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AverageJoe90

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33. I'm so sorry to hear about that.

Reply to HockeyMom (Original post)

Mon Jun 18, 2012, 12:23 PM

Jun 2012

My dad and I had a fight just this last February over an $80 phone bill, and both of us could have been badly hurt.....the sad thing is, it was actually a colossal fuck-up by the phone company. (I'm still suffering the repercussions of this to this day, and I wonder if I may be going through something similar to PTSD.)

I'm glad you were able to forgive your dad and I've done the same as well. Hope you were able to enjoy the rest of your Father's Day, HockeyMom.......

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Father's Day reflection from a daughter of domestic abuse [View all] HockeyMom Jun 2012 OP

Thank you for this. puts things into perspctive in a good way. robinlynne Jun 2012 #1

Glad you were able to forgive him. eom tawadi Jun 2012 #2

My father left my mother with 5 kids and never came back. I saw him a few times before he libinnyandia Jun 2012 #3

My Grandma was a Widow HockeyMom Jun 2012 #6

. Mojorabbit Jun 2012 #4

I'm balling..... a kennedy Jun 2012 #5

My dear HockeyMom... CaliforniaPeggy Jun 2012 #7

So glad you were able to forgive him. siligut Jun 2012 #8

Thanks for sharing that lunatica Jun 2012 #9

Beautiful post, HockeyMom pinboy3niner Jun 2012 #10

OMG, I got tears in my eyes from reading that! Odin2005 Jun 2012 #11

I got a glimpse of the real man my Dad was HockeyMom Jun 2012 #12

Your post brought a real tear to my eye. Great sentiment and good writing. kayakjohnny Jun 2012 #13

Thank you for this story. I'm bawling too. LiberalLoner Jun 2012 #14

Seriously made me tear up a little there Tommykun Jun 2012 #15

''Infinite unconditional love is the only truth. Everything else is illusion.'' - K&R n/t DeSwiss Jun 2012 #16

... RainDog Jun 2012 #17

I don't know if my dad physically abused my mother cali Jun 2012 #18

Forgiveness is hard when the person who needs the forgiveness won't change or ask for it mythology Jun 2012 #19

I don't blame you. Just because you share DNA with somebody doesn't mean you have to have them in raccoon Jun 2012 #32

This. redqueen Jun 2012 #34

Same situation I faced with my mom. Though truedelphi Jun 2012 #38

I don't know if this has any relevance for you quakerboy Jun 2012 #41

thank you. cali Jun 2012 #43

My dear friend, you did what you had to do Demeter Jun 2012 #20

Thanks. mmonk Jun 2012 #21

You are able to live with yourself as a result of this and not carry it forward. glinda Jun 2012 #22

#43 Thank you Hockey Mom ManyShadesOf Jun 2012 #23

Thanks for posting. My father was a violent alcoholic too. raccoon Jun 2012 #24

That is very inspirational... CoffeeCat Jun 2012 #25

"Vets were not given counseling" I wonder if this was the real problem. Zalatix Jun 2012 #26

This! SaB2012 Jun 2012 #27

I've always wondered if things would be different if men were allowed to talk malaise Jun 2012 #28

I don't know how much talking would help quakerboy Jun 2012 #42

Thank you for sharing. lapislzi Jun 2012 #29

I'm glad things worked out as well as they did; snot Jun 2012 #30

I dont know my dad Garion_55 Jun 2012 #31

I'm so sorry to hear about that. AverageJoe90 Jun 2012 #33

+1 JDPriestly Jun 2012 #35

Thank you so much for sharing libodem Jun 2012 #36

I had super lousy parents...super grand in-laws. Tikki Jun 2012 #37

Thank you to my fellow DUers HockeyMom Jun 2012 #39

Thanks for sharing this politicasista Jun 2012 #40

Right there with you... Javaman Jun 2012 #44

My mother was great kurtzapril4 Jun 2012 #45