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hopemountain

(3,919 posts)
59. one year my jeep
Wed Dec 9, 2015, 06:36 PM
Dec 2015

broke down at the beginning of december. as the sole support for my family, i needed this vehicle for my job in snowy, rural northern nevada - so of course, my entire paycheck went for repairs. there was no money for christmas that year and the pantry was bare - except for flour.

one night during the dinner hour a friend called to ask how we were doing. my hubby, who was on the heart transplant list, answered.
"what are you doing?", our friend asked.
"cookin' dinner", hubby replied.
"whatcha havin'?" friend asked.
"pancakes. same ol' same ol'", came the reply.
"what? pancakes? why?" friend asked.
so, hubby explained.

about an hour later, cars began pulling in the drive. several of our friends/neighbors brought us food from their pantries and freezers. whole frozen salmon! venison roasts and steaks! local butchered beef, a butchered chicken, beans, soups, veggies, p&b, cheese, eggs, etc.. one of our friends was in the middle of making indian tacos when she received the call about our situation - and she packed up and brought us a hot meal of indian tacos straight from her stove.

things had been challenging for us for a while and i could not remember when our food stores had been so full. i was humbled and sobbing. in this depressed community many of our friends were unemployed and i was fortunate to have a steady job. many of them were on tight budgets with food support - and yet, they shared with us. we did not have gifts under the tree that year - but we had one another and a delicious meal.

the generosity of our friends and neighbors showed me how we can never be too poor or without - to share something!

Kicking. n/t lumberjack_jeff Dec 2015 #1
K&R. nt Guy Whitey Corngood Dec 2015 #2
Hits us ALL hard. elleng Dec 2015 #3
Me especially for a single memory. Photographer Dec 2015 #4
Oh golly. elleng Dec 2015 #5
You're a kind, compassionate man, photographer.. whathehell Dec 2015 #17
You have a heart of gold, Photographer. Heart of gold. BlueCaliDem Dec 2015 #27
This year homegirl Dec 2015 #39
Nice idea. I'm going to copy you. Squinch Dec 2015 #62
Wow Marie Marie Dec 2015 #6
Wow! What a story. cui bono Dec 2015 #7
+100 n /t Photographer Dec 2015 #13
I hear people say they don't want to give money to a drug addict or alcoholic Maraya1969 Dec 2015 #47
I give out food a lot. Buy extra and give it out on the way home. cui bono Dec 2015 #48
That is a great idea. And thank you for helping that man with no teeth! That Maraya1969 Dec 2015 #49
There's nothing like these posts to make you realise what a Joe Chi Minh Dec 2015 #52
Yes. senz Dec 2015 #63
Thanks, you made my day. oasis Dec 2015 #8
Naw, Thank you. Photographer Dec 2015 #10
+1000 smirkymonkey Dec 2015 #9
I keep a stash of $5 bills in my car to give to "beggars" Divernan Dec 2015 #11
Good on you. Photographer Dec 2015 #12
Completely agree! Pacifist Patriot Dec 2015 #14
don't believe in karma or religion Facility Inspector Dec 2015 #15
Same here. I carry a lighter on me. F4lconF16 Dec 2015 #43
poverty is the hardest job in America annabanana Dec 2015 #33
My feeling is that, if someone scammed me awoke_in_2003 Dec 2015 #53
thank you for doing this because hopemountain Dec 2015 #60
Kicking... I was hoping this wouldn't slide to page 2 so fast. Photographer Dec 2015 #16
K & R !!! WillyT Dec 2015 #18
The least among us are outside and alone, every night. raouldukelives Dec 2015 #19
k and r niyad Dec 2015 #20
K & R Bryce Butler Dec 2015 #21
The one and only thing wrong with this is navarth Dec 2015 #22
My christmas gift last year... sagetea Dec 2015 #23
What a great story. Photographer Dec 2015 #24
I think it takes a great deal of courage, chervilant Dec 2015 #25
As a Person RobinA Dec 2015 #26
As a (non-practicing) Christian, I've always believed that we should give without conditions. BlueCaliDem Dec 2015 #28
I have a slightly different perspective on it, but I completely agree. F4lconF16 Dec 2015 #45
Yes, I wonder what the PC people with a hang-up about money, make Joe Chi Minh Dec 2015 #50
The big story here SmittynMo Dec 2015 #29
They call it burnout, but what it is a form of PTSD. I cannot even look at the ads from the ... marble falls Dec 2015 #30
I'm not sure it's what we've become as much as it is the reality of life. Fla Dem Dec 2015 #31
kick Angry Dragon Dec 2015 #32
Your friend suffered an attack of humility, ... CRH Dec 2015 #34
I'm glad your friend took action. That's what is needed. hamsterjill Dec 2015 #35
Kick. Thank u for helping him Liberal_in_LA Dec 2015 #36
I've often wondered where some of my therapy patients ended up. nolabear Dec 2015 #37
You do good work. Kudos. Photographer Dec 2015 #38
Thanks. Sadly it really gives you a look at the differences in social and economic strata. nolabear Dec 2015 #42
Charles Dickens absolutely agreed with your perspective. Divernan Dec 2015 #54
To your friend.. SammyWinstonJack Dec 2015 #40
bravo allan01 Dec 2015 #41
I know what you've become Depaysement Dec 2015 #44
A very insensitive person once told me that if a homeless person's sign was funny, Flaxbee Dec 2015 #46
Reading that made my blood run cold. High time for a return of that Joe Chi Minh Dec 2015 #51
She had a gentle, loving message. senz Dec 2015 #64
Every time I read something you wrote, I like you more and more. Squinch Dec 2015 #55
Thanks, Squinch. I needed that. Photographer Dec 2015 #58
. Squinch Dec 2015 #61
K&R... spanone Dec 2015 #56
K & R nt Bigmack Dec 2015 #57
one year my jeep hopemountain Dec 2015 #59
K&R - thanks for this, Photographer. senz Dec 2015 #65
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