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14. Or maybe just to let your friends know that you are not sick. That they don't have to worry as

Fri Nov 20, 2015, 06:42 PM

Nov 2015

people often do when someone just disappears.

Not everything is done for nefarious reasons. One the bad aspects of the internet is that people seem to become very cynical after a while.

I assume that unless there is a reason to think someone is just looking for attention, we assume they simply want to let their friends, especially longtime members, that they are okay, that they are just moving on.

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If one is going to leave a discussion forum, why post a long goodbye, or even a short one? [View all] HuckleB Nov 2015 OP

Hello. CJCRANE Nov 2015 #1

Nicely done! HuckleB Nov 2015 #10

How else would you express self pity and self justification? (nt) question everything Nov 2015 #2

Good point. HuckleB Nov 2015 #11

Or maybe just to let your friends know that you are not sick. That they don't have to worry as sabrina 1 Nov 2015 #14

Thank you nt LiberalElite Nov 2015 #53

If you're "friends" you should be in KatyMan Nov 2015 #55

When you are as popolar and well respected a poster as the DUer who has decided to move on sabrina 1 Nov 2015 #68

Now I feel silly. HuckleB Nov 2015 #73

Did you see those tweets on a thread honoring her? Sheepshank Nov 2015 #103

AsahinaKimi left without a good bye yuiyoshida Nov 2015 #107

That is why ChazII Nov 2015 #64

Then say that you are taking a break for a while question everything Nov 2015 #110

Indeed. -eom- HuckleB Nov 2015 #111

I understand saying goodbye. redwitch Nov 2015 #3

Some well thought out goodbyes, have been worthy, indeed. HuckleB Nov 2015 #12

Personally, who cares. They may have a good reason for doing it of which they have a right or as I EV_Ares Nov 2015 #101

Why not. Get in some last insults.... randys1 Nov 2015 #4

Well, you know. I'm trying to avoid insults in my sober old age. HuckleB Nov 2015 #15

Ha! cwydro Nov 2015 #46

That's exaxtly rjsquirrel Nov 2015 #72

And FUCK YOU to the xy who did yz to me!!1 I'm LEAVING!!!!11oneone11 Number23 Nov 2015 #86

Probably just to let people know how they feel. I took a vacation from DU for 7 months. BlueJazz Nov 2015 #5

I've taken many vacations, some involuntary. HuckleB Nov 2015 #16

To get people to beg you to stay. kwassa Nov 2015 #6

Or maybe to simply let people know you are okay, not to worry. How cynical to assume sabrina 1 Nov 2015 #17

I prefer to assume the best of people whenever possible. sheshe2 Nov 2015 #56

This message was self-deleted by its author Sheepshank Nov 2015 #104

^^^^ THIS ^^^^ Tarheel_Dem Nov 2015 #25

I leave all the time and nobody notices Baclava Nov 2015 #7

Oh, I think they do. HuckleB Nov 2015 #18

Some people like to feel important OKNancy Nov 2015 #8

How sad, to always assume the worst of people. I take it they don't want people to worry so sabrina 1 Nov 2015 #19

Hmm. I don't know how one would explain a middle ground between these two posts. HuckleB Nov 2015 #22

It's not hard to think poorly of some fwcr posters Sheepshank Nov 2015 #105

I don't think we get to reach into the minds and thoughts of others and state why they do ScreamingMeemie Nov 2015 #42

The truth is no one would notice unless you said so GusBob Nov 2015 #9

Attention Renew Deal Nov 2015 #13

Or drunk. HuckleB Nov 2015 #20

lol Renew Deal Nov 2015 #23

Drama. linuxman Nov 2015 #21

Shh!!! Iggo Nov 2015 #24

You do speak truth. HuckleB Nov 2015 #29

Humans are emotional Trajan Nov 2015 #26

Emotions suck! HuckleB Nov 2015 #28

I think all of UglyGreed Nov 2015 #27

Hmm. How about some bourbon with those thoughts? HuckleB Nov 2015 #34

Thanks but I never tried bourbon UglyGreed Nov 2015 #38

Got it. HuckleB Nov 2015 #43

LOL UglyGreed Nov 2015 #51

Makers Mark? n/t GP6971 Nov 2015 #61

Sounds good to me! HuckleB Nov 2015 #62

Why suicide notes? jberryhill Nov 2015 #30

Uh, uh. HuckleB Nov 2015 #32

"Goodbye, cruel world" jberryhill Nov 2015 #47

I would have given anything for a note from my husband. ScreamingMeemie Nov 2015 #48

I am sorry for your grief. HuckleB Nov 2015 #59

I am so sorry Evergreen Emerald Nov 2015 #106

I suspect some of them are trying to convince themselves to the act, or from the act. HuckleB Nov 2015 #58

Sometimes when people frogmarch Nov 2015 #31

No doubt about it. HuckleB Nov 2015 #33

Because they want to. ScreamingMeemie Nov 2015 #35

You're post makes much sense. Still, this song also hit my head when I read your tag line. HuckleB Nov 2015 #69

Ha! I haven't heard that song in forever. ScreamingMeemie Nov 2015 #93

I wouldn't do that if I left, because the thread would set a new record Nye Bevan Nov 2015 #36

Lol! cwydro Nov 2015 #50

If you live in a very red community you may have no other political contact that's not hostile Fumesucker Nov 2015 #37

Good observation, as usual. Thanks Fumesucker. haikugal Nov 2015 #60

I don't see that. HuckleB Nov 2015 #83

Eh, I've never knowingly met another atheist either Fumesucker Nov 2015 #97

YAGE SickOfTheOnePct Nov 2015 #39

same with ignore - why do people feel it neccessary to tell you theyre putting you on ignore saturnsring Nov 2015 #40

That is weird, indeed. HuckleB Nov 2015 #63

The best is 'welcome to my ignore list' Action_Patrol Nov 2015 #74

Welcome to MY ignore list. kwassa Nov 2015 #78

WhooHoo! Thank you. Action_Patrol Nov 2015 #95

The best part is when they tell you they are ignoring you, but then occasionally come off ignore... npk Nov 2015 #90

So that they're saved the effort of posting to me without hope of response. sibelian Nov 2015 #99

They're free to do so. End of story. bigwillq Nov 2015 #41

This message was self-deleted by its author saturnsring Nov 2015 #44

When a favorite poster is leaving - I want to know. 840high Nov 2015 #45

The ones who do it almost once a month are the ones that I find tiresome. cwydro Nov 2015 #49

That is really the only time it grinds on me too. ScreamingMeemie Nov 2015 #52

Yes, I have to admit sometimes I do remark on the GBCW post, cwydro Nov 2015 #65

They lose their cool Rose Siding Nov 2015 #54

Sometimes it's not an intended permanent departure DFW Nov 2015 #57

Ouch, and good luck! HuckleB Nov 2015 #66

It won't be pretty, but I knew it was coming some day DFW Nov 2015 #108

So they can get hilariously get locked out of their own GBCW pity thread, of course. nt Tommy_Carcetti Nov 2015 #67

This must be a grand thread. Alas, I missed it. HuckleB Nov 2015 #75

Why do so many make such an issue of this. People are entitled to take leave however they wish, or merrily Nov 2015 #70

Do you like pineapple on pizza? HuckleB Nov 2015 #71

My point is, why do care if I have pineapples on my pizza or not? merrily Nov 2015 #85

Personally I wouldn't say goodbye. geomon666 Nov 2015 #76

Hi. bigwillq Nov 2015 #77

Hello geomon666 Nov 2015 #79

I've only met 1 person IRL bigwillq Nov 2015 #80

The first couple of years, it might have been different, indeed. HuckleB Nov 2015 #84

I still enjoy DU for information and reading articles bigwillq Nov 2015 #87

True enough. Still, it used to be more of a community, and that's not bad. HuckleB Nov 2015 #89

No, that's not a bad thing. bigwillq Nov 2015 #91

Good point. HuckleB Nov 2015 #92

Comic relief? JustAnotherGen Nov 2015 #81

Far too true, much of the time. HuckleB Nov 2015 #82

Sid and a few others (Creekdog maybe??) are great at keeping track of the GBCW posts Number23 Nov 2015 #88

Why not post a "goodbye" letter? nt ladjf Nov 2015 #94

It must be this thing called positive meta I just heard about, discovered in a DU lab. Rex Nov 2015 #96

Nice. Great term. HuckleB Nov 2015 #100

Thank you sir! Rex Nov 2015 #109

MY leaving thread was LOVELY. Everybody was so nice to me! sibelian Nov 2015 #98

people even do the goodbye posts on game messageboards. It's because they have a sense of community Sunlei Nov 2015 #102

I left a message board I was very entrenched in without posting a word. Butterbean Nov 2015 #112