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Showing Original Post only (View all)Extreme Parenting: To Leash or Not to Leash? (Video at link) [View all]
http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/lifestyle/2012/06/extreme-parenting-to-leash-or-not-to-leash/
Extreme Parenting: To Leash or Not to Leash?
June 25, 2012
By ELIZA MURPHY
via GOOD MORNING AMERICA
It's becoming almost a common sight-and a great debate for any modern family. To leash or not to leash small children? For parents across the country, there is no middle ground.
Mother of four and family psychologist Kristen Howerton of New York City says she was given a safety harness as a gift.
"I felt a little funny about it. We were on vacation with my sister-in-law in Seattle. I was juggling a bunch of children and worried about someone running out, and she said 'Why don't you put this on your daughter?' So I did and it just kind of made sense," said Howerton.
But when Howerton, 37, used the harness she said she got so many looks she put it away and hasn't used it a lot. People were glaring at her and making comments about how it's a child and not a dog.
There were some benefits to using the harness, however.
"It was great. My daughter was walking freely she felt like she had freedom, but I felt like she was safe. It was a great experience other than other people," Howerton said.
Child psychologist Tina Bryson explained why she believes parents are choosing to leash their kids.
"A lot of times the parents who are using it are using it because it's based on a child's behavior that they've seen," said Bryson.
For Howerton, whose husband was hit by a car, it's all about safety, regardless of the criticism.
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Extreme Parenting: To Leash or Not to Leash?
June 25, 2012
By ELIZA MURPHY
via GOOD MORNING AMERICA
It's becoming almost a common sight-and a great debate for any modern family. To leash or not to leash small children? For parents across the country, there is no middle ground.
Mother of four and family psychologist Kristen Howerton of New York City says she was given a safety harness as a gift.
"I felt a little funny about it. We were on vacation with my sister-in-law in Seattle. I was juggling a bunch of children and worried about someone running out, and she said 'Why don't you put this on your daughter?' So I did and it just kind of made sense," said Howerton.
But when Howerton, 37, used the harness she said she got so many looks she put it away and hasn't used it a lot. People were glaring at her and making comments about how it's a child and not a dog.
There were some benefits to using the harness, however.
"It was great. My daughter was walking freely she felt like she had freedom, but I felt like she was safe. It was a great experience other than other people," Howerton said.
Child psychologist Tina Bryson explained why she believes parents are choosing to leash their kids.
"A lot of times the parents who are using it are using it because it's based on a child's behavior that they've seen," said Bryson.
For Howerton, whose husband was hit by a car, it's all about safety, regardless of the criticism.
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http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/lifestyle/2012/06/extreme-parenting-to-leash-or-not-to-leash/
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lets just say taht if the mother had a leash on her little boy that climbed into the gorilla cage,
hollysmom
May 2016
#1
I don't know Hollysmom. The line between helping children learn independence and keeping them safe
Nitram
May 2016
#8
Hey I wa a kid who was told to go out after lunch and not come back until dinner since I was 5.
hollysmom
May 2016
#14
It's probably a good idea to tether a child to the parent in certain circumstances.
DawgHouse
May 2016
#24
One of our kids learned to walk very early and loved to run with no process yet of fear of cars etc
Person 2713
May 2016
#30
Europeans use them all the time. Many Americans have an irrational dislike of them.
Nye Bevan
May 2016
#31