“Look, guys. No matter what a girl does, no matter how she’s dressed…"

[dadchef]

53. Whoa.. Where does it say that a women/girl, hasn't any responsibility for her own safety..

I am a single father of 3 daughters, and I have 2 granddaughters, early teens, that I am raising, and I taught all of them that men/boys are not infallible.. I teach them that they are the sole gatekeeper of their own safety, and reputation..

I'm not suggesting that you didn't say otherwise, but to expect that my telling my two sons that they should respect all women, and NO really means NO! I trust them, and they haven't given me any reason to doubt that they will never behave poorly.. But I was young once, and I have never forced myself on any girl..

But I just never put a woman in a position that my desires where at the mercy of a yes or no question/answer, I was a bit more cagy then that.. I am absolutely sure that I am not the only man that took that tactic to it's conclusion.. It sure didn't always get the desired result, but I really didn't try too hard on the girls that acted properly.. By that I mean, some girls flagged their own desires for the occasion..