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MosheFeingold

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28. In seriousness
Thu Jan 14, 2016, 03:34 PM
Jan 2016

I think wolf whistles in my day (and mind you I am closing in on a century) were more widespread because more people walked and also more in the nature of good-natured flirting. All part of the complex dating ritual of humans.

In the 30s we would whistle and the girl would generally be someone we knew/kind of knew from the neighborhood, and would walk over and talk smack back.

As people objected (for various reasons) and people started moving about more in cars, only the creepy guys (cf. guys from neighborhood/school to whom a girl might normally be interested in and was not afraid of) whistled and it became much more of a creepy thing

So, long way of saying, I think it has degenerated from what used to be normal flirting to creepy.

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I'm 75. If I should get a wolf-whistle I will put the man in my Will..n/t monmouth4 Jan 2016 #1
I just whistled at you... Human101948 Jan 2016 #2
Really?! Wow, that's interesting. You must be Republican... closeupready Jan 2016 #3
Why do you say that? monmouth4 Jan 2016 #4
Note my inclusion of sarcasm type, but more seriously, I guess closeupready Jan 2016 #9
Oh, not at all. I was just curious. I should have just said I would be grateful but one shouldn't monmouth4 Jan 2016 #13
72 here, I know what you mean. lol beveeheart Jan 2016 #31
Lol Oneironaut Jan 2016 #5
haha I'm with you. KentuckyWoman Jan 2016 #6
I'll whistle MosheFeingold Jan 2016 #25
Bwahahahahaaaa, at least you made it back. Good on ya..n/t monmouth4 Jan 2016 #30
People are complicated. Brickbat Jan 2016 #7
#1 I think most men who engage in wolf whistling....... WillowTree Jan 2016 #8
Okay, so let's take the 'thicker skin' argument and do this: closeupready Jan 2016 #11
Well, that's a different situation. WillowTree Jan 2016 #16
1) it's embarrassing, which I dislike. 2) totally get it. (n/t) eShirl Jan 2016 #10
A thousand thank you's!! closeupready Jan 2016 #12
I rarely got wolf-whistles in my youth. SheilaT Jan 2016 #14
This message was self-deleted by its author closeupready Jan 2016 #15
I always just thought it was cute to get whistles.... Punkingal Jan 2016 #17
The so-called "wolf whistle" The River Jan 2016 #18
I don't know... Xyzse Jan 2016 #19
In my mind there's a huge difference between a wolf whistle and ... 11 Bravo Jan 2016 #20
I've always found it annoying & irritating Karia Jan 2016 #21
Wow. Speechless - did she really? closeupready Jan 2016 #23
Zero shame is right Karia Jan 2016 #34
What does each DU'er believe the whistle is actually communicating? KittyWampus Jan 2016 #22
It's puzzling, what each man thinks their harassment demonstrates - closeupready Jan 2016 #24
That's spot on .... Whiskeytide Jan 2016 #26
As with any other communication with the opposite sex'es Jim Beard Jan 2016 #27
In seriousness MosheFeingold Jan 2016 #28
I can take a compliment malaise Jan 2016 #29
My experience when I walked city streets regularly was that men didn't wolf whistle. Instead they Squinch Jan 2016 #32
No, thats isn't good Jim Beard Jan 2016 #33
My opinion: ladyVet Jan 2016 #35
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