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LostOne4Ever

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15. You don't see blaming gay people for being the source of their own persecution as being homophobic?
Wed Jun 22, 2016, 09:28 PM
Jun 2016

[font style="font-family:'Georgia','Baskerville Old Face','Helvetica',fantasy;" size=4 color=#009999]I think it is very homophobic and a type of victim blaming.

Not to mention, that it implicitly implies that straight people can never be the source of homophobia. Someone does something homophobic then they have to be a self-loathing gay.

Yes, there can be gay people like that. A gay person who has been twisted by the homophobia and heterosexism of our culture; but the major source of homophobia and heterosexism remains straight bigots. The majority of people who voted for and approved the "Kill the gays" bill in Uganada were straight.

I am sickened by the speed with which some people here on DU embrace this homophobic meme. And doing so in-spite of the fact that this man had two wives, had a child, and even stalked women. He OBVIOUSLY had opposite sex attraction meaning he was bi or straight...NOT GAY.

And the evidence for same sex attraction is spurious at best. SPECULATION that he MIGHT have be gay from his ex-wife. Accusations from unnamed sources and hear say? This wouldn't hold water in court. But, it is apparently good enough to accuse one the worst crimes ever committed against the American LGBTQIA+ community of being committed by one of our own?

I am asexual, not homosexual nor bi, and I find that to be horribly offensive. At the very least such accusations shouldn't be made by a "LIBERAL" Message board without solid evidence.

This isn't right.[/font]



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He was married... scscholar Jun 2016 #1
There have been many people who were gay spooky3 Jun 2016 #6
So? librarylu Jun 2016 #7
try this: he has conservative parents, they can't deal with his true sexuality GreatGazoo Jun 2016 #8
That doesn't make any sense scscholar Jun 2016 #30
you think being married is proof of heterosexuality? m-lekktor Jun 2016 #12
Yes. He would be the first married man in history to be interested in other men. ohnoyoudidnt Jun 2016 #13
Are you kidding?! Check your clock, is this 2016 or 1951? JackRiddler Jun 2016 #14
lol tymorial Jun 2016 #27
Is there a link to this story that is not a tabloid? Thanks. uppityperson Jun 2016 #2
Well, all of the reports are going to reference the Univision interview . . . MousePlayingDaffodil Jun 2016 #4
The Daily News is semi-respectable. KamaAina Jun 2016 #17
Nice John Edwards love child report-type response BeyondGeography Jun 2016 #29
If no better link - I'll ignore. 840high Jun 2016 #3
People will resist this loyalsister Jun 2016 #5
I'd rather have it be something personal,with a reason that is more easily understandable than uppityperson Jun 2016 #9
"Handleable?" ReRe Jun 2016 #26
Some people will resist this because it promotes a homophobic meme based upon an anonymous source LostOne4Ever Jun 2016 #10
I don't see it as homophobic loyalsister Jun 2016 #11
You don't see blaming gay people for being the source of their own persecution as being homophobic? LostOne4Ever Jun 2016 #15
I saw the "self loathing" assumption as homophobic loyalsister Jun 2016 #19
There is a difference between a domestic dispute and shooting 50 un-involved people at a gay club nt LostOne4Ever Jun 2016 #20
I agree loyalsister Jun 2016 #23
I wish I could rec a post Lordquinton Jun 2016 #21
+100 mr blur Jun 2016 #25
Exactly, thank you. uppityperson Jun 2016 #18
My observation is that most mass shootings have been rooted in sexual frustration Generic Brad Jun 2016 #16
At this point romanic Jun 2016 #22
Anything to ignore Islam... MellowDem Jun 2016 #24
He was a... ReRe Jun 2016 #28
FBI investigators say they have found no evidence that Orlando shooter had gay lovers uppityperson Jun 2016 #31
And now it is my turn to thank you for finding this~!!! nt LostOne4Ever Jun 2016 #32
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