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smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
Sat Apr 16, 2016, 11:44 AM Apr 2016

No, John Kasich, women are not to blame for rape [View all]

http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2016/apr/15/john-kasich-rape-comments-parties-alcohol-women

"Today Ohio Republican governor John Kasich presented a “solution” to sexual violence that is more flawed than his losing presidential campaign. At a town hall in Watertown, New York, he told a female college student that to avoid “sexual violence, harassment and rape” she should not “go to parties where there’s a lot of alcohol”.

His flawed logic should not be surprising. After all, Kasich’s comments are only the latest in a long tradition of Republican victim-blaming, which includes Todd Akin’s idea of “legitimate rape” and more recently, Ben Carson’s opposition to abortion for sex assault survivors. Yet the fact that so many influential men still fail to grasp the basics of rape culture is both intellectually baffling and incredibly dangerous for women. To decrease the rates of sexual assault, we need men to fight misogyny.

You’ve heard the rape myths before: women are raped because they show cleavage, drink too many coolers or twirl their hair flirtatiously at fraternity houses. In reality most sexual assaults happen in bedrooms, not at parties, bars or in alleyways. Some 80% of victims know their perpetrators and almost 20% of sexual assaults are committed by intimate partners. Any woman who has walked down a street is more than familiar with harassment.

Despite those inconvenient facts, rape is the only crime for which we blame the victim. We do not tell someone who was hit by a drunk driver that they should not have been on the road. We do not tell someone who gets shot that they should not have left the house. Why can Republican men understand this logic in scenarios that might affect their own safety, but not when it’s applied to female victims?" [more]

I can't believe this guy has daughters! What would he say if one of them were raped?
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What the hell is he doing in Watertown? Rex Apr 2016 #1
That's what I would like to know. smirkymonkey Apr 2016 #2
yes, don't go there girls because apparently men can't control their rape urges. This man is an roguevalley Apr 2016 #11
I wouldn't trust him around my family, he is an extremist just like Ted Cruz. Rex Apr 2016 #35
Honestly, what is wrong with Republicans on this issue? smirkymonkey Apr 2016 #3
because, in repuke minds... BlancheSplanchnik Apr 2016 #21
This just burns me! smirkymonkey Apr 2016 #37
Wish I could rec this a hundred times. AllyCat Apr 2016 #4
Thank you. This shit makes me so angry. smirkymonkey Apr 2016 #6
For those of us suffering under Walker in Wisconsin AllyCat Apr 2016 #7
Kaisch is horrible on women rights and is out to destroy Planned Parenthood Gothmog Apr 2016 #5
I think a lot of people are unaware of just how dangerous he is. smirkymonkey Apr 2016 #9
I agree Gothmog Apr 2016 #17
Going to google that now. n/t BlancheSplanchnik Apr 2016 #22
No, but will look it up. Thanks for the heads up! smirkymonkey Apr 2016 #30
Someone should also tell Hillary Major Nikon Apr 2016 #8
What? smirkymonkey Apr 2016 #10
She blamed a 12 yr old violently raped victim for her own rape Major Nikon Apr 2016 #12
Careful. Pointing out hypocrisy is often frowned upon here. 7962 Apr 2016 #13
I wish them good luck with that Major Nikon Apr 2016 #15
Let him keep talking lest people continue to think he is a sane choice over Trump and the others.n/t Iris Apr 2016 #14
+1 spooky3 Apr 2016 #16
Definitely scary SheenaR Apr 2016 #18
I know, the republicans in my family hate Trump and Cruz smirkymonkey Apr 2016 #31
I see the Repug "Outreach to Women" is proceeding nicely. 11 Bravo Apr 2016 #19
There are some young republican women in my office and I swear smirkymonkey Apr 2016 #32
Obviously if this is Kasich's 'entire plan' for fighting sexual assault problem, it's very lame .. brett_jv Apr 2016 #20
I would say, what's wrong with that is--paternalistic advice is different from political platform. BlancheSplanchnik Apr 2016 #23
It's not bad advice, I agree. smirkymonkey Apr 2016 #33
Kasich has apparently learned MurrayDelph Apr 2016 #24
Women get raped even when... mwooldri Apr 2016 #25
YES! Thank You! smirkymonkey Apr 2016 #34
He'd ask her why she walked to her car alone after dark Warpy Apr 2016 #26
Yep; the only reason Kasich has high "likeability" numbers is because people don't know his record. SunSeeker Apr 2016 #27
Exactly! smirkymonkey Apr 2016 #36
Rape is a great example of rich white privilege too. Spitfire of ATJ Apr 2016 #28
Kasich is a grade-A POS robertgodardfromnj Apr 2016 #29
He really is a wolf in sheep's clothing. smirkymonkey Apr 2016 #38
plenty of DUers think his response was just fine Skittles Apr 2016 #39
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