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In reply to the discussion: This message was self-deleted by its author [View all]TexasTowelie
(126,705 posts)You are well acquainted with the rules of being a forum host. Individual hosts are permitted to discuss any topic in PMs and we are also permitted to discuss any topic with members outside the host forum. There is no expectation of privacy as a forum host. We have even exchanged PMs between ourselves from time to time.
While discussing votes outside the forum is unprofessional, there also is not a loyalty oath that members take when they volunteer to be a forum host that they will not discuss decisions made within the group after they retire or even while they are serving.
I will be the first to admit that I'm not perfect myself and that I've made mistakes during my service as a host, but you are accusing other hosts of being more conservative or not being open to transparency which is an attack in itself because they disagree with you when making decisions.
I could elaborate on your comment, "Some want to censor everything that doesn't meet their ideology" and provide an example of a completely different stance that you exercised in the hosts forum recently. You even double-downed and complained about a host decision in a safe haven group which was disrespectful and irritated many other hosts.
Stated simply, you don't get to play coy and innocent in open forums because you are far from it. You are criticizing other hosts in an open forum and in this instance you are the person that started it. Quite frankly, you owe the rest of the hosts an apology for making such an unprofessional comment like you did in post #56.