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knitter4democracy

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9. Teacher here, and I agree with the school.
Fri Jun 8, 2012, 07:38 AM
Jun 2012

The problem with girls showing that much skin and leaving little to the imagination is that it's massively distracting. I'll never forget the time a student came in with a tight, low-cut tank on with her plaid shirt on to cover it per the dress code. All of the boys stopped talking when she walked in, stared at her as she walked across the room to her seat, and just didn't stop staring. I went over to her and suggested she button up her shirt, and when she started to argue that she was in dress code, I told her to ask herself if she wanted those boys looking at her like that. She looked over my shoulder and quickly started buttoning up. When she did, they all blinked and were able to pay attention again somewhat.

It's not that it sends the wrong message or identifies a girl as a slut; it's that we have a hard time teaching if boys are in tanks or tight shirts and girls have too much skin showing. High school classrooms are a miasma of hormones as it is.

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Papa Goldstein attended Stuyvesant 60-odd years ago MannyGoldstein Jun 2012 #1
When I used to say; "Girls didn't look like that when I was in school" maxrandb Jun 2012 #3
It's a great school with great students but they probably should have called it "No A/C Wednesdays" KurtNYC Jun 2012 #13
Yeah, I think it's one of the 3-4 NYC public high schools that have entrance tests MannyGoldstein Jun 2012 #19
Here in CA where I live, that dress code is violated daily. upaloopa Jun 2012 #2
Dress codes are sort of stupid. That's especially true for skirt schools. HopeHoops Jun 2012 #4
"Our only dress code in school was 'wear clothes'" - Hee. Posteritatis Jun 2012 #5
Well at least half of the guys had buck knives on their belts (including me). HopeHoops Jun 2012 #8
Multitools were very common among my friends in HS Posteritatis Jun 2012 #15
Well, not without an anal probe first. Can't be too careful with terrists. HopeHoops Jun 2012 #16
OK, call me a fuddy duddy but this time I spartan61 Jun 2012 #6
I'll fuddy with you. emilyg Jun 2012 #7
Teacher here, and I agree with the school. knitter4democracy Jun 2012 #9
I agree with you on the code, but not for your reason. Honeycombe8 Jun 2012 #12
I'd agree if we were talking about adults. knitter4democracy Jun 2012 #17
I'm glad I taught 1st grade spartan61 Jun 2012 #18
Oh those poor, poor girls who have to cover up a little... brendan120678 Jun 2012 #10
It doesn't keep you cooler to have skin exposed. And 80 degrees isn't hot, IMO. Honeycombe8 Jun 2012 #11
Were the "protest the code" students allowed in the school that day? SecurityManager Jun 2012 #14
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