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yewberry

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66. Did this a while ago myself.
Sat Aug 6, 2016, 02:41 AM
Aug 2016

My dad had a stroke a while back and I put together a playlist for him-- he'd lost the capacity to produce or understand speech but he'd always loved music so, so much. He died shortly thereafter and we ended up using the playlist at his memorial along with a slideshow of photos. I strongly recommend mixing in songs that will evoke or create happy memories.

Some of my dad's:

Canned Heat-- On the Road again



Sly and the Family Stone-- Everyday People


I think I might have included Dance to the Music too-- dad loved that one:


Stevie Wonder-- Superstition


Also You are the Sunshine of My Life


Robert Palmer Sailing Shoes trilogy


Little Feat-- Fat Man in the Bathtub

Pretty sure I put Dixie Chicken in there, too.

Allmans-- Blue Sky
'

Grateful Dead-- Ripple


Marvin Gaye-- What's Going On


BB King-- The Thrill is Gone


Also Lucille--


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Try this Lochloosa Aug 2016 #1
Sad but nice Croney Aug 2016 #2
Sand by Heart tanyev Aug 2016 #3
This... tosh Aug 2016 #4
Thanks T !! Laura PourMeADrink Aug 2016 #15
The Beatles' In My Life snacker Aug 2016 #5
Great Beatles addition - perfect - thanks ! Laura PourMeADrink Aug 2016 #14
Well, there are many... hlthe2b Aug 2016 #6
thank you so much !! I may have given the wrong impression - it's kind of a Laura PourMeADrink Aug 2016 #8
That's a great choice. 2theleft Aug 2016 #7
Hawaiian man? otr...will have to look because this is my favorite rendition Laura PourMeADrink Aug 2016 #9
Holy cow! Her voice... 2theleft Aug 2016 #18
... Lochloosa Aug 2016 #11
Yes!!! I love his version! Thanks for posting it n/t 2theleft Aug 2016 #17
I think you mean Israel Kamakaiwo'ole, Its a Wonderful World/Somewhere Over the Rainbow hlthe2b Aug 2016 #12
I love that version! Vattel Aug 2016 #24
Every Time We Say Goodbye frazzled Aug 2016 #10
Absolutely love Skylark - added. thank you so much ! Laura PourMeADrink Aug 2016 #13
More Upbeat BlueInPhilly Aug 2016 #16
Thanks ! I actually have Lay Me Down - but it's the old country Laura PourMeADrink Aug 2016 #25
If I were ever to have a memorial I'd want this one. librarylu Aug 2016 #19
Very few have as heavenly a voice. do you mean Alice Doesn't Laura PourMeADrink Aug 2016 #27
If you want something that celebrates the life of the deceased (i.e., not sad), try this: Vattel Aug 2016 #20
Great ! Thanks V Laura PourMeADrink Aug 2016 #35
"Wings for Marie Part 2" opiate69 Aug 2016 #21
wow ! thanks for those lyrics too !! Laura PourMeADrink Aug 2016 #37
My pleasure.. opiate69 Aug 2016 #39
wow, just listened to the KD Lang you posted. What a fucking amazing voice! Vattel Aug 2016 #22
KD is the shit. You should see her live. Lochloosa Aug 2016 #26
I like the version of Hallelujah TuxedoKat Aug 2016 #31
It was magnificent! Here you go csziggy Aug 2016 #38
Circle Game-Joni Mitchell Mendocino Aug 2016 #23
Nature Boy Zorro Aug 2016 #28
Satisfied Mind - Jeff Buckley Moostache Aug 2016 #29
Went to one that played both radical noodle Aug 2016 #30
Drift Away csziggy Aug 2016 #32
Kitaro - "The Light Of The Spirit" FuzzyRabbit Aug 2016 #33
"Ghosts That We Knew" Mumford and Sons- was very meaningful cry baby Aug 2016 #34
Beautiful randr Aug 2016 #36
Flaming Lips...Do You Realize?... GReedDiamond Aug 2016 #40
I wrote an article about this once. Here's part of my list: nolabear Aug 2016 #41
This message was self-deleted by its author struggle4progress Aug 2016 #52
Prince - Comeback greyl Aug 2016 #42
Forever Young struggle4progress Aug 2016 #43
Slip Slidin Away struggle4progress Aug 2016 #44
Pack Up Your Sorrows struggle4progress Aug 2016 #45
Be Not Too Hard struggle4progress Aug 2016 #46
Fire and Rain struggle4progress Aug 2016 #47
So Far Away struggle4progress Aug 2016 #48
Circle Game struggle4progress Aug 2016 #49
Can the circle be unbroken struggle4progress Aug 2016 #50
You Got To Walk That Lonesome Valley struggle4progress Aug 2016 #51
Wayfaring Stranger struggle4progress Aug 2016 #53
Come Go with Me struggle4progress Aug 2016 #54
Good Riddance by Green Day JoeOtterbein Aug 2016 #55
God Is Alive -- Magic Is Afoot struggle4progress Aug 2016 #56
Music for the Funeral of Queen Mary struggle4progress Aug 2016 #60
it's a sad one, but DonCoquixote Aug 2016 #57
Jud Strunk - Daisy A Day greyl Aug 2016 #58
Send me on my way lapfog_1 Aug 2016 #59
Ubi caritas struggle4progress Aug 2016 #61
Down By The Riverside struggle4progress Aug 2016 #62
Going Home struggle4progress Aug 2016 #63
That was played at my father's burial malaise Aug 2016 #78
A song by Sweet Honey in The Rock: Ken Burch Aug 2016 #64
Wiz Khalifa and Charlie Puth trixie Aug 2016 #65
Did this a while ago myself. yewberry Aug 2016 #66
I have two for you Tom Kitten Aug 2016 #67
I was just at a memorial where we sang a shortened version of Cohen's Hallelujah Hekate Aug 2016 #68
Gotta suggest some Martin Sexton Egnever Aug 2016 #69
Ode to Joy. The Parting Glass sung by Liam Clancy and Tommy Makem. Hekate Aug 2016 #70
I'm sorry for your loss, and offer this as a possibility. cali Aug 2016 #71
I've spent way too many hours listening to her stuff on youtube....great choice Gabi Hayes Aug 2016 #77
I love her early stuff like this: cali Aug 2016 #79
those are wonderful...have you seen the documentary; the one where she's losing Gabi Hayes Aug 2016 #83
I have seen that- it's actually my favorite version cali Aug 2016 #84
100% perfect !! thanks so much C Laura PourMeADrink Aug 2016 #80
I'm glad, Laura. Here's a version with the full band cali Aug 2016 #81
I'll Fly Away Tanuki Aug 2016 #72
Brokedown Palace by the Grateful Dead Warren DeMontague Aug 2016 #73
Very nice suggestions Soxfan58 Aug 2016 #74
goodbye pork pie hat/icarus.....ralph towner/gary burton Gabi Hayes Aug 2016 #75
mordant 'humor'.....wc fields via donald fagen Gabi Hayes Aug 2016 #76
This is one that Mr BlueMTexpat has BlueMTexpat Aug 2016 #82
I picked the songs for my Dad's service Budgies Revenge Aug 2016 #85
For a Dancer, Jackson Browne GeorgeGist Aug 2016 #86
Dream a little dream of me Loryn Aug 2016 #87
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