Welcome to DU! The truly grassroots left-of-center political community where regular people, not algorithms, drive the discussions and set the standards. Join the community: Create a free account Support DU (and get rid of ads!): Become a Star Member Latest Breaking News Editorials & Other Articles General Discussion The DU Lounge All Forums Issue Forums Culture Forums Alliance Forums Region Forums Support Forums Help & Search

General Discussion

In reply to the discussion: A Day in the Court [View all]

H2O Man

(78,940 posts)
8. Thanks.
Tue Apr 5, 2016, 08:05 PM
Apr 2016

You raise important points. We have an imperfect justice system. And some people are confident of their ability to manipulate it. I think that the thug's experience as a NYC police officer, and then a campus security and eventually a guard at the county jail, created a false sense of "knowing how the system works, and can be worked." At this point, he must be somewhat aware that the system poses a very real threat to him. And, as sociopaths are prone to do, he is going to try to lie his way out of this tomorrow on the witness stand.

Regarding eye contact: he and I have had a few "stare-downs." I have had practice in this. For many years, as a psychological social worker, I focused on forensics. In that time, I encountered a few true sociopaths -- and I don't use that term lightly, or intending the current, common (mis-)usage of the word. There were times when prolonged eye contact became sort of a contest, on some level.

As a youngster and young man, I competed in the sport of boxing. I had 329 fights. And I was good enough to be featured in a boxing magazine at the age of 13. During what is known as the "referee's instructions" -- and at other related times -- I had plenty of opportunity to master the old stare-down. So I am glad that you mentioned this.

Recommendations

0 members have recommended this reply (displayed in chronological order):

A Day in the Court [View all] H2O Man Apr 2016 OP
my heart is with you moonbabygo Apr 2016 #1
Thank you. H2O Man Apr 2016 #9
Thanks for the update NV Whino Apr 2016 #2
Thanks! H2O Man Apr 2016 #10
Piece of sludge is indeed what that monster is. pacalo Apr 2016 #3
Right. H2O Man Apr 2016 #11
Sending healing thoughts for all. Gregorian Apr 2016 #4
Thanks, Friend! H2O Man Apr 2016 #12
Wow, he's taking the stand? ProudToBeBlueInRhody Apr 2016 #5
Thanks. H2O Man Apr 2016 #8
That occurred to me, too gratuitous Apr 2016 #29
He sounds beyond all reason ProudToBeBlueInRhody Apr 2016 #33
Words fail. trof Apr 2016 #6
Yep. H2O Man Apr 2016 #13
Peace be with you as well, my dear H20 Man... CaliforniaPeggy Apr 2016 #7
Thank you, Peggy! H2O Man Apr 2016 #14
Oh, thank you, my dear H20 Man... CaliforniaPeggy Apr 2016 #16
You are The Best! H2O Man Apr 2016 #20
our best to you. rurallib Apr 2016 #15
Thank you! H2O Man Apr 2016 #18
As a young friend of mine said years ago... malthaussen Apr 2016 #17
Thanks, Buddy! H2O Man Apr 2016 #19
I wish your cousin, you, and the rest of your family... mak3cats Apr 2016 #21
Peace to you.... Scruffy Rumbler Apr 2016 #22
How I wish... Liberal Jesus Freak Apr 2016 #23
Deep sleep to you... annabanana Apr 2016 #24
My thoughts are with you and your family. They_Live Apr 2016 #25
((Waterman)) blm Apr 2016 #26
wishing all of you the best. Take care! nt antigop Apr 2016 #27
It must be nearly unbearable to you and your family. sinkingfeeling Apr 2016 #28
I hope this struggle will be eased for your family soon. midnight Apr 2016 #30
Courage and Strength you have H2O MAN. I wish you more for the coming days... Dont call me Shirley Apr 2016 #31
Rest now, to witness well tomorrow. FailureToCommunicate Apr 2016 #32
You're in my thoughts. Solly Mack Apr 2016 #34
How the heck lancer78 Apr 2016 #35
That is.... A HERETIC I AM Apr 2016 #38
My question as well. rug Apr 2016 #39
We didn't discuss H2O Man Apr 2016 #42
Think carefully about shielding your nearest and dearest Warpy Apr 2016 #36
... hopemountain Apr 2016 #37
What defense is he raising? rug Apr 2016 #40
Self-defense H2O Man Apr 2016 #43
The judge should have already ruled on the admissibility of the tape. rug Apr 2016 #44
Right. H2O Man Apr 2016 #45
KnR. nt tblue37 Apr 2016 #41
In this post Sensitive soul Apr 2016 #46
Keep the faith, H2OMan lapislzi Apr 2016 #47
NGU. lasttrip Apr 2016 #48
With you in heart and mind voteearlyvoteoften Apr 2016 #49
Latest Discussions»General Discussion»A Day in the Court»Reply #8