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csziggy

(34,189 posts)
9. My Dad with his first daughter
Sun Jun 19, 2016, 09:26 PM
Jun 2016

Dad - 1923-2013
Oldest sister - 1946-1993

That was the first of four daughters and his special girl. It broke his heart when she died. He was never the same.

My Dad was one of those people who never left a domesticated animal without a home. My first dog was one he found out in the woods when he was prospecting for phosphate. The dog had been someone's pet - he was well trained and loved children. My little sister's first dog was a Beagle abandoned at a service station.

When we were little Dad read to us every night. The earliest book I remember him reading to us was the Jungle Book. He made "The Elephant's Child" special for me since I was always very curious, just like the Elephant Child. He read the stories out of the copy of the book he owned as a little boy - I still have that book. Dad made sure I'd have it.



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Dad would tell me stories shenmue Jun 2016 #1
Teach your children well. sheshe2 Jun 2016 #2
I do shenmue Jun 2016 #3
I miss my dad leftofcool Jun 2016 #4
Love. sheshe2 Jun 2016 #45
My father, too, was great. longship Jun 2016 #5
No horn honking. sheshe2 Jun 2016 #8
Too bad about the lack of horn honking. longship Jun 2016 #11
My stepdad... Stellar Jun 2016 #6
Your step dad... sheshe2 Jun 2016 #10
My favorite memory is just after my mother died Warpy Jun 2016 #7
OMG! sheshe2 Jun 2016 #13
My Dad with his first daughter csziggy Jun 2016 #9
So hard to lose a child. sheshe2 Jun 2016 #15
My father read us the Just So Stories too! And fairy tales. Squinch Jun 2016 #22
Mine too! The Velveteen Ocelot Jun 2016 #23
And how the leopard got his spots, and the cake baking Parsee! Squinch Jun 2016 #27
I think I lucked out with parents - neither was perfect csziggy Jun 2016 #44
Love sheshe2 Jun 2016 #46
My father was an evil man... Silver_Witch Jun 2016 #12
I am so sorry for your pain. sheshe2 Jun 2016 #17
60 years later and it still stings...however it made me strong. Silver_Witch Jun 2016 #18
My father was a father but never a dad dem in texas Jun 2016 #47
Frank and Bob were your true father. sheshe2 Jun 2016 #55
I'm older now than my dad was when he died greymattermom Jun 2016 #14
Lost my dad this year. jtx Jun 2016 #16
Wonderful poem. dgauss Jun 2016 #25
I am so very sorry... lovely poem. Rhiannon12866 Jun 2016 #49
My dad... The Velveteen Ocelot Jun 2016 #19
Hey. sheshe2 Jun 2016 #20
Thanks - and to you and yours. The Velveteen Ocelot Jun 2016 #21
Great thread, sheshe. Thank you. Squinch Jun 2016 #24
My daddy loved my mother. brer cat Jun 2016 #26
Ours was far from perfect. sheshe2 Jun 2016 #28
So many fathers (and mothers) were lacking in some ways. brer cat Jun 2016 #34
Oh no. sheshe2 Jun 2016 #35
That is very sweet, she. Kath1 Jun 2016 #29
My dad was an industrial chemist by profession and an amateur astronomer at heart. mnhtnbb Jun 2016 #30
I was my dad's kid. yewberry Jun 2016 #31
I remember my father saying mainstreetonce Jun 2016 #32
My dad was perfect in most respects, but he did not treat my mom with respect like many Hoyt Jun 2016 #33
We found this in my Dad's keepsakes. Delmette Jun 2016 #36
To all who don't have a Dad any more - New Orleans Strong Jun 2016 #37
My father... GaYellowDawg Jun 2016 #38
Thanks all for helping me find a positive memory. He bought the Great Books.... Hekate Jun 2016 #39
Love you. sheshe2 Jun 2016 #40
My father was very affectionate and loving Glorfindel Jun 2016 #41
To my dad and grandfathers: tavernier Jun 2016 #42
My memory was of his swimming. On land, he was not graceful, but in water, it was like watching a Hoppy Jun 2016 #43
lost mine in 2014 mnmoderatedem Jun 2016 #48
I saw this thread on Monday JustAnotherGen Jun 2016 #50
Thanks for that beautiful song, JAG. sheshe2 Jun 2016 #52
K and R bigwillq Jun 2016 #51
“When I was a boy of 14, my father was so ignorant I could hardly stand to have the old man around. struggle4progress Jun 2016 #53
The smartest man I ever knew.. I was a Daddy's girl through and through annabanana Jun 2016 #54
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