How do you discuss politics with your family members?

[virtualobserver]

5. that is a tough one

at the root of that is the belief that Obama is pretending to be Christian which makes him fundamentally insincere.

The only way to undermine that belief is to go one level deeper. You cannot argue just the facts.

You must undermine the credibility of those who filled her head with this nonsense. You can't argue that
Obama isn't a Muslim. You have to argue that those people who say he is are deliberately lying because of x.

X can be racism, their own economic agenda.....etc......and you have to present other evidence of their willingness
to lie....by proving that they lie about other things, you can break the frame.