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In reply to the discussion: Is grown women calling their fathers "Daddy" a sign of unconscious submission to patriarchy? [View all]ladyVet
(1,587 posts)That's what they are to me. What they've always been. What else should I call them? Father? Mother? George and Linda? Mr. or Mrs. Jones? (Not their real names.)
I am a liberated, liberal, feminist white female from the South. While I recognize that patriarchy is the scourge of humanity, I don't see why my calling him Daddy means anything at all to anyone but me.
My seventy-something mother still talks about her Mama and Daddy, both sadly passed on. So does my father, in his mid-eighties, also of his diseased parents. I call them Granny and Grandpa on my mother's side, and Grandma {Last name} and Grandpa {Last Name}, because he died before I was born, and I wasn't that close to her, for my father's parents.
Lawsy, talk about first world problems.