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A Little Weird

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24. I'm not sure that's true
Tue Sep 15, 2015, 10:23 PM
Sep 2015

Sleeveless shirts and tank tops were popular among boys when I went to school. I can't think of a single instance when a boy was reprimanded for showing some shoulder or collarbone. The only times I can recall a boy being talked to about dress code were 1 - something "inappropriate" written on his shirt and 2 - jeans with a rip that came too close to the crotch and you could actually see his underwear. I agree that kilts never came into fashion but guys did wear "distractingly" tight jeans often enough. And while it was not an everyday thing, there were definitely times when boys would ditch their shirts entirely for gym class. Guys just aren't subject to the same level of regulation that girls are.

Horny teenagers are going to be distracted regardless of what the opposite sex is wearing. I'm pretty sure that's part of being a teen. I find it a lot more disturbing that male teachers are distracted by what their pupils are wearing.

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This irritates me to no end laundry_queen Sep 2015 #1
some people insist that the answer is school uniforms, which irks me no end. let's just get niyad Sep 2015 #5
That's what school does anyway The2ndWheel Sep 2015 #12
Exactly. laundry_queen Sep 2015 #23
Uniforms would solve a lot of this crap yeoman6987 Sep 2015 #27
My kids just started HS in an katsy Sep 2015 #43
Uniforms!!!! It would take care of so much yeoman6987 Sep 2015 #26
Hell no. nt laundry_queen Sep 2015 #36
I guess....I just don't like kids getting killed over a pair of sneakers yeoman6987 Sep 2015 #39
Silly laundry_queen Sep 2015 #40
Yeah now you are being insincere yeoman6987 Sep 2015 #41
Where did I say they weren't ever? laundry_queen Sep 2015 #42
As a guy, I find it offensive to say that I wouldn't be able to focus mythology Sep 2015 #2
as I said, the fact that the male teachers find the attire of the girls distracting is disturbing niyad Sep 2015 #4
Too many guys use that as a cop out for boorish behavior. mythology Sep 2015 #10
sadly, you are correct. niyad Sep 2015 #13
. . . niyad Sep 2015 #3
So, now it's for the male teachers that the girls have to MineralMan Sep 2015 #6
I wonder if they should even be in charge of young students at all. niyad Sep 2015 #8
That's an excellent question. MineralMan Sep 2015 #16
Even that wouldn't help mythology Sep 2015 #11
I wonder if the guys making up these dress codes are closet pedophiles meow2u3 Sep 2015 #29
interesting question. one also has to wonder about the women who are going along niyad Sep 2015 #45
On the other hand Matariki Sep 2015 #7
this society sexualizes young women almost from birth, and then penalizes them for acting niyad Sep 2015 #9
Yup. Matariki Sep 2015 #17
And anyone that tries to do something about it zipplewrath Sep 2015 #19
Two things about this. Orrex Sep 2015 #14
unfortunately, too many people do not accept that your #2 is the point. niyad Sep 2015 #15
In 1963, I was a senior in high school in California. MineralMan Sep 2015 #18
good for your girlfriend and her father. niyad Sep 2015 #20
+1 jonno99 Sep 2015 #37
I fully support school uniforms but this school sounds like it went way beyond. KittyWampus Sep 2015 #21
Agree Egnever Sep 2015 #35
Girls have more rules because they have more choice whatthehey Sep 2015 #22
I'm not sure that's true A Little Weird Sep 2015 #24
Any schools allow skirts/dresses/culottes/yoga pants for boys? Then I'm sure. whatthehey Sep 2015 #25
I don't think kilts were banned from my school A Little Weird Sep 2015 #28
That's weird - did you change your post? A Little Weird Sep 2015 #30
But in answer to your question A Little Weird Sep 2015 #31
The girls at those schools should get together and wear Burkas. That would start the shit-a-flying. BlueJazz Sep 2015 #32
at one point, the high school I attended tried to outlaw both min-skirts and granny niyad Sep 2015 #33
What's wrong with granny dresses.? Maybe the men need to see just-a-little-leg? BlueJazz Sep 2015 #38
the board claimed that the granny dresses were also "distracting", from being so niyad Sep 2015 #47
Only one solution. Hire only female teachers. nt valerief Sep 2015 #34
Why don't Guys wear Short Shorts Anymore ? JI7 Sep 2015 #44
I see this kind of thing almost every day in the warmer weather. niyad Sep 2015 #46
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