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Binkie The Clown

(7,911 posts)
9. Some questions can be dangerous to ask
Wed Dec 7, 2016, 03:55 PM
Dec 2016

If a doting Jewish mother says she want her son to marry a nice Jewish girl, is she being racist, or is she preserving her culture?
If a doting Korean mother says she want her son to marry a nice Korean girl, is she being racist, or is she preserving her culture?
If a doting Mexican mother says she want her son to marry a nice Mexican girl, is she being racist, or is she preserving her culture?
If a doting Native American mother says she want her son to marry a nice Native American girl, is she being racist, or is she preserving her culture?
If a doting white mother says she want her son to marry a nice white girl, is she being racist, or is she preserving her culture?
If a doting black mother says she want her son to marry a nice black girl, is she being racist, or is she preserving her culture?

Pick which point on the slippery slope you want to stop. The be prepared to defend why the previous sentence is not racism, but the following sentence is.

If the Indian Child Welfare Act (ICWA) fights against Native American children being adopted by or placed in foster care with non-Native American parents, to protect their culture, is that racist? What if there were a "welfare act" that prevented Asian children from being adopted by white parents, to protect their culture? Would that be racist? What if white parents were forbidden to adopt a black child, to protect that child's culture. Would that be racist?

If there were such a thing (God forbid) as a Southern culture of white supremacy, where blacks are to be subjugated, should that cultured be respected? If there were such a thing (Allah forbid) as a culture of Muslim male superiority, where women and non-Muslim are to be subjugated, should that culture be respected? If there were such a thing (Gott bewahre.) as an Aryan culture, where Jews are to be exterminated, should that culture be respected?

Some cultures simply do not deserve to be respected. Period. That's life in the real world. Deal with it.

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just say whatever it is you're trying to get at eShirl Dec 2016 #1
I think you've nailed it. Solly Mack Dec 2016 #17
+1 uponit7771 Dec 2016 #31
I think in this country, the biggest problem is North vs South lagomorph777 Dec 2016 #2
it's actually city vs non-city. austin votes like NYC, meanwhile clay, NY La Lioness Priyanka Dec 2016 #7
This, just look at a county map from last election. City vs non-city is the split Amishman Dec 2016 #26
i don't know guy, when the west was enslaving much of the east and causing a few genocides La Lioness Priyanka Dec 2016 #3
Perfect response malaise Dec 2016 #19
thanks hon! La Lioness Priyanka Dec 2016 #29
+1 uponit7771 Dec 2016 #32
. Iggo Dec 2016 #4
Can eastern and western cultures coexist ? TubbersUK Dec 2016 #5
They've been coexisting in this country for a long long time with few problems. shraby Dec 2016 #6
Cannibals and vegetarians ? n/t left-of-center2012 Dec 2016 #8
Some questions can be dangerous to ask Binkie The Clown Dec 2016 #9
And some people pretend to know cultures deserve a lack of respect LanternWaste Dec 2016 #13
Culture and society are connected though.. JHan Dec 2016 #18
You might be right, but... Binkie The Clown Dec 2016 #30
Yes, no, and no FarCenter Dec 2016 #10
You are referencing the historical concept of Acculturation. LanternWaste Dec 2016 #16
I suppose so, but acculturation between cultures, rather than acculturation of immigrants FarCenter Dec 2016 #21
Republicans and Democrats will NEVER reach peace. It's a civil war. And I'm fed up with RKP5637 Dec 2016 #11
Simple answer: Any human problem may be solved with a human solution. LanternWaste Dec 2016 #12
Do you have a link to the other thread you referred to in your OP? inanna Dec 2016 #14
Thx Rustyeye77 Dec 2016 #28
Depends on what you mean by "incompatible." Warpy Dec 2016 #15
They either coexist or both lose. MineralMan Dec 2016 #20
Rome and Carthage could not coexist. Rome won. Carthage lost. AngryAmish Dec 2016 #22
Here in Canada True Dough Dec 2016 #25
Well Run DMC and Aerosmith worked together :) snooper2 Dec 2016 #23
Cultures are a fluid construct that depend on the practicers of that culture at that time - haele Dec 2016 #24
The Gun Culture is incompatible with a modern society. Hoyt Dec 2016 #27
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