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davidthegnome

(2,983 posts)
33. I had a bit of a "light bulb" moment last night.
Wed Mar 23, 2016, 01:02 PM
Mar 2016

I was thinking about people, particularly, democrats, who are in Idaho and other places and waiting in line for hours. Out in the cold in Utah, in the sun in Arizona. Whether Sanders supporters or Clinton supporters, these are the people I want to work with going forward. These people who care about the environment, about the poor, about workers rights and voting rights. These people who will drop what they're doing, in the midst of a truly stressful and difficult life - to go out and vote for change, because they believe enough to work for it. They believe - in us. That is a large part of what being a democrat is, it's believing in people.

I can understand your anger, I really can, because I have felt it too - throughout this primary season. Last night I just decided that I had had enough. A lot of the ugliness you see here comes from a place of anger... and a lot of that is righteous anger. Anger at the Koch brothers, at the behavior of various corporations, at the Supreme Court, the republicans - there's really a laundry list of things. It should not though, be devolving into anger and even hatred towards our fellow democrats.

There is no justification nor excuse for certain types of behavior - but the people acting badly are people - and good people - for the most part. Some times people get a bit of tunnel vision. They get so carried away, so passionate in what they are fighting for, that they act, speak, think - and/or type without giving it the consideration it deserves. We've all done this. We've all come to regret it.

I hope we can all, ultimately, forgive. I don't think we should forget though, we should remember the ugliness and cruelty going forward, as an example in how not to treat each other. A lot of the stuff that has been said here has genuinely hurt people - and that's terrible, because we are on the same side. I hope we can keep that in mind, going forward.

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Yes! DemocracyDirect Mar 2016 #1
I wish I could give this a thousand recs. pnwmom Mar 2016 #2
K&R Firebrand Gary Mar 2016 #3
Thank you for sharing. mmonk Mar 2016 #4
Well said! cer7711 Mar 2016 #5
Rec-o-rama! tomm2thumbs Mar 2016 #6
Many of my fellow DU'ers do not fear, cry, bleed, or love the same way I do. Cassiopeia Mar 2016 #7
Here, here! chwaliszewski Mar 2016 #8
Maybe we just can't accept the judgment that "Hillary seems to be...?" Cary Mar 2016 #18
I don't even know you. chwaliszewski Mar 2016 #21
That wasn't my point Cary Mar 2016 #23
Bernie Asked What's His Strongest Trait billhicks76 Mar 2016 #9
This is brutally judgmental Cary Mar 2016 #17
Actually we can pass judgement based on decades of history Cassiopeia Mar 2016 #22
Just because you can, doesn't mean you should Cary Mar 2016 #27
So we shouldn't judge our candidates? Cassiopeia Mar 2016 #28
Thanks for making it about me Cary Mar 2016 #31
I Base It On Her Actions billhicks76 Mar 2016 #36
Right Cary Mar 2016 #39
Attack You? billhicks76 Mar 2016 #40
That's the protocol, so just do it Cary Mar 2016 #41
Hillary The One Undermining The Party billhicks76 Mar 2016 #48
You have two choices Cary Mar 2016 #52
Wrong billhicks76 Mar 2016 #57
Actually you are outrageous Cary Mar 2016 #58
Yawn billhicks76 Mar 2016 #59
so clever Cary Mar 2016 #60
Harsh words and actions reflect the state of one's heart and mind. Dont call me Shirley Mar 2016 #49
"Conservative" smears reflect rank stupidity Cary Mar 2016 #53
Conservative behavior reflects complete lack of compassion. Dont call me Shirley Mar 2016 #55
How nice of you to respond to a good spirited OP with such nastiness. cwydro Mar 2016 #19
That's becoming more and more obvious. LanternWaste Mar 2016 #24
I agree. Let's start supporting working people instead of rentiers and bank$ters. jtuck004 Mar 2016 #10
THIS is the kind of stuff that belongs on the Greatest page of a Democratic site imo. Amimnoch Mar 2016 #11
Great post. wildeyed Mar 2016 #12
K&R. Laser102 Mar 2016 #13
K&R UtahLib Mar 2016 #14
I would love to say that I can just forgive and forget Cary Mar 2016 #15
I had a bit of a "light bulb" moment last night. davidthegnome Mar 2016 #33
I despise "conservatism" and I am angry with "conservatives" Cary Mar 2016 #37
In matters of policy and principle... davidthegnome Mar 2016 #42
I don't see you as radical FWIW Cary Mar 2016 #43
Good job, thanks. And well worth more than ten cents! George II Mar 2016 #16
Kicked and recced!! eom Arazi Mar 2016 #20
Thank u shenmue Mar 2016 #25
You're absolutely right -- but the increasing, indeed "gleeful ugliness" here makes me think DU is villager Mar 2016 #26
Scan around a bit. davidthegnome Mar 2016 #30
Maybe DU *is* better in "smaller localities" villager Mar 2016 #32
+1000 mcar Mar 2016 #29
Thank you for this DesertRat Mar 2016 #34
You are too generous, David. grasswire Mar 2016 #35
I have to agree Cary Mar 2016 #38
There may be a few. davidthegnome Mar 2016 #44
Thank you, Loki Mar 2016 #45
Well said David! DrewFlorida Mar 2016 #46
Thanks! LAS14 Mar 2016 #47
A call for compassion means to END ALL WAR and create peace, to support and uplift all people Dont call me Shirley Mar 2016 #50
k LAS14 Mar 2016 #51
And beautifully said! K&R AgadorSparticus Mar 2016 #54
I like it. K&R. Maru Kitteh Mar 2016 #56
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