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JudyM

(29,785 posts)
Wed Jun 15, 2016, 02:42 AM Jun 2016

A Time to Stand With Gay Americans [View all]

Everyone else is focusing on terrorism and guns, favorite topics of politicians. Even our dems are being gingerly about the fact that this was a massacre of LGBTs. It's somewhat comforting to see this article. There is no better time to combat homophobia than right now when there is some palpable emotional identification/connection between the larger community and our community.

Some of June’s gay pride celebrations happened last weekend, but many are still ahead. The one in Louisville, Ky., is among them. There’s a parade scheduled for Friday. That’s your state, Mitch McConnell. You should go.
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Just show up. And by doing so, show that the absence of “gay” or “L.G.B.T.” in your statements immediately following the Orlando massacre — and in the statements of so many other prominent Republicans — isn’t because you place us and our concerns behind some thick pane of glass with a Do Not Touch sign that stays up even when blood and tears pool beneath it.
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But more conspicuous than what Romney and Trump said was what so many other Republicans didn’t. Bemoaning the carnage, they justly condemned the Islamic State and violent extremists. They rightly paid tribute to “first responders.” But this specificity didn’t extend to the lives and loves of the people killed. Even Rick Scott, the Republican governor of Florida, initially sidestepped the subject, failing to emphasize that many of them spent their final terrified minutes in a place where they had sought precisely the comfort and belonging that they didn’t always feel on the other side of its walls.
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Roman Catholic leaders, too, shied away. Statements by the bishop of Orlando and by the president of the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops said nothing about a gay nightclub or gays. Such omissions so troubled the Rev. James Martin, a best-selling Jesuit author, that he posted a video commentary about them on Facebook on Monday afternoon. Twenty-four hours later, it had been viewed about 700,000 times. “If the murders had happened, God forbid, in a church of a particular Christian denomination, Catholic leaders would decry the murders and then naturally express their solidarity with members of that denomination,” he said in the video, adding that for the most part, “this was not done for the grieving L.G.B.T. community.”
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“We” includes leaders of both parties... This is one of those moments, in the wake of terror, when we find the most apt and evocative ways to underscore our oneness and renounce our fear. When we make grand gestures. When we make pointed ones.
So Majority Leader McConnell, pick your rally. Speaker Ryan, accompany him. Governor Scott, attend the funerals of gay victims. Other Republicans and Democrats, recognize L.G.B.T. Americans with both your words and your presence at gay pride celebrations.

You want to show our enemies what America stands for? Then stand with us.


http://www.nytimes.com/2016/06/15/opinion/a-time-to-stand-with-gay-americans.html


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It is amazing how many, including from "our" side have marginalized the LGBT community. Behind the Aegis Jun 2016 #1
Amazing but entirely predictable cast of marginalizers. Bluenorthwest Jun 2016 #3
Got choked up reading your reply. So many. That 18 year old girl (Akira) who just graduated H.S. JudyM Jun 2016 #7
Been there from the early days -- 1976 CountAllVotes Jun 2016 #2
Major props are due to all who put their/our shoulders to what has seemed like a Sisyphean task JudyM Jun 2016 #8
At that time it seemed inevitable CountAllVotes Jun 2016 #10
Sad, but really also lovely to hear about it from you, having been there. JudyM Jun 2016 #11
K&R! Odin2005 Jun 2016 #4
Personally, I would hope a tragedy isn't what is needed to stand w/ gay Americans justiceischeap Jun 2016 #5
Hope. It's the thing with feathers. Bluenorthwest Jun 2016 #6
Clearly not the case for a large chunk of the population. And where's the leadership on this? JudyM Jun 2016 #9
We've lost site on DU Sissyk Jun 2016 #12
Sadly, I expected it to happen. Behind the Aegis Jun 2016 #14
im so sorry, my friend. Sissyk Jun 2016 #15
I can tell you I am very angry. Behind the Aegis Jun 2016 #16
I can feel your anger and I hear you! Sissyk Jun 2016 #18
How everyone isn't mourning this massive hate crime is a tragic, and horrifically telling moment. herding cats Jun 2016 #13
Thanks back. It's strikingly obvious how little talk there is, still, about the hate crime aspect. JudyM Jun 2016 #19
K&R Solly Mack Jun 2016 #17
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