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114. You are exactly right

Reply to werknotgoin2takeit (Reply #106)

Wed Dec 2, 2015, 05:25 PM

Dec 2015

There is nothing quite like spending 2 hrs getting to whatever office / charity that will help..... half of it at least walking.... spending HOURS standing in lines and along the wall in the waiting area.... more often than not with at least 1 child along... only to be told you make $5 too much to qualify for help by someone who could care less and looks at you like you committed a crime.

Fortunately I've not been in that situation but have provided transport and support to people who needed the help. It's just awful. Add in snow, rain etc to the mix and it's a wonder more people don't just give up and crawl into the bottom of a Jim Beam bottle.

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