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hunter

(40,686 posts)
3. This is a good one.
Sat Jan 28, 2017, 01:27 PM
Jan 2017

My own kids grew up largely privileged like Richard in the cartoon, but not within any kind of bubble.

I grew up in a 99.44% affluent white community and I wouldn't wish that fate on anyone. (My parents were privileged and white, but usually less than affluent. They are artists who had day jobs. We lived where they could find work. Me and all my siblings fled this community as soon as we were able, as did my parents when they retired.)

It seems to me that too many of my childhood acquaintances, the ones who stayed and were "successful," have attitudes like Richard. They think they pulled themselves up by their own bootstraps and hard work. A few consider Ronald Reagan a saint. They don't understand why Paula doesn't do the same.

My children grew up in neighborhoods where white people like their dad were not the majority. The majority of our neighbors are first, second, and third generation Mexican American like their mom, and bilingual. The rest of us are white, black, and Asian, in fairly equal numbers. It pleases me immensely my kids are very cognoscente of the racism, sexism, and homophobia of straight white U.S. tradition. It pleases me that they have an entire rainbow of close friends.

It's possible to be progressive and liberal in affluent white U.S. communities, but it takes some work to understand the barriers those without white privilege must overcome. An easy empathy is not enough.

There is also the class issue. Wealthy people, no matter their sex or their color, seem disconnected from the rest of us. They've never struggled to pay for groceries and the rent, they buy their automobiles with cash, they've never had their electricity, water, or phones shut off for non-payment, they've never suffered a bad tooth because they can't afford a dentist. Many people privileged with wealth are blissfully unaware of the problems many Americans deal with daily.

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Recommended. guillaumeb Jan 2017 #1
K&R Sherman A1 Jan 2017 #2
This is a good one. hunter Jan 2017 #3
It's also to see where privilege fragility comes from MrScorpio Jan 2017 #6
During W's reign... llmart Jan 2017 #14
Only the willingly obtuse will refuse to get this MrScorpio Jan 2017 #4
Amen uponit7771 Jan 2017 #5
My little nieces are far closer to Paula's situation (only somewhat worse off). Crunchy Frog Jan 2017 #7
Still, "better than Black" is a U.S. tradition. hunter Jan 2017 #15
I agree with your post, but Crunchy Frog Jan 2017 #16
Bullseye lunatica Jan 2017 #8
Great clarity about privilege! Alexander Pope had this line: "Art is nature to advantaged dressed! Akamai Jan 2017 #9
yes, so true heaven05 Jan 2017 #10
If I may add one more example? Crash2Parties Jan 2017 #11
Democrats are grateful and Republicans feel entitled Hamlette Jan 2017 #12
I can tell this one hits the mark. Rex Jan 2017 #13
Excellent! K&R. Dark n Stormy Knight Jan 2017 #17
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