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In reply to the discussion: Men's Porn Use Linked to Unhappy Relationships [View all]Problems happen when one person has an addictive personality and just cant get enough. That's when trouble brews. I know more than one marriage wrecked by porn.
So guys, if you are looking at harder and harder porn, just walk away or get help. Because you WILL be alone with no one else but the computer otherwise.
And ladies, make sure the dude you like does not have addictive personality unless you want high drama later.
On the other hand, if you go though the guys sh-t, it's over. You have no chance. If you have some kind of borderline personality/ pathological distrust or just have women's intuition, then just ask him. If the answer is not good enough, then you have the problem, not him. ( If he is dirty you already are dirty. He will come clean or you will find out anyway eventually. And if he is clean, you are clean). But, in any event, the moment you click "forward" of his email to your unbeknownst to him, or go through his phone. It's over. You ended it. Not him. Understand that.