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In reply to the discussion: Could my neighbors be in federal trouble? [View all]Yo_Mama
(8,303 posts)It's not coming through that you do.
When someone gives a gift, it is disrespectful to demand that it be consonant with your tradition rather than the giver's.
So it is the season of mud as well as the holidays, and someone got a doormat, and they thought - if I put this in front of the group entrance, it will be nicer for everyone. That is in no way an insult to you or your wife.
If someone puts up a menorah at work, I love it, although it's not my tradition. If someone greets me with "Salaam alaikum", I don't firmly admonish the person to say something else. The person just said something very nice to me (Peace to you) and it has deep meaning and significance within their tradition. I smile happily and say "Thank you. And to you." And my happiness is genuine.
If we have a holiday party at work, I generally expect to see a mix of dishes and traditions, and I like it.
Regarding the package, someone did a nice thing for you, and again, you are taking umbrage. Giving gifts and helping other people is sort of traditional at this time of year.
Be wary. If you can't accept the traditions of other people and show them respect, you may soon be marked down as the building Grinch.