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nadine_mn

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21. I think the fact that another adult was present contributed
Wed Jun 1, 2016, 07:18 AM
Jun 2016

to the mom letting her kid come to try to pet your dog. Some parents assume that everyone else is going to watch their kids too. "Of course it's ok to let little Emily run down into a quarry to pet a strange dog, there is another adult there to supervise"

It seems like once parents are out in a public place with other adults around, they just abdicate their parental responsibility. Just let 'em loose and expect others to watch out for the kids. Taking the "It takes a village" mentality a little too far.

Your experience really resonated with me as a child free pet owner, I am amazed at how often parents will let their kids come running up to my large dogs when we are out walking. Fortunately, our dogs have been friendly. When I have told parents to come get their child away from my dog - they get pissy with me. Kids are unpredictable - they shove their hands in dogs faces, pet too hard, and can get a little grabby - all a recipe for a dog bite...and the dog would be the one to blame.

But I also see the "well other adults are present, so its ok to just let my kid roam free" mentality in other places - the gym, stores, museums, etc.

It is easy to say as a someone without kids but I can't imagine doing that myself. Not because of fear that my kid would get snatched or hurt, but because I would be so worried that my kid would do something obnoxious to upset someone else.

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Should there be child leash laws? [View all] NobodyHere May 2016 OP
If that kid's parents had been doing their job, it would not have happened. Agnosticsherbet May 2016 #1
So this didn't happen to you. Congrats. But since you are human and had multiple pnwmom May 2016 #6
No, I and my wife kept an eye on our children. Agnosticsherbet May 2016 #8
I think there should be free parent education courses but that is because of some people are just hollysmom May 2016 #2
I think the fact that another adult was present contributed nadine_mn Jun 2016 #21
I do not have children either , but I had brothers 14 years younger than me hollysmom Jun 2016 #22
Something similar happened to me. But it wasn't Mom's fault. shrike Jun 2016 #27
When my #1 son was a toddler he got away from me at the Denver Zoo. Laffy Kat May 2016 #3
No, it wasn't... shit is going to happen with kids its not acceptable to point fingers like that uponit7771 May 2016 #14
kids are deceptively fast sneaky creatures with no logic or common sense dembotoz May 2016 #4
Like you pnwmom May 2016 #7
+1 uponit7771 May 2016 #15
I was going to rec your post until I saw kentauros May 2016 #5
In the coffeehouse where I used to work... Chan790 May 2016 #9
Naw, you're not an asshole kentauros May 2016 #11
People who want to leash children also complain about helicopter parents. dilby May 2016 #10
Child leashes + helicopter parenting = Quackers Jun 2016 #18
Since 1975. rug May 2016 #12
Seems acceptable if the child and mother are a PoC for the most part uponit7771 May 2016 #13
No. Now shock colors on the other hand........... Quackers Jun 2016 #16
Might be sarcastic lancer78 Jun 2016 #17
A few children need leashes in public. Quantess Jun 2016 #19
Once I saw a mom at the Hamburg, Germanyairport. Laffy Kat Jun 2016 #20
Leash the Children & Free the Gorillas! GOLGO 13 Jun 2016 #23
yes, YES !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! trueblue2007 Jun 2016 #24
I wish they would outlaw children. leftyladyfrommo Jun 2016 #25
This would certainly solve world overpopulation NobodyHere Jun 2016 #26
Same here. GliderGuider Jun 2016 #28
I'm all for it in places like zoos. tabasco Jun 2016 #29
My mother put one of those things on me when I was little... haikugal Jun 2016 #30
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