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37. Good For You!

Thu Dec 29, 2016, 04:01 PM

Dec 2016

Men like this guy are bullies, but for the most part, if challenged they'll tuck their tail between their legs and accuse their challenger of behaving rudely and speaking "offensively" for calling them on their bullshit. The response is like the old SNL Church Lady. They live in their Fox Fantasy World in which everybody in America support this crap and the orange cretin won the selection in a landslide vote, so hearing from someone like you step of up defend his victim while putting him plainly on his ass made him see that his world view is not shared by everyone else. I'm sure he expected everybody surrounding him to coalesce to jeer at you and his victim both and when that didn't happen, I expect it pulled him up by the short and curlies. People like this guy and that young nutter woman in Chicago a couple of weeks ago depend on "polite" enablers. When they're not surrounded by them as they expect, they get just a sample of the loathing and contempt a great, great many feel about them and their disgusting so-called *opinions*. Asshats all.

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So I'm in line at the grocery store, and the lady in front of me used Food stamps and the guy in [View all] LaydeeBug Dec 2016 OP

I. Love.You. ismnotwasm Dec 2016 #1

I love you too LaydeeBug Dec 2016 #151

Good for you! K&R. n/t Different Drummer Dec 2016 #2

Way to go!!! blue cat Dec 2016 #3

And I cried madokie Dec 2016 #4

I tried not to cry in front of her...but she knew I was LaydeeBug Dec 2016 #153

two thumbs up !! bowens43 Dec 2016 #5

I also said, "You don't think it's you...you don't think you're the problem. It's you! It's you!" LaydeeBug Dec 2016 #6

Slight correction GeoWilliam750 Dec 2016 #137

touche. nt LaydeeBug Dec 2016 #148

I laughed oldtime dfl_er Dec 2016 #7

You a badass! bench scientist Dec 2016 #8

So proud for you Phoenix61 Dec 2016 #9

not taking it anymore! MFM008 Dec 2016 #10

YES! "These twits and their mean, narrow, maggoty view of the world!" Maru Kitteh Dec 2016 #72

Maybe if I see it, I'll say it, too. We all should, but babylonsister Dec 2016 #211

ha!!!! bdamomma Dec 2016 #11

9 times out of 10. spot on LaydeeBug Dec 2016 #145

You are my hero today. Eliot Rosewater Dec 2016 #12

My Daddy didn't raise no punk... LaydeeBug Dec 2016 #147

and i cried... Raster Dec 2016 #13

As someone who was ridiculed using food stamps once - I know what the ridicule is like. nini Dec 2016 #14

I am so sorry for your experience. Together, we can make this better. LaydeeBug Dec 2016 #144

I know what you mean.. nini Dec 2016 #196

Way to go. Don't let these cretins shame good people. jalan48 Dec 2016 #15

Be careful getting into verbal confrontations with people Yavin4 Dec 2016 #16

They are counting on us to be afraid of them. redstatebluegirl Dec 2016 #21

Enough of the fear mongering, please..... llmart Dec 2016 #123

wrong attitude azureblue Dec 2016 #124

I AM armed-- I carry a purse that many have suggested be registered as a lethal weapon, and niyad Dec 2016 #150

I would love to meet you LittleGirl Dec 2016 #230

it would be lovely if we could. I am glad when I can make people smile. niyad Dec 2016 #247

Same here LittleGirl Dec 2016 #258

fuck um so am I.. stonecutter357 Dec 2016 #158

Good going! KT2000 Dec 2016 #17

I LOVE YOU! redstatebluegirl Dec 2016 #18

+10000! Can't wait until the situations presents itself to me as I will not hold my tongue nt iluvtennis Dec 2016 #71

I LOVE YOU TOO! LaydeeBug Dec 2016 #156

You made me cry too! lunatica Dec 2016 #19

I recommend you for your actions. guillaumeb Dec 2016 #20

What state still uses 'stamps'? superpatriotman Dec 2016 #22

It was a card. LaydeeBug Dec 2016 #38

Folks still call them stamps. MissB Dec 2016 #52

I still see people with WIC vouchers at stores sometimes. haele Dec 2016 #77

Thanks for the explanation! Lord_at_War Dec 2016 #121

This made my day! brucefan Dec 2016 #23

Loud and proud. Well done. byronius Dec 2016 #24

Thank you Worried senior Dec 2016 #25

My hero! liberalmuse Dec 2016 #26

Everyone - Yes You too - need to stand up for what is right and not let people get away List left Dec 2016 #27

Thank you for your kindness. smirkymonkey Dec 2016 #28

How does anyone these days know who is using SNAP? demmiblue Dec 2016 #29

I agree tapermaker Dec 2016 #45

Of course you think that, dearie. n/t demmiblue Dec 2016 #46

the cards are (purposely) easy to identify n/t snpsmom Dec 2016 #49

I have one and it's not easy to identify. It looks and works like a debit card. Kaleva Dec 2016 #226

The cards in Texas are easy to identify. They vary from state to state. Lisa0825 Dec 2016 #234

Message auto-removed Name removed Dec 2016 #275

NC and Ohio's cards are both obvious dsc Dec 2016 #239

A lot of people still call them food stamps, even though it's a card. DLevine Dec 2016 #58

I still call them food stamps...what are they called? LaydeeBug Dec 2016 #91

Here in PA they're called snap benefits. DLevine Dec 2016 #96

I still call them food stamps at times awoke_in_2003 Dec 2016 #187

But many states also use them for the child support program jberryhill Dec 2016 #191

Do you usually drop by DU for the express purpose of accusing DU'ers of lying? Maru Kitteh Dec 2016 #80

Apparently so. ailsagirl Dec 2016 #210

People still call them food stamps gollygee Dec 2016 #86

A Card, But You Can Tell erpowers Dec 2016 #125

calling out another du'er is actually frowned upon here. niyad Dec 2016 #154

IF the poster made it up that definitely wouldn't be the way to "make someone feel good about Raine Dec 2016 #168

There are a couple of giveaways. RedWedge Dec 2016 #109

In Pennsylvania, there is no way to mistake the Access card for a credit/debit card Orrex Dec 2016 #113

I guess I am naive. demmiblue Dec 2016 #132

Personal bubbles vary a lot from area to area. politicat Dec 2016 #272

this. nt LaydeeBug Dec 2016 #184

Easy to Tell erpowers Dec 2016 #129

I know they look different, this is my state's card (called a Bridge card): demmiblue Dec 2016 #140

Probably the Swipe Pads erpowers Dec 2016 #197

Good for you, standing up against a bully like that. DawgHouse Dec 2016 #30

It's a card, but in MD, it's a bright Orange card. LaydeeBug Dec 2016 #40

Wow that's ridiculous that the card is so identifiable. DawgHouse Dec 2016 #263

I am pretty sure that most of them are... LaydeeBug Dec 2016 #264

K & R and wondering... LAS14 Dec 2016 #30

I live ina a red area of a blue state. I wasn't in my neighborhood though LaydeeBug Dec 2016 #95

Thank you. That was beautiful. CentralMass Dec 2016 #32

K&R...THANK YOU! spanone Dec 2016 #33

Thank You Gymbo Dec 2016 #34

Proud to have you and your bravery as a fellow DU'er! hamsterjill Dec 2016 #35

I LOVE YOU! nt ThingsGottaChange Dec 2016 #36

Good For You! Texin Dec 2016 #37

Remind them that Fox News is owned by a Foreigner and a Muslim. FACT. nt LaydeeBug Dec 2016 #41

Good on you Laydee. We appear to be entering another Reagan age. Me! Me! Me! Tarheel_Dem Dec 2016 #39

Bullshit. Reagan didn't get Gorbachev to interfere in or election. LaydeeBug Dec 2016 #44

THANK YOU onetexan Dec 2016 #42

How would he have known? Uggwearingdad Dec 2016 #43

Yep. He eagle eye spotted her card because I was reaching into my cart and putting my things on the LaydeeBug Dec 2016 #47

Most are pretty distinctive looking. They are made to be that way. Lochloosa Dec 2016 #54

Shall we do state EBT/SNAP card pics....? Uggwearingdad Dec 2016 #207

Nah...see post #113 LaydeeBug Dec 2016 #246

When I was on snap, I had to tell the cashier before I could swipe the card. DLevine Dec 2016 #63

Not buying it.....sorry. Uggwearingdad Dec 2016 #141

You are replying to your own post. DLevine Dec 2016 #160

I did no such thing.."..calling her a liar.."...I said I'm not buying it. Uggwearingdad Dec 2016 #176

Obviously many of us have had a much different experience than you. nt DLevine Dec 2016 #180

which is the same as saying I am lying. LaydeeBug Dec 2016 #248

If I said you were lying I would say you are lying...exactly like that...no grey, I'd say it. Uggwearingdad Dec 2016 #268

Sorry. You don't get to have it both ways. Saying you don't buy it is the same LaydeeBug Dec 2016 #271

You don't make the rules though do you? Uggwearingdad Dec 2016 #276

Conflate much? LaydeeBug Dec 2016 #277

I NEVER said what you've put in quotation marks, and you can't show I have... Uggwearingdad Dec 2016 #278

Yes. You did. LaydeeBug Jan 2017 #279

Link it....it's JUST.THAT.SIMPLE. Uggwearingdad Jan 2017 #281

Read your posts. LaydeeBug Jan 2017 #282

Or..you provide a link to your claim...I typed my posts....I know what they say. Uggwearingdad Jan 2017 #283

Nope. Just read for context. LaydeeBug Jan 2017 #285

Just read it. It's that simple. LaydeeBug Jan 2017 #287

Need a declared enemy..... Uggwearingdad Jan 2017 #290

Nope. LaydeeBug Jan 2017 #291

Really?? Let's see how that works in any Court... Uggwearingdad Jan 2017 #292

Yup. REALLY. LaydeeBug Jan 2017 #293

Who decided we are at war with Russia or called them enemies? Besides Romeny in '12? Uggwearingdad Jan 2017 #294

They decided we are at war with them when THEY committed an act of war against the USA LaydeeBug Jan 2017 #301

That is not true. Sanity Claws Dec 2016 #185

2 shopping carts back....really? Uggwearingdad Dec 2016 #205

Who says there were carts? Sanity Claws Dec 2016 #206

If this gets you through....she didn't say there weren't carts. Uggwearingdad Dec 2016 #209

See post # 38 and post #40 LaydeeBug Dec 2016 #245

Laydee said ....That's at least ONE cart Uggwearingdad Dec 2016 #270

Awwww, and yet, it *still* happened, and by now, I think that makes you upset LaydeeBug Dec 2016 #273

Not buying it...if you worked for social services you'd know they changed the design SticksnStones Dec 2016 #241

...but...but...they said, "Shall we compare cards?" Royal *we* and everything. LaydeeBug Dec 2016 #259

Some of the conversations here at DU seem to be unnecessarily hostile of late. SticksnStones Dec 2016 #260

Thank you for that. I don't know how to make them feel better LaydeeBug Dec 2016 #261

I think many of us are feeling all kind of raw nerves, right on the edge... SticksnStones Dec 2016 #262

That's the new card.....new applicants started getting these in the 4th qrtr.. Uggwearingdad Dec 2016 #269

And yet, STILL, you are *WRONG* LaydeeBug Dec 2016 #274

Not wrong....I quoted the linked material...which is included in our work literature. Uggwearingdad Jan 2017 #284

Absolutely wrong, since you are trying to tell me what happened didn't happen LaydeeBug Jan 2017 #286

I never ONCE said it didn't happen and you can't show I did....try. Uggwearingdad Jan 2017 #288

What aren't you buying then? LaydeeBug Jan 2017 #289

Good for you. Maybe that asshole will think twice before openly offering his stopbush Dec 2016 #48

How did you know she was in a veteran's family? NT Eric J in MN Dec 2016 #50

ESP? cwydro Dec 2016 #69

Wild guess...but these parts it's a pretty safe bet. Truth is, I didn't know LaydeeBug Dec 2016 #106

Do you have any idea how many veteran's families are on assistance? Pathwalker Dec 2016 #174

Thank you for standing up for her. DLevine Dec 2016 #51

Thank You! deancr Dec 2016 #53

We, as a society indigoth Dec 2016 #55

Excellent. Well done. lpbk2713 Dec 2016 #56

Oh this is *awesome*. Thank you for it. LaydeeBug Dec 2016 #142

Oh dear, I think I have something in my eye.... Useless in FL Dec 2016 #57

Damn! We need more of you! C Moon Dec 2016 #59

Those assholes THINK they are in the majority. They have to be shown they are not. n/t Binkie The Clown Dec 2016 #60

Exactly! Raster Dec 2016 #103

Beautiful. K&R. ck4829 Dec 2016 #61

That's awesome fescuerescue Dec 2016 #62

Bless your heart. Enjoy your stay! nt DLevine Dec 2016 #67

Thanks! fescuerescue Dec 2016 #78

It *IS* awesome..and no one said a word to either one of us LaydeeBug Dec 2016 #107

thanks again fescuerescue Dec 2016 #131

Oh I will...bless your heart LaydeeBug Dec 2016 #165

is there a problem? fescuerescue Dec 2016 #170

I posted the OP. No problem at all. LaydeeBug Dec 2016 #171

Nice work. Turbineguy Dec 2016 #64

What told you she's in a veteran's family? SunSeeker Dec 2016 #65

Didn't need to be told... LaydeeBug Dec 2016 #108

Let me tell you something Coolest Ranger Dec 2016 #66

K&R! Aristus Dec 2016 #68

Excellent! You are my hero. Lint Head Dec 2016 #70

Inspirational- Thank you for your courage! redstateblues Dec 2016 #79

you are freakin' awesome!!!! renate Dec 2016 #73

GOOD. FOR. YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 50 Shades Of Blue Dec 2016 #74

You are my hero. we can do it Dec 2016 #75

THAT is AWESOME!! meadowlark5 Dec 2016 #76

MORE of THIS! world wide wally Dec 2016 #81

Good for You! Leith Dec 2016 #82

You win, LB. moondust Dec 2016 #83

Bravo to you! Vinca Dec 2016 #84

K and a big fucking R! TheBlackAdder Dec 2016 #85

Good Job-thank you for your actions here Gothmog Dec 2016 #87

Wow jeffreyi Dec 2016 #88

These idiot Neanderthals must be shouted down at every possible opportunity! lastone Dec 2016 #89

good job!!!!from another military brat!!! demigoddess Dec 2016 #90

Good for you! treestar Dec 2016 #92

Well, that just made my day. Missn-Hitch Dec 2016 #93

That is just beautiful.... Freedomofspeech Dec 2016 #94

Awesome!!!!! SummerSnow Dec 2016 #97

I know your intentions were good. cwydro Dec 2016 #98

Respectfully disagree Red Mountain Dec 2016 #105

I agree with you. There was no need to "project" it to the entire store. kickitup Dec 2016 #116

Agreed. Ms. Toad Dec 2016 #143

I'm not on public assistance, but I would have been horribly embarrassed had it been me. cwydro Dec 2016 #155

My son and his girlfriend received SNAP benefits before and after their child was born. kickitup Dec 2016 #167

Years ago, I had a part-time job at a grocery store. cwydro Dec 2016 #177

I would agree melman Dec 2016 #152

+1 BuddhaGirl Dec 2016 #189

I would definitely applaud that! Initech Dec 2016 #99

Two thumbs up. stage left Dec 2016 #100

You are a good person. Thank you. nt Chalco Dec 2016 #101

What a beautiful post malaise Dec 2016 #102

Great story. Thanks for standing up. SpankMe Dec 2016 #104

Seems like you could've made your point without screaming and swearing oberliner Dec 2016 #110

LaydeeBug for President! Dave in VA Dec 2016 #111

We can start small, mayor. ffr Dec 2016 #120

Thank you! mchill Dec 2016 #112

You're a Warrior for Humanity! Thank you! nolabear Dec 2016 #114

That's wonderful! RavensChick Dec 2016 #115

I teared up ... Jopin Klobe Dec 2016 #117

God bless you for your courage!!! Hulk Dec 2016 #118

Bravo! MarinCoUSA Dec 2016 #119

Thank you, Ladeebug PlanetBev Dec 2016 #122

We have become so callous in this country. alarimer Dec 2016 #126

Excellent! Tracyjo Dec 2016 #127

And in the end.... Jacob Boehme Dec 2016 #128

to the greatest with you DonCoquixote Dec 2016 #130

I have a feeling this will go viral. Folks, be sure to credit LaydeeBug! Hekate Dec 2016 #133

That tickled me! PatrickforO Dec 2016 #134

Thank you! Buckeye_Democrat Dec 2016 #135

Thank you for being bold Lifelong Protester Dec 2016 #136

Congratulations doggie breath Dec 2016 #138

And I cried too! teezy Dec 2016 #139

Real Patriot Right There Afromania Dec 2016 #146

good for you, LB!!! we cannot allow these bigoted jerks to go unchallenged in their arrogance. niyad Dec 2016 #149

That's so funny! My bestie's initals are LB, and I call her this all the time LaydeeBug Dec 2016 #157

you are most welcome!! niyad Dec 2016 #159

Picture this humbled_opinion Dec 2016 #161

EBT cards can't be used for prepared or hot foods...so LaydeeBug Dec 2016 #182

and you are wrong EBT's are humbled_opinion Dec 2016 #216

Actually, I am not wrong at all, but don't let that stop you LaydeeBug Dec 2016 #222

As stated below in post 231, EBT cards can be used for fast food in 4 states Packerowner741 Jan 2017 #296

The program is only for some who are homeless, elderly, or disabled. DLevine Jan 2017 #297

No I don't LaydeeBug Jan 2017 #300

You accuse the poster of lying just like that other poster did to you Packerowner741 Jan 2017 #302

No I don't, but don't let it stop you LaydeeBug Jan 2017 #304

They are available in FL only for some who are disabled, elderly, or homeless. DLevine Jan 2017 #298

People who use EBT cards know *Exactly* what it can be used for - and it's NOT fast food nadine_mn Dec 2016 #192

No that is not true the rules humbled_opinion Dec 2016 #217

Of course a living wage is important - but not everyone can work nadine_mn Dec 2016 #231

Yes, damn those useless eaters! Where are their bootstraps! DLevine Jan 2017 #299

I guess they ate them ... LOL.. n/t humbled_opinion Jan 2017 #303

K&R! stonecutter357 Dec 2016 #162

Great Job! Caliman73 Dec 2016 #163

You're the absolute best! nt Raine Dec 2016 #164

we are going to need to be loud and proud DonCoquixote Dec 2016 #166

What state still uses food stamps? Kaleva Dec 2016 #169

Many of us still call them food stamps. We know it's actually a card. nt DLevine Dec 2016 #173

My SNAP card looks like and works like any debit card Kaleva Dec 2016 #223

PA Access cards are a solid blue-green background with ACCESS written in bold, DLevine Dec 2016 #232

You sound like one helluva woman! JPPaverage Dec 2016 #172

So proud of you, LaydeeBug! ailsagirl Dec 2016 #175

I applaud and salute you Docreed2003 Dec 2016 #178

I absolutely love you BlancheSplanchnik Dec 2016 #179

I can't believe this! Guys!!! You are awesome and I feel so good for LaydeeBug Dec 2016 #181

Awesome job!! PatsFan87 Dec 2016 #183

I would have joined in with you my friend. I would be pointing my finger directly at him YOHABLO Dec 2016 #186

And they don't want to help people. calimary Dec 2016 #199

They will give you Luke. We will give them Matthew. LaydeeBug Dec 2016 #249

I wish it were Luke - more than what we usually get from them: a Leviticus mentality. calimary Dec 2016 #265

They should really ask whether they follow the Old Testament or the New one. LaydeeBug Dec 2016 #266

Run for office Sucha NastyWoman Dec 2016 #188

Maybe you weren't being a lady but you sure shoved a bug up her ass. Auntie Bush Dec 2016 #190

These selfish, cold-hearted shit-heads NEED to be confronted. calimary Dec 2016 #193

... UTUSN Dec 2016 #194

Beautiful Uponthegears Dec 2016 #195

Stand up, stand out, and shout!!! benld74 Dec 2016 #198

We ARE stronger together! Madam45for2923 Dec 2016 #200

Bravo !! Dawgman49 Dec 2016 #201

BLESS your beautiful soul heaven05 Dec 2016 #202

PROUD OF YOU! blue sky at night Dec 2016 #203

Good for you, we all need to stand up to these assholes liberal N proud Dec 2016 #204

Bravo LadyBug jodymarie aimee Dec 2016 #208

I feel like I am watching " Invasion of the body snatchers " as I come in contact with geretogo Dec 2016 #212

Wow! Good for you for leveling a clear-eyed response he couldn't miss! FailureToCommunicate Dec 2016 #213

Good. It's time we do that all the time Feeling the Bern Dec 2016 #214

You are a true American. roamer65 Dec 2016 #215

I am so glad people like you are out there. Big hugs to you, ladeebug! AgadorSparticus Dec 2016 #218

You are an incredibly brave and wonderful person! dae Dec 2016 #219

Thank you!! denvine Dec 2016 #220

Awesome! jimlup Dec 2016 #221

The lady was probably using WIC coupons and not food stamps Kaleva Dec 2016 #224

It was the bright orange card...I don't know what they're called. We call 'em food stamps. LaydeeBug Dec 2016 #228

good for you barbtries Dec 2016 #225

Good for you Lotusflower70 Dec 2016 #227

Haha! Love it! True_Blue Dec 2016 #229

It's no wonder so many food stamp leftyladyfrommo Dec 2016 #233

Yep. Or that they're dressed nicely... LaydeeBug Dec 2016 #235

Speak up Johnny2X2X Dec 2016 #236

GOOD FOR YOU LaydeeBug!!!!! GOOD FOR YOU!!!! onecent Dec 2016 #237

You've just moved to the top of my list of future wives. Big_K Dec 2016 #238

A safety pin moment Bucky Dec 2016 #240

I am not sure what a safety pin moment is, but am shocked at the response here LaydeeBug Dec 2016 #242

wearing a safety pin to indicate that one is "safe haven" if someone is being bullied or niyad Dec 2016 #250

This is an amazing idea, and something I hadn't heard of LaydeeBug Dec 2016 #251

the safety pin idea started in britain after the insane brexit vote. and I would guess that niyad Dec 2016 #252

The safety pin movement started right after the election... Bucky Dec 2016 #257

It showed manyhow to do the same malaise Dec 2016 #267

I asked you in another thread what you meant (in a practical sense) by 'fighting back' FiveGoodMen Dec 2016 #243

There is no good answer to "fight back" when they own or run everything LaydeeBug Dec 2016 #244

Excellent! Mountain Mule Dec 2016 #253

God Bless itcfish Dec 2016 #254

you too. Thank you. LaydeeBug Dec 2016 #256

My one and only issue with food stamps is that it perpetuates Medicaid expenditures.f MadDAsHell Dec 2016 #255

This is a strawman LaydeeBug Jan 2017 #280

As the father of a naval officer, thank you. Packerowner741 Jan 2017 #295

As the daughter of an Army Officer, you are most welcome LaydeeBug Jan 2017 #305