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GaYellowDawg

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25. I agree with the general idea here, BUT...
Sat Jun 23, 2012, 02:43 PM
Jun 2012

If your post read "people 'can't believe' that someone presenting as a straight married guy would molest boys", etc. then I would feel much more comfortable with it.

Frankly, I would hesitate to call a pedophile either straight or gay. In my mind, "straight" and "gay" are terms that denote orientation to adults of a particular gender. Someone who targets children is just a sick monster - and normal orientations, either straight or gay, don't deserve to be mentioned in the same context.

Now, as to the point where we agree: it's true that homosexuality gets lumped in and associated with pedophilia as a type of sexual deviance by a lot of ignorant, biased people. I agree that it's wrong.

I do disagree about the whole "manly" thing. I think the inaction about Sandusky is more attributable to athlete worship in our society than him being "manly." If he'd been a "manly" construction worker, then he would have come under suspicion and convicted a whole lot sooner. The biggest problem here, in my opinion, is that Sandusky ran wild because he was under the aegis of Joe Paterno's power and influence (that influence reaching far beyond campus into the community). Justice is far from equal in this country, and this is another manifestation of that.

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I think there may be another reason too SoutherDem Jun 2012 #1
Yes, that's yet another way homophobia helps protect people like Sandusky. Lex Jun 2012 #2
Sandusky is NOT STRAIGHT. He's mentally ill. In common parlance he's a pervert. slackmaster Jun 2012 #3
He identifies as straight and has a wife. Yes and he's a pervert. Lex Jun 2012 #4
I don't care how he self-identifies, because he is not psychologically normal. slackmaster Jun 2012 #5
He was very competent. nytemare Jun 2012 #19
Who said he had a chemical imbalance? The prosecutor's expert said he likely had a psycho-sexual pnwmom Jun 2012 #22
Lots of people pretend to be straight who aren't straight in reality. pnwmom Jun 2012 #11
I hestitate to call him mentally ill. mzmolly Jun 2012 #6
I don't see how someone who engages in that kind of horrid behavior could not be mentally ill slackmaster Jun 2012 #7
While I see your point, the whole "criminality = mental illness" mindset leads to bad places. (nt) Posteritatis Jun 2012 #14
I understand. I can't fathom that kind of behavior, mzmolly Jun 2012 #24
absolutely ann--- Jun 2012 #16
oh, so now you are arguing straight people can't be perverts? closeupready Jun 2012 #18
I have a very specific definition of what constitutes sexually straight orientation. Here it is: slackmaster Jun 2012 #20
Your definition of "straight" doesn't matter. And closeupready Jun 2012 #23
I don't consider "straight-identifying" to be the same thing as factually straight slackmaster Jun 2012 #27
Ok. Understood. closeupready Jun 2012 #28
So: Gay = child molester / rapist ?! KurtNYC Jun 2012 #8
Reread the OP etherealtruth Jun 2012 #12
self-delete pnwmom Jun 2012 #13
Woosh. Not even close. nt Lex Jun 2012 #21
I re-read your post KurtNYC Jun 2012 #29
Great PSA libodem Jun 2012 #9
Your Theory Applies to the Catholic Church Yavin4 Jun 2012 #10
Having Lots Of Power & Influence Doesn't Hurt Either... KharmaTrain Jun 2012 #15
I should have just seconded this instead of replying. GaYellowDawg Jun 2012 #26
Correct, but light years beyond where most people are, closeupready Jun 2012 #17
I agree with the general idea here, BUT... GaYellowDawg Jun 2012 #25
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