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kimi

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49. No, I'll admit it

Sat Jun 2, 2012, 12:12 AM

Jun 2012

& doubt that I'm the only woman who would. Has no effect that I can see on any relationship that I have.

I know without doubt that the guys I have seen or been with (even currently) watch porn - makes no difference to me. It actually IS all about the relationship & getting along. If a relationship is so fragile that porn can bring it down - then there are bigger problems in the relationship.

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Men's Porn Use Linked to Unhappy Relationships [View all] RadiationTherapy Jun 2012 OP

I don't care if my husband watches porn... cynatnite Jun 2012 #1

popcorn JVS Jun 2012 #2

Or more rationally, unhappy relationships are more likely to result in porn use. TheWraith Jun 2012 #3

Agree. I think that's more common than the reverse. randome Jun 2012 #21

"a relationship"? That would depend upon which one. I would guess that the number of patrice Jun 2012 #4

Neutral. HappyMe Jun 2012 #5

that sounds great ManyShadesOf Jun 2012 #43

Title should read, "Men's unhappy relationships linked to Women" cbdo2007 Jun 2012 #6

Anyone who goes through their partner's computer is cthulu2016 Jun 2012 #7

100% Agreed. That was my first reaction as well. Puregonzo1188 Jun 2012 #22

I also see it as a chicken/egg situation Major Nikon Jun 2012 #26

Who gets to define "negative" and "positive"? & Since we are talking about RELATIONSHIP here patrice Jun 2012 #8

Hey ladies: you can't fuck a picture. originalpckelly Jun 2012 #9

Really detrimental to my relationship.... Bennyboy Jun 2012 #10

I'm guessing your relationship had other issues jeff47 Jun 2012 #19

Well yes and no.... Bennyboy Jun 2012 #34

If they were "discovering" it on the partners computer LadyHawkAZ Jun 2012 #11

BING! You win today's Nailed-It prize. nt TheWraith Jun 2012 #12

Some women understand men. sendero Jun 2012 #13

can you break it down for us? ManyShadesOf Jun 2012 #44

Porn is like alcohol. dawg Jun 2012 #14

Totally musiclawyer Jun 2012 #15

Marriages "wrecked by porn" were wrecked by something else jeff47 Jun 2012 #18

aka ManyShadesOf Jun 2012 #45

Nope, but good try trying to blame me. jeff47 Jun 2012 #47

I'm sorry ManyShadesOf Jun 2012 #48

+1. nt riderinthestorm Jun 2012 #16

Why does everyone believe women are the ones "hunting for evidence" of porn use? riderinthestorm Jun 2012 #17

Because when Dr. Phil has an episode about marriages destroyed by porn jeff47 Jun 2012 #20

Dr. Phil? Really? That's Your Source? HangOnKids Jun 2012 #23

"Marriage destroyed by porn" is an extremely common daytime TV episode jeff47 Jun 2012 #25

The cause of porn use kctim Jun 2012 #24

From the article RainDog Jun 2012 #27

Am I the only woman who admits to watching porn? Jennicut Jun 2012 #28

Well, good relationships are about respecting your partner.... Darth_Kitten Jun 2012 #29

No. Warren DeMontague Jun 2012 #41

No, I'll admit it kimi Jun 2012 #49

Is there a place where I could find this porn thing? underpants Jun 2012 #30

Sure. UnrepentantLiberal Jun 2012 #32

I've heard that you can use mythology Jun 2012 #40

Ah, relationships and emotional turmoil... UnrepentantLiberal Jun 2012 #31

I voted "mostly neutral" because its communication and expectations that matter, not porn. Warren DeMontague Jun 2012 #33

I think it depends on the people involved. Ruby the Liberal Jun 2012 #35

"professional acrobat/sex worker" UnrepentantLiberal Jun 2012 #39

I chose none of the above Nevernose Jun 2012 #36

Seems like you either do or don't... Tikki Jun 2012 #37

Let's see, was it the porn, or the alcohol, or the mood swings, or the violent temper... bhikkhu Jun 2012 #38

perhaps they're unhappy ManyShadesOf Jun 2012 #42

It can be addictive Marrah_G Jun 2012 #46