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TheMastersNemesis

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Fri Jan 8, 2016, 02:36 AM Jan 2016

If You Don't Want To Lose A Pet Get A Tortoise, Parrot or Koi. No More Pets For Me. [View all]

The aforementioned pets will outlive most people. You can will them to your heirs.

Losing pets is one of the hardest things next to losing a loved one. Well, pets are loved ones. Anyway have decided not to have any more pets. Still have fish in the pond. Will have to find a home for them someday.

Personally we have lost 2 cats to old age and put one down with kidney failure at 12 and a dog at 13 about 18 months ago. Losing Shadow was the worst but the cats were really tough too. So we will have no more pets for two reasons. One we are old enough that our pet might outlast us with no where to go. The other is that it is just too hard to lose a dear pet anymore.

I still miss our dog. She was very intelligent and probably an Australian Kelpi. The most profound thing about losing a pet is the empty space left in the household.

One good thing though, we have so many wild pets here in this Denver suburb. We have nesting hawks, occasional bald eagle, birds of many varieties, prairie dogs, rabbits, squirrels, others cats, others dogs, geese, horned owls (That sometime hoot at night. There were 3 nearby before Christmas), mini hawks (that terrify the birds), coyotes, downy wood pecker, Flicker woodpecker, doves, skunk, raccoon (who eats my grapes,) et al. On my golf course we have egrets, cormorant, White pelican (occasionally), kingfisher, geese, ducks, et al. 40 years living here with all this wildlife and I am in the city.

So I have plenty of animals to enjoy in the area. We have all these creatures in a Denver suburb and my house is just a mile from US 36 that carries thousands of cars a day on the other side of vacant land.

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Ah, I hear you, my dear TheMastersNemesis... CaliforniaPeggy Jan 2016 #1
Also Taking Care Of A Pet Is A Huge Responsibility TheMastersNemesis Jan 2016 #16
Maybe you could foster pets. You'd still have to say goodbye to them, but you'd MADem Jan 2016 #2
I think this is a very good idea. Arugula Latte Jan 2016 #6
To some people, furry housepets are a lifeline Art_from_Ark Jan 2016 #3
As a retired mailman, I saw so many loving pets left behind by their owners Midnight Writer Jan 2016 #4
It is funny you brought this up because I was discussing it yesterday with a neighbor Samantha Jan 2016 #5
Boy, that man is an oxygen-wasting psycho. nt raccoon Jan 2016 #14
We know how hard it is and that one animal cannot replace another. pnwmom Jan 2016 #7
While it is sad to out live your furry companions, SheilaT Jan 2016 #8
Maybe it isn't just about YOU vicman Jan 2016 #9
love what you said - KT2000 Jan 2016 #13
We've been trying to get to this point Tab Jan 2016 #10
I am done too. Contrary1 Jan 2016 #11
OK - but - KT2000 Jan 2016 #12
Death is part of life. I don't know quite how it happened but I've become the cali Jan 2016 #15
I hear ya. Wilms Jan 2016 #17
I'll stick with these two, much more companionship that a turtle or a carp. hobbit709 Jan 2016 #18
I Would Too. Dogs Are Good Companions. Your Black Dog Looks Like Our Shadow. TheMastersNemesis Jan 2016 #21
That's really bad advice. pintobean Jan 2016 #19
Those aren't pets you're talking about, those are "critters" Blue_Tires Jan 2016 #20
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