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In reply to the discussion: In life it's important to know when to stop arguing with people [View all]RufusTFirefly
(8,812 posts)21. Also, you can catch more flies with honey than with vinegar
Simply scolding or berating people you disagree with is highly unlikely to win you converts.
What's trickier is that sometimes not even facts can vanquish deeply entrenched cognitive dissonance.
You can't reason someone out of something they weren't reasoned into in the first place.
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Sometimes the path to forgiveness begins with a realization that the other person is just stupid. nt
thereismore
Jun 2016
#9
You don't have to say it... just think it and let it go. Or hit ignore, as I do. I am happier for it
thereismore
Jun 2016
#16
I have done that!! (writing a response only to close the window... I felt so silly afterward). nt
thereismore
Jun 2016
#33
Very true, learned that one years ago. Just let them be wrong and smug in their wrongness.
Rex
Jun 2016
#10
Right. After all, it's ONLY the internet. It's not like a boss or family member you don't like. nt
valerief
Jun 2016
#25
Some people *must* always win. (My boss) And life is too short to argue every issue.
Feathery Scout
Jun 2016
#28
I learned you never argue with fools who refuse to hear both sides of a situation.
kimbutgar
Jun 2016
#29