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zazen

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12. certainly true with battering, which is usually quite "logical" and strategic
Mon Oct 12, 2015, 10:58 AM
Oct 2015

Lundy Bancroft has written a lot on this. Most male violence against female partners is based on anger, but that anger has to do with cognitions--the belief that he is entitled to own and control his partner. These same men don't go all out of control with their employers or buddies and usually not with law enforcement and judges. They're the model of rational sanity. These guys usually score "normal" on most mental illness inventories, while their partners who are usually fully traumatized appear like the "crazy" ones.

It's interesting that when their violence against their partner extends into a broader environment like the workplace it's when they believe others are colluding in violating their entitlement to control their domestic life.

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Excellent article!!! n/t RKP5637 Oct 2015 #1
Anger, hopelessness, alienation -- the kinds of things that take a huge, long-term, multifaceted Brickbat Oct 2015 #2
Well said. n/t OneGrassRoot Oct 2015 #4
yes, exactly, criminals like the school shooters are alienated, ellenrr Oct 2015 #11
I was just thinking that anger issues tblue Oct 2015 #3
The Kunduz hospital attack by US forces was a product of anger? Fumesucker Oct 2015 #5
this isn't about state-sponsored violence, obviously. n/t gollygee Oct 2015 #8
Murder - Violence condemned by the political class Fumesucker Oct 2015 #19
War is about profit, imperialism, and nationalism more than anger gollygee Oct 2015 #20
Excellent. Duppers Oct 2015 #23
how to you measure anger in a retail environment? dembotoz Oct 2015 #6
From the article: gollygee Oct 2015 #7
Mass shootings seem a combination anger and mental illness.. whathehell Oct 2015 #9
yeah. When kkk lynch Black people nobody says they've got a "mental illness" ellenrr Oct 2015 #10
certainly true with battering, which is usually quite "logical" and strategic zazen Oct 2015 #12
Correct. And self-pity. And desperation. nt bemildred Oct 2015 #13
But, splutter..that would mean those people aren't so different from us, and that just can't be. n/t jtuck004 Oct 2015 #14
I can't K&R this enough. JDPriestly Oct 2015 #15
Why can't it be both? nt B2G Oct 2015 #16
It is both. This is a crap artricle. Reagan's defunding of mental health services was a grave Hiraeth Oct 2015 #22
Anger management issues and misplaced anger are behaviorial and as such, can be signs Hiraeth Oct 2015 #17
From the article: gollygee Oct 2015 #18
Sociopaths are are very cunning. nt B2G Oct 2015 #21
Let me fix your subject line for you. Should read: From the crap article. But, yes genetics does Hiraeth Oct 2015 #24
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