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davidn3600

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5. This kind of has more to do with social programming, in my view
Fri Feb 19, 2016, 06:26 PM
Feb 2016

It would be quite controversial if male flight attendants showed up in skirts. Perhaps even more controversial than if women showed up in pants.

What dictates gender-based dress habits is social traditions and culture. When we grow up we are told, "Men wear this.....and women wear that..." and that's how we grow up. It's what we become accustomed to. When we see women wearing something men usually wear (or vice-versa) we stare and find it strange and out of place.
The point here is the culture is what determines this. And our ideas of what constitutes feminine or masculine clothing is taught to us by society, parents, and the media. We are all born naked. We don't come out of the womb knowing ties are for men and skirts are for women.

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Old ideas die slowly struggle4progress Feb 2016 #1
Oh, goodness. HuckleB Feb 2016 #4
"We really move our tails for you." Manifestor_of_Light Feb 2016 #2
I often wear a kilt -- much more comfortable. n/t Dale Neiburg Feb 2016 #28
I've been fighting endlessly for years to get women out of skirts..or pants underpants Feb 2016 #3
Thank you for your service gratuitous Feb 2016 #14
And in doing so, continue to advertise your character. LanternWaste Feb 2016 #50
This kind of has more to do with social programming, in my view davidn3600 Feb 2016 #5
With us Millennials skirts are still gendered, but pants are not, anymore. Odin2005 Feb 2016 #25
The pants thing, I've never understood at all. Rex Feb 2016 #6
Oh, that reminds me... HuckleB Feb 2016 #7
Shorts!!!! Rex Feb 2016 #10
Southwest Airlines, Hot Pants Jim Beard Feb 2016 #49
At my last job, the CEO decided that nurses needed to wear consistent uniforms Warpy Feb 2016 #8
Yikes. HuckleB Feb 2016 #9
In most hospitals, if there's an issue with different types of staffers being confused... backscatter712 Feb 2016 #13
Yeah, it's not too difficult to accomplish. -eom- HuckleB Feb 2016 #19
And those nurse ratchet get ups are ultimately not sanitary nadinbrzezinski Feb 2016 #15
We were less kind about it Warpy Feb 2016 #17
They are still used nadinbrzezinski Feb 2016 #18
My mother wore them her whole career. malthaussen Feb 2016 #21
My mom told me they had different caps for different schools. Manifestor_of_Light Feb 2016 #31
I wore the whites and cap also Mojorabbit Feb 2016 #34
Not in critical care Warpy Feb 2016 #22
I am thinking abroad mostly nadinbrzezinski Feb 2016 #23
I worked pcu and icu and wore my whites and caps back in the stone age. nt Mojorabbit Feb 2016 #35
IMO a lot of this "confusion" is just old people ignorantly assuming that the man is the doctor... Odin2005 Feb 2016 #26
While I'm Sympathetic RobinA Feb 2016 #43
We solved it for them Warpy Feb 2016 #48
I frequently go out "in the field" to large facilities MissB Feb 2016 #11
+1,000 ... 000 HuckleB Feb 2016 #12
Was she some kind of Fundie kook? Odin2005 Feb 2016 #27
I HAVE HAD IT WITH THESE MTHFN PANTS ON THIS MTHFN PLANE Warren DeMontague Feb 2016 #16
A great story, circa 1969: malthaussen Feb 2016 #20
+1,000... 000 HuckleB Feb 2016 #36
Ahhhh.... RobinA Feb 2016 #44
As a 30yo millennial I can't believe this is still an issue. Odin2005 Feb 2016 #24
I am 55, raised fundy Runningdawg Feb 2016 #29
I remember when we were first allowed to wear "pantsuits" (not just slacks) in valerief Feb 2016 #30
I had to wear a dress every day to school for 12 years. Manifestor_of_Light Feb 2016 #32
I had to wear dresses to school from 1949 to 1962. kskiska Feb 2016 #37
This was in South Texas, and we had hard freezes occasionally. Manifestor_of_Light Feb 2016 #38
In the 80's I was sent home from a temp job because I wore pants.. Glimmer of Hope Feb 2016 #33
Thank you qwlauren35 Feb 2016 #39
There are a few qwlauren35 Feb 2016 #40
I'm always shocked when I see a reference on DU noamnety Feb 2016 #41
It is just bizarre. HuckleB Feb 2016 #42
My guess is that she wears pants for the same reasons TexasBushwhacker Feb 2016 #47
Most of them look pretty cool, but I don't know if she picked out this one or her fashion peeps snooper2 Feb 2016 #52
I hereby call for a boycott of all pants. Orrex Feb 2016 #45
Well, skinny jeans, anyway! HuckleB Feb 2016 #46
Except For That Guy At The NBA All Star Game. . . ProfessorGAC Feb 2016 #51
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