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Mon May 30, 2016, 01:28 PM May 2016

Extreme Parenting: To Leash or Not to Leash? (Video at link) [View all]

http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/lifestyle/2012/06/extreme-parenting-to-leash-or-not-to-leash/

Extreme Parenting: To Leash or Not to Leash?

June 25, 2012

By ELIZA MURPHY

via GOOD MORNING AMERICA

It's becoming almost a common sight-and a great debate for any modern family. To leash or not to leash small children? For parents across the country, there is no middle ground.

Mother of four and family psychologist Kristen Howerton of New York City says she was given a safety harness as a gift.

"I felt a little funny about it. We were on vacation with my sister-in-law in Seattle. I was juggling a bunch of children and worried about someone running out, and she said 'Why don't you put this on your daughter?' So I did and it just kind of made sense," said Howerton.

But when Howerton, 37, used the harness she said she got so many looks she put it away and hasn't used it a lot. People were glaring at her and making comments about how it's a child and not a dog.

There were some benefits to using the harness, however.

"It was great. My daughter was walking freely she felt like she had freedom, but I felt like she was safe. It was a great experience other than other people," Howerton said.

Child psychologist Tina Bryson explained why she believes parents are choosing to leash their kids.

"A lot of times the parents who are using it are using it because it's based on a child's behavior that they've seen," said Bryson.

For Howerton, whose husband was hit by a car, it's all about safety, regardless of the criticism.

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lets just say taht if the mother had a leash on her little boy that climbed into the gorilla cage, hollysmom May 2016 #1
No doubt gollygee May 2016 #5
I don't know Hollysmom. The line between helping children learn independence and keeping them safe Nitram May 2016 #8
Hey I wa a kid who was told to go out after lunch and not come back until dinner since I was 5. hollysmom May 2016 #14
I'm all for it. CrispyQ May 2016 #2
I wish I wouldn't have been such a chicken shit with my first laundry_queen May 2016 #19
Thanks for sharing your story. CrispyQ May 2016 #22
It is a parents decision to leash or not yeoman6987 May 2016 #26
I used a harness for my son enlightenment May 2016 #3
My son was a runner/slick willy, I harnessed his butt nc4bo May 2016 #4
This message was self-deleted by its author EL34x4 May 2016 #6
I see nothing wrong with putting a harness on a child LiberalElite May 2016 #7
My nephews needed leashes. Quantess May 2016 #9
Had to with my last son libodem May 2016 #10
I didn't use them, but I try not to judge. Brickbat May 2016 #11
I had a harness for my little escape artist. No regrets. n/t winter is coming May 2016 #12
Some children need one mainer May 2016 #13
I used one on occassion. Raissa May 2016 #15
Guaranteed flame bait, but I am all for it. Toddlers are ... Squirrel! Hekate May 2016 #16
There is a right time and place for them. aikoaiko May 2016 #17
Just saw one yesterday Jesus Malverde May 2016 #18
We had one for my little brother in 1986 or so (funny story follows) Recursion May 2016 #20
LOL. CrispyQ May 2016 #23
Howling. Just howling. Thanks for sharing that. n/t Yo_Mama May 2016 #36
when I see a leashed child, I assume there's a good reason for it Skittles May 2016 #21
I fully agree 1939 May 2016 #35
It's probably a good idea to tether a child to the parent in certain circumstances. DawgHouse May 2016 #24
My daughter was an extremely curious 2-year-old. ScreamingMeemie May 2016 #25
You see them used more often in Europe than around the US mnhtnbb May 2016 #27
I am fine either way bigwillq May 2016 #28
Almost every kid I have seen on a leash.... sofa king May 2016 #29
One of our kids learned to walk very early and loved to run with no process yet of fear of cars etc Person 2713 May 2016 #30
Europeans use them all the time. Many Americans have an irrational dislike of them. Nye Bevan May 2016 #31
I leashed my kid when he was a toddler cali May 2016 #32
My brother and I were leashed REP May 2016 #33
Sometimes it is the only safe solution, so the critics should just shut up. Yo_Mama May 2016 #34
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