12 Sep 2015 #24
Or turn it over to PETA. You don't want that, do you? Eleanors38 Sep 2015 #5
ARE YOU NUTS? Let's not put you in charge of anything. zonkers Sep 2015 #6
So you think people should just be able to adopt animals with no controls? yellowcanine Sep 2015 #8
What a stupid response Egnever Sep 2015 #14
So you say. Judging by what others are saying here - not so much. yellowcanine Sep 2015 #26
Well as long as we are throwing around wild speculation Egnever Sep 2015 #31
because she uses her child to assist in planned thefts? sorry- that is some FUCKED UP parenting. bettyellen Sep 2015 #35
A good rescue organization would verify if a person who wants to adopt a pet is a responsible pet LisaL Sep 2015 #9
Well they would go through the motions anway Egnever Sep 2015 #15
they weed out the resellers, which is awesome. this woman is teaching her kid that stealing is a bettyellen Sep 2015 #25
Oh ? Egnever Sep 2015 #30
by not giving them away, for fucks sake. they need to pay for overhead and the care they give sick bettyellen Sep 2015 #34
Possibly Egnever Sep 2015 #41
I could understand stealing food but this was a planned and unnecessary theft bettyellen Sep 2015 #43
Again, While it certainly is not a good model of parenting. Egnever Sep 2015 #44
better the shelter catch her than another store- who would absolutely press charges bettyellen Sep 2015 #45
The purpose is to adopt out their animals, not for someone to come along and steal one. Rex Sep 2015 #27
Pet stores have live animal shop lift problems too Omaha Steve Sep 2015 #19
well they've got good, clear video of her magical thyme Sep 2015 #32
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