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In reply to the discussion: My Mother passed away this afternoon [View all]Bodych
(133 posts)...being there when she passed. Trust me on this one: The horrible memories of this period will pass, but you'll always remember being there for her and there will be a strong sense of peace and contentment. This was an important decision on your part.
You also did the right thing having a caregiver/hospice. Hospice can be a horribly traumatic experience for those who think they can be caregivers. She knew she was going to die, and YES, she was happy to be home. She likely lingered for a reason, and that reason sounds like it was exactly what you thought.
It is not uncommon to sense "strange" things like you did, to see signs. They may continue for awhile longer, and there is nothing strange about them at all.
Your mom sounded like a wonderful person. She also sounded like a terrific mother because she raised you so well.