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Bettie

(19,573 posts)
18. Greed
Mon Feb 27, 2017, 07:46 AM
Feb 2017

Not always for money, but for things they perceive others to have.

It angers them when people appear to be happy in a way that is different from their lives. They don't like or understand why others "get things" that they don't feel they have, even if they are things they don't want.

They are Aesop's dog in a manger.

They also have a strong feeling that they are "paying for everyone else", even though it isn't really true. They have been convinced (by hate radio, Faux, etc.) that they are being victimized by those who have less than they do, those who are members of unions, those who are not heterosexual and still get to marry, those of other races who have civil rights...the list could go on and on, but they believe that others have things they don't, both tangible and intangible.

Oddly, they tend to hate everyone but the very wealthy, because in their black little hearts, they believe that they would be those very wealthy people if only others did not have "special rights", by which they mean basic human rights.

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I think it's an abusive mentality Chiquitita Feb 2017 #1
Agree. Same dynamic as domestic abuse or many other kinds of abuse. Amaryllis Feb 2017 #9
Sorry, but it's far more complex, and for most the OP is wrong. Hortensis Feb 2017 #19
They have gigantic amygdalas, so much fear that they don't give a crap about anybody else. lagomorph777 Feb 2017 #22
Conservative altruism extends to smaller groups, Hortensis Feb 2017 #43
Definitely it is! Well said! Some just love hatred, it's the essence of their being and what RKP5637 Feb 2017 #30
It's very puzzling, and it's become worse over the last 20-30 years. The Velveteen Ocelot Feb 2017 #2
I think AM hate radio has a lot to do with it. Initech Feb 2017 #6
Yes, the radio show hosts are incredibly nasty Mariana Feb 2017 #8
That and cable news. We used to all get the same news before the internet. Amaryllis Feb 2017 #10
Hate radio. CrispyQ Feb 2017 #38
You are correct, Crispy. musette_sf Feb 2017 #44
In my memory it shifted in a big way toward mean-spiritedness as a badge of honor with Gingrich JudyM Feb 2017 #39
Authoritarians are into punishment. KittyWampus Feb 2017 #3
Just so long as the authoritarians themselves aren't being punished. meow2u3 Feb 2017 #5
Their leader hasn't told them no. Initech Feb 2017 #4
I believe that has to do with intimidation RickHworth Feb 2017 #7
It's a sick manifestation Cirque du So-What Feb 2017 #11
Right on target! raccoon Feb 2017 #16
"Brainwashing: The Science of Thought Control" GeoWilliam750 Feb 2017 #12
because they think that's how "winners" act. TeamPooka Feb 2017 #13
They've been influenced to give up empathy by seeing others as The Other lostnfound Feb 2017 #14
part of it has to do with Trump's own failures JI7 Feb 2017 #15
Trump was just speaking for them radical noodle Feb 2017 #41
Because they assume everyone is just like them. Dulcinea Feb 2017 #17
Greed Bettie Feb 2017 #18
Spot on... Docreed2003 Feb 2017 #34
Revenge! That is what I read in all the comments. leftyladyfrommo Feb 2017 #20
I am working on a paper now called "The Age of Revenge Politics" RadiationTherapy Feb 2017 #36
there are two types of people in the world... Javaman Feb 2017 #21
Yep. Dulcinea Feb 2017 #24
Because that is WHO they are and Trump told them who HE was, it's that simple. NotThisTime Feb 2017 #23
Amazingly Proud Liberal Dem Feb 2017 #26
I know, right Proud Liberal Dem Feb 2017 #25
My hypothesis is d_r Feb 2017 #27
It's a learned behavior. kentuck Feb 2017 #28
Simply put. And accurate. Kimchijeon Feb 2017 #40
It's in their unpleasant souls: Dem2 Feb 2017 #29
They thrive on it Lotusflower70 Feb 2017 #31
They feel free to unleash their inner demons Jake Stern Feb 2017 #32
They go out the ego door of compensation of cruelty. vlyons Feb 2017 #33
I have three Trump trolls in my FB collective & the two religious ones are the meanest. CrispyQ Feb 2017 #35
They're chronically angry. Aristus Feb 2017 #37
The answer lies in every "they." nolabear Feb 2017 #42
Because that's partly what makes them conservatives. OnionPatch Feb 2017 #45
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