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Manifestor_of_Light

(21,046 posts)
66. Yep, it's about control.
Thu Oct 1, 2015, 12:12 AM
Oct 2015

They don't talk about men who pressure women into abortions, because they say it's inconvenient or it's expensive to raise children. And they're not the ones who go through the hell of pregnancy, labor, and delivery.

A lot of control freak men will pressure women into having an abortion, or leave them if they don't have an abortion, or decide to punish them for 18 years by demanding custody and child support from the woman (community property states are equal). Because they were too good to discuss birth control with the woman, or wear a rubber, avoiding responsibility, and blaming everything on the women. They're irresponsible.

Because having a beautiful, healthy baby is such a horrible thing. Especially when the man has a good job, good insurance and can afford it. Some people just don't understand nice.


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if men got pregnant..... [View all] kpete Sep 2015 OP
Starbuck's what? (nt) Nye Bevan Sep 2015 #1
"If"? Shandris Sep 2015 #2
No, it's reflective of the fact 99.99999% of those who get pregnant are women geek tragedy Sep 2015 #4
Oy vey. If XYs could get pregnant... valerief Sep 2015 #29
Yes - it should be changed to Yupster Sep 2015 #49
It would be a religious sacrament. n/t Mira Sep 2015 #3
Yup. hifiguy Sep 2015 #6
"If men could get pregnant, abortion would be a sacrament" DinahMoeHum Sep 2015 #13
She looks awesome! Egnever Sep 2015 #18
Sorry, she died back in December 2000. DinahMoeHum Sep 2015 #33
big thumbs up tomm2thumbs Sep 2015 #21
If men could get pregnant, Yupster Oct 2015 #67
...there'd be an abortion booth in every 7-11 with Ilsa Sep 2015 #5
Good one! leftofcool Sep 2015 #53
...then the first amendment would cover abortion jeff47 Sep 2015 #7
They would be women Sake2Me Sep 2015 #8
Oy. Way to miss the point. SunSeeker Sep 2015 #10
that just went way, WAY over your head, didn't it? Skittles Sep 2015 #17
Speaking of dumb... Arugula Latte Sep 2015 #57
exellent 2nd post olddots Sep 2015 #60
Exactly right. nt SunSeeker Sep 2015 #9
If men could get pregnant, there would be no abortion "debate". n/m ProudToBeBlueInRhody Sep 2015 #11
Good point Major Nikon Sep 2015 #12
That cherry-picked picture does not reflect reality. SunSeeker Sep 2015 #14
It most certainly does reflect reality Major Nikon Sep 2015 #15
Nope. 54% of women are pro choice, while only 46% of men are. SunSeeker Sep 2015 #34
You are really reaching here Major Nikon Sep 2015 #36
Oy. Again with the misleading pictures. SunSeeker Sep 2015 #38
So you are claiming the terrorist actions of 3 men are altering public policy on this issue... Major Nikon Sep 2015 #40
Amazing that you would take issue with this OP. SunSeeker Sep 2015 #41
When the strawman and red herrings fail, I guess there's always lame character assassination Major Nikon Sep 2015 #43
Your sexist, clueless post was in the Men's Group. I don’t go there. SunSeeker Sep 2015 #65
Tiller was also shot by a woman. DirkGently Sep 2015 #58
Tiller was killed by a man. SunSeeker Sep 2015 #59
A man inspired by Shelly Shannon's first shooting of Tiller DirkGently Sep 2015 #61
Who is in charge of the religions that wage war against abortion? SunSeeker Sep 2015 #62
I agree we could use some more goddesses, if we're DirkGently Sep 2015 #63
I am not "attacking people for who they are." I am opposing what they do. SunSeeker Sep 2015 #64
Yet that is simply not true, as your own numbers showed. DirkGently Oct 2015 #68
Majority Pro-choice (women) vs. Minority Pro-Choice (men) is not "negligable." SunSeeker Oct 2015 #70
But it's not "significant." The gender gap is very small on this issue. DirkGently Oct 2015 #71
No, untrue and unhelpful is suggesting all anti abortion activists are women. SunSeeker Oct 2015 #73
Mixing me up with the other poster I think? DirkGently Oct 2015 #75
Nope, not mixing you up with the guy you jumped in to defend. SunSeeker Oct 2015 #77
Nope. You made a false statement of fact, period. DirkGently Oct 2015 #79
You're not "just trying to help." You're defending a lie. nt SunSeeker Oct 2015 #80
Abortion is not a men vs. women issue, SunSeeker. DirkGently Oct 2015 #81
Abortion bans are about controlling women, Dirk. nt SunSeeker Oct 2015 #82
And apparently some women are on board with that. DirkGently Oct 2015 #83
That some women are brainwashed into going against their own interests is undisputed. nt SunSeeker Oct 2015 #84
I'd only add men are equally deluded. DirkGently Oct 2015 #85
+1000 smirkymonkey Oct 2015 #72
I can't help it.. mountain grammy Sep 2015 #23
Might as well slap some sense into all forced-birthers, regardless of gender Major Nikon Sep 2015 #25
Yes, I wouldn't mind doing that either. mountain grammy Sep 2015 #28
The nature of organized religion is pretty much exclusively about controlling other's actions Major Nikon Sep 2015 #37
I don't see much in it for women.. mountain grammy Sep 2015 #48
Probably because you don't look at things through a moral authoritarian lens Major Nikon Sep 2015 #56
And Tampons would be free. Scuba Sep 2015 #16
Birth control pills would be in vending machines. shraby Sep 2015 #19
... Major Nikon Sep 2015 #20
. CountAllVotes Sep 2015 #54
kicking tomm2thumbs Sep 2015 #22
There goes the football season, Tom Brady got knocked up again. NightWatcher Sep 2015 #24
Imagine how the whole context of Sports Illustrated would change.... underahedgerow Sep 2015 #31
The thing that enrages me most, onecaliberal Sep 2015 #26
I would get my tubes tied. RandySF Sep 2015 #27
You need to post a warning before posting that top image. LAGC Sep 2015 #30
If men could get pregnant, abortion would be a sacrament. nt msanthrope Sep 2015 #32
I'd like to unsee that graphic! cyberswede Sep 2015 #35
they would get extra sick time for their periods; childbirth would be a week inpatient, Lil Missy Sep 2015 #39
Yep. Funny how boner pills are paid under all insurance plans. SunSeeker Sep 2015 #42
If men had periods Facility Inspector Sep 2015 #46
Unsee! Unsee! EYE BLEACH! Warren DeMontague Sep 2015 #44
If men got pregnant instead of women... Orrex Sep 2015 #45
If men got pregnant, humans would not have made it past Caine & Able. MindPilot Sep 2015 #47
Men like to be in control treestar Sep 2015 #50
Yep, it's about control. Manifestor_of_Light Oct 2015 #66
Dangit... My eyes... Oh my eyes... Xyzse Sep 2015 #51
So true CountAllVotes Sep 2015 #52
Great Meme Gothmog Sep 2015 #55
they certainly would never have more than one baby Skittles Oct 2015 #69
Walker is having a great pregnancy Reter Oct 2015 #74
we'd be posting memes about how "if women could get pregnant"? X-P MisterP Oct 2015 #76
All our dicks would be HUGE! Islandurp Oct 2015 #78
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