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46. If I ever move back to the USA permanently
Mon Sep 12, 2016, 02:48 AM
Sep 2016

My wife and I would probably want to live in or near Boston. She is European and hates living someplace where you need a car to get anywhere. Here in our little suburb of Düsseldorf, we can easily walk to the center of town, to the local hospitals, to trains and buses, and to a huge park with a 1000 year old castle and miles of walking trails. Plus, it is a 15-20 car ride to an intercontinental airport with nonstops to NYC, Boston, SFO, LAX, Chicago and a few Florida airports, as well as all of Europe and North Africa, Japan, the Middle East, HK and China.

I see what houses go for Stateside, but the value of our house here would cover a big chunk of that if we ever sell it. The Düsseldorf area has for years had ads in the Saturday real estate section saying "Japanese firm looking for houses in the Düsseldorf area for its executives, price no object (we feel SF's pain)." We still contend with the problems of any urban area in the West these days--high taxes that hit their max rate starting around €100,000 gross income (just over 50%, all in, here in Germany plus a 19% tax on everything you buy) inefficient, uncaring bureaucracy, official tolerance of petty and organized crime, corrupt officials, and creeping environmental damage.

Our elder daughter decided to settle in Manhattan in NYC, where she finished her education and found a decent job, although it's more like slave wages for NYC. For the longest time, she was sharing the rent with two other young women her age in a modest 3 room apartment that rented out for about $3600 a month. We finally scraped together enough money to buy her an apartment there, though it's more like a hole in the wall, but she saves a fortune on rent, and used to walk to work (her employer just moved downtown). Her younger sister moved back here to Germany when the job market in her field sucked upon her graduation from law school in the USA (2010). She lucked into an amazing job with the Frankfurt arm of an American law firm, and now makes more than I do. She's all set. They needed someone who was fully bilingual in English and German, had an EU work permit (they are both dual citizens due to their parents' different nationalities), and had a US bar exam. She said, "here I am," and hasn't looked back. She would have preferred to stay in New York, but making a fortune in Frankfurt with instant financial security appealed more to her than waiting on tables (and a decent job) in New York.

The USA, (as with parts of Germany to a far lesser extent) seems blessed/cursed with having a large number of attractive urban areas that appeal to big money from outside. However, here in Germany, we read about Russian gazillionaires buying up penthouse condos in Manhattan for $40 million and upward that they only use part-time. FORTY fucking million? The only billionaire with a place in Manhattan I know (Peter Norton) lives in a place nowhere near that kind of price range, and he can afford whatever the hell he wants to. But he's not out to impress anyone, and doesn't NEED to. I mean we see articles about insane villas and estates bought and sold by entertainment stars for a quarter of that and still marvel at the sums bantered around.

One thing I have to question, though. The AVERAGE rent? Does this mean they took in the places that rent for $12000 a month and averaged them in with dilapidated places in need of fixing holes in the roof? I have visited a few U.S. cities this past summer, and there certainly seemed to be as much diversity as ever there. They would be boring, dull places indeed if they were populated only by white yuppies, and from coast to coast, from Boston to San Francisco, we saw no such city.


At this point, I wouldn't want to go hunting for a place to rent in ANY desirable urban area, and I come from a generation prior to the one dealing with crushing student debt. For that matter, nor would I want to be the owner of a big apartment building on any of those areas trying to collect the rent from any resident falling on financial hard times. I'm sure the costs of maintenance and property taxes would swamp anyone who couldn't collect the rent from their tenants. If you play your cards right, it has to be a game you can get rich with, but I'm not sure I'd want the stress and the additional white hair necessary to get there.

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Philly is quite a bargain. Philly-Union-Man Sep 2016 #1
Coming from NYC, Philly is a fucking steal. name not needed Sep 2016 #4
But Philly also has a 3.92% city wage tax BumRushDaShow Sep 2016 #51
I grew up in SF and own a home I brought 23 years ago kimbutgar Sep 2016 #2
I work in SF, can't afford to live there Nictuku Sep 2016 #5
I am in mourning over what's happened to San Francisco. SusanCalvin Sep 2016 #7
The greedy idiots from Silicon Valley drive the crap! Paka Sep 2016 #9
The cool thing about SF was the creative funky citizens kimbutgar Sep 2016 #13
Hang on to it and rent to the deserving few. Paka Sep 2016 #34
No, they just want a place to live close to work that isn't in Gilroy. Warren DeMontague Sep 2016 #59
It is kind of like awoke_in_2003 Sep 2016 #78
What drives the prices now, compared other housing booms years ago dixiegrrrrl Sep 2016 #42
As for SF... Yukari Yakumo Sep 2016 #48
I visited San Francisco (from NYC) Dorian Gray Sep 2016 #58
Yep. SusanCalvin Sep 2016 #6
I live in a repub city, a repub county in a repub state duncang Sep 2016 #3
Yeah, I'm scared to move. SusanCalvin Sep 2016 #19
I'm surprised Austin, TX is not on that list Texasgal Sep 2016 #8
Really. SusanCalvin Sep 2016 #15
I am a native and this city has changed Texasgal Sep 2016 #18
I am so sorry. SusanCalvin Sep 2016 #20
I just did a Zillow search and to get under 500 available units I had to search for 2+ bedrooms, mythology Sep 2016 #44
I did a similar search for Brooklyn. white_wolf Sep 2016 #47
Years ago I rented a studio apt in the Pacific Heights area of San Francisco for lucca18 Sep 2016 #10
Midwest for me, more bang for your buck. sarcasmo Sep 2016 #11
This is why a relatively flat Poverty Line is bullshit. In NJ, adjusted poverty is $29K, not $12K. TheBlackAdder Sep 2016 #12
The wealth line is also not flat. A $200K income in Tampa is very different from that income in NYC stevenleser Sep 2016 #35
Adjusted Gross Income (2013 AGI) per IRS 1939 Sep 2016 #73
Right. And that doesnt make sense in particularly inexpensive or particularly expensive areas. nt stevenleser Sep 2016 #74
San Francicso is OUTRAGEOUS!! I just went on their Craigslist for apt listings and my jaw dropped UMTerp01 Sep 2016 #14
I'm so glad I spent 30 years getting my house free and clear. Binkie The Clown Sep 2016 #16
We were able to rebuild after our fire for cash. We have a garage apartment rental mnhtnbb Sep 2016 #53
To be fair you can get a two bedroom for $1500 in Los Angeles Beaverhausen Sep 2016 #17
I haven't been a renter for many years ( 45 ) but if I had to jaysunb Sep 2016 #21
Especially PasadenaTrudy Sep 2016 #28
LOL ! I'm in S.E. jaysunb Sep 2016 #30
I've lived here PasadenaTrudy Sep 2016 #66
Two of the cites I'm looking at are on this list..It's rather indimitating. white_wolf Sep 2016 #22
Unless you are making major bank and want a decent home, forget about NYC UMTerp01 Sep 2016 #38
San Diego GummyBearz Sep 2016 #65
You know? I never considered San Diego until now. white_wolf Sep 2016 #71
No problem GummyBearz Sep 2016 #79
I live in Chicago 1,775 seems higher than what I see in the city for a two bedroom. mucifer Sep 2016 #23
I was about to say... white_wolf Sep 2016 #24
It is an average. Straw Man Sep 2016 #26
No its not. $1775 isn't getting you into Hyde Park UMTerp01 Sep 2016 #29
I lived in Manhattan for only three years ... Straw Man Sep 2016 #25
It's more than the "they" you mentioned. NYC also suffers from what I call "SDS". stevenleser Sep 2016 #37
And this is the average cost dflprincess Sep 2016 #27
Nobody MAKES you move to NYC...people WANT to come here brooklynite Sep 2016 #31
Well I'm gay and Blatino so..... UMTerp01 Sep 2016 #36
The other thing is that because of the housing bust its much harder to purchase a home these days UMTerp01 Sep 2016 #32
I was walking on the Brooklyn side of the East River riverfront recently, closeupready Sep 2016 #33
I'm paying $1800 for a studio in Boston. smirkymonkey Sep 2016 #39
Boston is out of control UMTerp01 Sep 2016 #40
It's insane here. smirkymonkey Sep 2016 #41
We are moving toward a total separation of upper and Lint Head Sep 2016 #43
Its almost like Land of the Dead remake UMTerp01 Sep 2016 #45
My city is becoming a condo paradise that are too expensive Lint Head Sep 2016 #77
If I ever move back to the USA permanently DFW Sep 2016 #46
German housing has always struck me as high... TipTok Sep 2016 #56
In the Düsseldorf area DFW Sep 2016 #76
what inflation? pansypoo53219 Sep 2016 #49
At this point in time inanna Sep 2016 #50
This is one reason places like the Triangle area of NC (Raleigh/Durham/Chapel Hill) mnhtnbb Sep 2016 #52
Good thing I hate cities! NT Adrahil Sep 2016 #54
The Rent To Salary Numbers Are Directly Proportional ProfessorGAC Sep 2016 #55
^^^ THIS ^^^ BumRushDaShow Sep 2016 #61
Average. Two-bedroom. Igel Sep 2016 #57
It's not that much less for an average one bedroom or studio but your point about averages is stevenleser Sep 2016 #62
Most people don't need two bedrooms and those that do probably have two incomes Renew Deal Sep 2016 #60
Two whole bedrooms for one salary is asking a lot, huh? DirkGently Sep 2016 #67
That's life in the city Renew Deal Sep 2016 #68
I use my second bedroom for storage. leftyladyfrommo Sep 2016 #69
I have no mortgage, and... meaculpa2011 Sep 2016 #63
The rent is too damn high and the pay is too damn low. Initech Sep 2016 #64
K&R Jeffersons Ghost Sep 2016 #70
This isn't an accurate picture of the costs. WestCoastLib Sep 2016 #72
In some cases yes and in some no. I will look it up but I think the mean and median in NYC are close stevenleser Sep 2016 #75
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